How to meet a man to build a serious relationship

Every woman dreams of having a reliable, caring and loving companion. But where and how to meet a man for a serious relationship? Further in the article you will learn about the intricacies and secrets of such acquaintances.

What do we have to do?

So, you firmly decided that loneliness is not for you. Then you should not sit and wait for the "prince on a white horse" to appear himself. Act:

Decide on your desires. You must clearly understand what kind of man you want to meet. Speech is not about appearance, but about temperament, character, level of upbringing, security. Think about who you want to build a relationship with? With a creative man, military, businessman, good-natured, home? Set priorities.
Be ready. When you go out of the house, put on attractive, but not provocative clothes, do the styling, apply light refreshing makeup. Do not forget about manicure and pedicure too.
Smile A happy woman attracts pleasant events in her life. In addition, the happy face of men like much more than evil or sullen.
Start visiting places for dating, pay attention to passers-by men.
Learn to determine whether a man is free, what intentions he has towards you.
Open up, be yourself. Let the man know that you are serious. Do not wear the "carefree frivolous girl" mask just to please.
Do not hold men who are not very interested in you. Look for someone who will truly be fascinated and ready to express their feelings. You deserve it!

Advice of the author. Big mistake to make the search for a man the meaning of his life. First you need to learn how to be happy by itself. Otherwise, what can you offer a man? Believe me, he does not at all strive to solve the problems of even a very attractive stranger, he does not want to fight with her complexes. He, too, has the right to happiness, is not it? Therefore, looking for a man for a serious relationship, do not forget about working on yourself. Become feminine, good housewife, develop your talents, improve your appearance, and the right man will definitely appear!

Where to find a man for a relationship?

Many women are lonely for a long time only because they are almost never. But a man will not come to meet you at home. You must give fate a chance. As a hint, use the list of popular places to explore:

business training;
courses, lectures, master classes;
exhibitions, art galleries;
concerts, entertainment events;
gym;
cafes and restaurants during business lunches;
hiking tours, excursions;
dance sections;
dating clubs;
specialized sites on the Internet;
social networks;
chat roulette.

Council Try to analyze what a man might be interested in for you. What places can he visit? Perhaps these are art galleries, motorists' meetings, football matches, equestrian sports, etc. Gather confidence and go there. As a last resort, take a girlfriend for the company.

How to understand if a man is free or not?

The absence of a ring on the right ring finger does not mean that the man is not married. Firstly, it is easy to remove. Secondly, many men practice civil marriage, without rings and other classic paraphernalia. In the case of cohabitation, passport check will not do anything. Moreover, such a request would scare away even a free man.

What remains for women? Hope for fate, blindly believe a man? No, somehow I do not want. Fortunately, this is not necessary. There are several sure signs that a man is free:

He easily stays late at meetings. A free man is in no hurry to go home, inventing all sorts of pretexts.
He is not afraid of unplanned trips on weekends (especially holidays).
He invites you to his home. The situation in the home is clearly bachelor.
He enthusiastically talks about his achievements, thereby emphasizing the attractiveness for a partner.
He is not afraid of public places and events.
He calmly responds to calls and SMS.
He introduces you to his friends and relatives.
He has a social network page with photos and notes corresponding to the life of a bachelor.

With all 8 signs, you can calm down: the man is clearly free and interested in serious relationships. Try to figure this out as soon as possible. In the opposite case, you risk clinging to the married cheater, and you will be doomed to the role of a mistress with minimal chances for a happy outcome.

How to make an acquaintance first?

A woman does not have to wait for the initiative from a man to meet. This does not mean that you need to approach, and openly take it "in turn". No, it is enough for a woman to show her interest, and sometimes just to draw attention to herself:

throw a few flirty looks (for a few seconds each);
smile to the man;
fix hair or clothes;
ask an ordinary question (for example, "what time is it?");
ask for help;
“accidentally” touching his shoulder, and then apologize, etc.

You will be surprised, but many men do not dare to get acquainted just because a woman is too busy, indifferent or tired. Who is pleased to be rejected? No one. Therefore, if you want to know the man closer, make it easier for him to task - show your location in any way possible.

Why don't serious relationships add up?

Sometimes it happens that a man seems to be serious, and a strong relationship cannot be built. Consider the most common mistakes that prevent women:

Manifestation of character strength. Men do not tolerate rivalry with a woman. For a relationship to take shape, a strong woman should learn to give in, to show character and a softer will (by request, advice).
Playing the role of "daughter", "mother", "diva", "mistress", etc. Some women are used to hiding under the mask, believing that they look more interesting and more attractive. Sure, it is. But even the most interesting performance is boring. Any man wants something human, real. So be yourself - funny, sometimes tired and angry, affectionate, multifaceted.
The lack of a clear position. We are treated as we allow. If a woman is repeatedly cheated, betrayed, insulted, then the share of guilt lies with her. Entering into a relationship a man, you need to make it clear what is permissible for you and what is not.
Rush. It is common for a woman in love to finish drawing attractive features to her chosen one. But after a time, the man begins to not match the fictional "ideal". To avoid this, a man needs to know well. It is desirable not only with words. For a man must speak his actions.
"A man must." Sure, should. His wife, children, parental family. At the initial stage, a man looks at a woman and assesses her in the same way as she does him. If the relationship has only requirements, but no dedication, nothing happens. Show your positive qualities and you will be reciprocated.