Family quarrels can arise for many reasons, but very often the reason for the next scandal is the stubborn unwillingness of the husband to help his spouse to perform household duties. Instead of washing the dishes and making her life a little easier after dinner, prepared by his wife, he comfortably sits at the TV, while scattering socks all over the apartment.
At first, young wives agree with this turn of events, especially if they do not work, and take on their fragile shoulders and washing, and buying food, and cooking. But over the years it becomes hard to do all this alone, especially with the advent of children, and the husband does not want to take the initiative - he has long been accustomed to this situation.
The wife can solve these elementary problems herself by applying a few cunning tricks to her lover, otherwise this may cause a crack in the relationship and even divorce.
It is best to teach your husband to help from the first months of marriage, unobtrusively asking for help, for example, to go to the nearest supermarket and buy groceries on the list. Take out the carpet on the street or help with the washing up. And then reward him with praises and admiring glances for such hard work. You have to allow yourself to be weak, sometimes to be ill or tired so that he takes care of his beloved, and then this rhythm will simply become a habit.
But if time is lost, and the man begins to behave like a pig, you do not just have to accept this, but it’s worth taking up your blessed one. Immediately it is necessary to forget about the screams and reproaches, the scandals will only lead to a complication of the situation. All requests should be announced in a sweet voice, with a slight gasp and show how weak you are.
Sometimes effective is the method of training for homework against his will. For example, she simply ceases to cook, clean and wash him, and does not respond to attempts to start a scandal, especially for women who are financially independent.
Gradually, the man becomes accustomed to providing himself with necessary food and clean things, neatly hanging up suits in the wardrobe, which used to lie in heaps or couches in groups, and in passing he would recognize the true works of such simple things.
And an extreme case, if nothing else helps - you can think of an imaginary illness for yourself, which does not allow you to play the role of a cook and a cleaner. Let your beloved spouse take care of your half.
