The idea that only a man should take the initiative in a relationship gradually fades into the past. But the knightly ability to conquer hearts genetically in women is not invested, it needs to be learned. And so want to find a place where the conversation begins by itself! There are several places to meet a man. Immediately it is worth noting that the choice of location must correspond to personal interests. The woman who came to the exhibition of carburetors, without having the slightest interest in them, looks ridiculous. Yes, and how to live with a person, having completely different interests?
There are four places where you can easily chat. Each has its pros and cons. Statistics of successful dating shows something like this rating:
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party with friends; - workplace;
- interest club;
- travels;
- The Internet.
party with friends;Party with loved ones
This may seem strange, especially if the circle of communication includes either relatives, those who have already found a couple, or those who are not at all regarded as a future spouse. But relatives and friends also have acquaintances, among whom there may be very interesting personalities.
You can often hear that no invitations are coming. Usually the reason is that close people get used to hearing the refusal of an invitation to get together. It should be more attentive to the family. In addition, you can gather friends on your own, and even better create a tradition to hold together at least a couple of days a month. Someone might open up on the unexpected side. With the help of friends, you can expand your social circle and receive invitations to other meetings.
The advantage of this type of dating is that these people have passed a kind of filter - they are not just strangers, but friends of those who are already close. The situation simply requires to meet and talk. Otherwise, what would a person ignore a hospitable and charming hostess look like?
Of course, there are also disadvantages. First, it takes a lot of time. After all, to expand in communication, you need to pay time and attention to different people. Interest must be sincere, otherwise the situation looks very different.
Secondly, there is a chance to “cross the road” to someone from friends or relatives who are also interested in a particular person. Of course, everything is decided mutually, but an unpleasant story can ruin relations with relatives for a long time.
Job
According to statistics, work takes second place in successful acquaintances. Here it is easier to get to know a person from different sides, to see how he makes decisions. In addition, marital status is usually not a secret to colleagues, so that surprises are minimized. To this category of dating can be attributed educational institutions.
Usually in the workplace or in the stream, everyone knows each other. If not, you can start by smiling to someone who often (accidentally or intentionally) meets. From a smile, you can go to the greeting, then ask for help or offer it. Corporate parties, a student party or just a lunch break - a great opportunity to go on the "non-working" conversation.
There are drawbacks to this way of meeting. First, the rumors in the team. Fables embellished by every gossip can ruin a reputation. Someone can pursue a goal by all means spoil the relationship. Secondly, a service romance can distract from work, and a reprimand from a boss or dismissal does not create romantic sensations. Studying the same situation. Thirdly, if the relationship does not develop, you still have to see each other every day or be puzzled by the search for a new job or school.
Interest club
This is suitable for women who already have some kind of hobby, but do it alone. It is worth looking for like-minded people to start at least in social networks, and then in your city. It may seem surprising, but even in the club of violet lovers you can find an interesting person to talk to.
The general hobby is wonderful. You can find a lot of topics for conversation, it is easy to understand what to interest and what to donate. But it may be difficult to move from a hobby to more personal topics. In addition, you can meet a man so absorbed in his passion that in his life there is no room for a serious relationship.
Travels
New places and events make it easier and more open to new acquaintances. Talking to a man on the street is one thing, and starting a conversation on a train is another. Having met with the countryman far from home, one can feel an almost related relationship. There are plenty of options to get acquainted: from an offer to drink tea in a compartment, to a joint visit to museums or exhibitions.
Romance change place gives extraordinary ease and ease. Easy to meet and talk. But resort romances often end with vacation. Of course, this does not always happen, but often. You need to be very insightful and still ready for such a conclusion.
the Internet
Meet the soul of the world in the network is not so difficult. Communication on forums, on social networks or on dating sites happens by itself, because people go there to chat.
Communication by correspondence is much simpler than in life. If it is difficult to write to personal messages first, you can put a “like” mark under the photo or comment on some entry. If a man already has a beloved, usually it is visible immediately. So weed out the unnecessary contingent is not difficult.
But we, unfortunately, do not live in the world of honest people. On the Internet, you can easily stumble upon a cheater. A person can impersonate another, and this is not easy to verify. Of course, you can use the video call, but this is only a chance to see the appearance, not the person. You cannot trust the word “free” in the column devoted to marital status, either. There are married men who are flirting on the side; there are fraudsters who steal the personal data of unsuspecting women and mentally unstable people. This is also important to remember.
It is not enough just to want to meet a man for a serious relationship. You need to be an interesting conversationalist, set aside time to visit places where you can communicate with different people and be prepared for possible risks.
