Jealousy is one of the main manifestations of a person's indifference to a partner. If a man is jealous, it means that he is in love - many ladies hold this opinion, but it is not completely fair. The fact is that jealousy is rather a manifestation of a sense of possessiveness, but it also has its advantages. How to make a guy jealous, and what changes in the relationship it can bring?
Ways to wake up male jealousy
Making the lover go crazy because of his own instinct of the owner is not difficult, but it is still important to act wisely so as not to ruin the relationship. If a woman really meets other men, trying to arouse jealousy in her lover, this will not lead to anything good. What are the ways to awaken jealousy now exist?
- you must always look 100% so that a man knows how his lady is popular with the opposite sex;
- it is also necessary to gently hint to the beloved that there are other aspirants to the ladies' heart besides him;
- sometimes you can take minor gifts from your fans (flowers, sweets), because this best evokes jealousy in a man.
A woman who is beautiful and interesting to the opposite sex will never be ignored by her beloved. Such a man will always know that he has competition, that his partner is able to withdraw at any time. This will be an incentive for him to take care, once again to say about love. However, the partner’s loyalty to the girlfriend can be sure, otherwise, what kind of love can we talk about.
Psychologists believe that overly involved in the awakening of jealousy is not worth it, because excessive paranoia men can destroy happy relationships. However, a sense of competition can spur the representative of the stronger sex, make him pay more attention to the beloved.
It is important not to cross the line. For example, you can tell that at work someone looks after a girl, but she rejects all these promises because of loyalty to her lover. In this case, the relationship will only strengthen, and the girl will emphasize how true she is to her second half.
How to awaken jealousy in an indifferent man?
Sometimes it’s impossible to build a relationship with someone close to a woman’s heart, and then women begin to think of ways to arouse jealousy in her lover. How to make a guy jealous - in fact, there may be several answers:
- first you need to make friends with a potential beloved, but do not come too close, emphasizing their independence;
- in this case, you can demonstratively maintain relations with other guys to make your loved one very jealous;
- the woman also needs to take the attention signs of other men in front of her lover;
- To consolidate the result, it is necessary to show indifference to the heart of a man, to pretend that this relationship is no longer interesting for a woman.
All men are proprietors by nature, and if a woman in love suddenly declares that she is not interested in a relationship, the stronger sex will definitely try to find out why. Psychologists in such situations advise, as long as possible, to build oneself out of touch, to abandon the signs of the beloved’s attention, arousing even more excitement in him.
Do not forget that any man by nature is a player. The more often a woman says no, the more he wants to conquer her. This simple principle has helped many women to build relationships with previously inaccessible partners.
Is jealousy a blessing or not?
Many women believe that it is good to arouse jealousy in their young man, because a man is always in a stimulus. However, there are cases when increased jealousy becomes a problem. Here are just some of them:
- if a man spreads his hands in a fit of jealousy, then there is no need to think about any cases of her awakening of jealousy;
- if the lover loses his temper, scandalously and reacts violently, the awakening of this feeling should be forever rejected;
- if a man suffers from excessive off-set, then the awakening of jealousy can only root the problem;
- if the relationship is on the verge of breaking, then jealousy is also better to wait.
In order to arouse jealousy without threatening one’s own reputation and trust from a beloved one, one must be very sensitive about relationships. There are situations when an innocent flower, presented by a fan, will be perceived with humor. However, there are those days when such a sign of attention will be the cause for scandal.
Psychologists are always advised to find out what is the mood of the beloved man, before you start your zealous plan. Also, do not forget about joking jealousy, and about the oppressive real feeling. If a man received evidence of cheating or flirting a girlfriend with another guy, the relationship may end altogether.
It is also better to forget about the awakening of jealousy in cases where a man shows aggression towards a partner. For such a person, any sign of rivalry is like a red rag for a bull. To eliminate an opponent, such a person is sometimes ready to go on outright nonsense. A woman can also get from a jealous partner, so you should not joke with him.
It is important to know the boundaries in the awakening of jealous feelings in men. Psychologists advise not to abuse this technique, otherwise trust between partners will be irrevocably undermined. Sometimes a woman herself without understanding does everything to kill sincere sensuality and genuine trust in a relationship.
Jealousy can be an assistant in the conquest of men and bringing in some feelings zest. However, to give her too much attention is not worth it. Even if other representatives of the stronger sex pay attention to the woman, wisdom should be shown, because the beloved sometimes does not even need to know about the existing competition!