Perhaps each of us wants to be successful: someone tends to him, and someone sighs about unfulfilled hopes. Anyone has his own idea of success: for some it is an opportunity to afford any benefits of civilization, for others - recognition in scientific circles. And behind all this there is one or another way to achieve the intended one, much of which consists of fighting with oneself, with one’s own weaknesses, which prevent one from succeeding.
A person who has specific goals and wants to achieve them, must have a sense of purpose, perseverance, self-confidence and his abilities. This is the basis of success. And what prevents it from reaching?
1. Fear.
Fear - the first thing that does not achieve success. He can be absolutely anyone (fear of the unknown, failure, difficulties), but his role is clear and clear - he is called to interfere. Fear can play the role of a brake in moving towards a goal, or it can also be a destroyer of undertakings, which, because of it, may not appear at all. Fear turns a person into a weak and weak-willed creature, apathetic and insecure.
What to do? Fight! Try to change your mindset. Your actions depend on how you think. Changing thoughts, you change your views and begin to act differently. Believe in your success, instill confidence in yourself, and you will definitely achieve your goal.
2. Self-doubt
If you do not believe in your capabilities, this will entail failure. Success depends largely on how confident you are of yourself. If this is not overcome, then all your plans will sooner or later be destined to collapse. An insecure person is simply unable to cope with difficulties on the road to success. It can also give rise to the fear of failure, which we talked about above.
3. Insufficient motivation and laziness
If there is no motivation, then any desire to move forward disappears, as a person does not see the point of achieving goals. To restore motivation or create it is not very difficult, but it is extremely important. And here the main thing is not to run into laziness, which can disrupt your plans.
Laziness is one of the most important factors that prevent success. If a person is lazy, then it does not even matter what knowledge he has. He still can not realize himself. So you need to fight with laziness from the very beginning.
Physical laziness, if desired, is easy to overcome, regaining courage. To do this, just relax, do exercises and eat fully. But to fight with apathy (or psychological laziness) is much more difficult. In this state, a person loses any motivation, desire to act, to deal with difficulties. He is able to simply give up and give up. To combat psychological laziness, it is necessary to develop optimism. Changing the pessimistic views on the more optimistic, you gradually want to live, fight, move forward and not lose heart.
4. Skepticism
Prejudice to the new is a huge barrier in any undertaking. Skeptics limit their capabilities, actions, they are closed to change and do not have a flexible mindset. Alertness and mistrust, unwillingness to change the usual way of life is unlikely to make such a person a successful person.
5. Continuing to learn something new.
Having set a goal, any person seeks to achieve it. But for this he has to study a large amount of information. Knowledge is, of course, good, but you need to know when to stop. Many people are constantly learning something, although their accumulated knowledge would be enough for them to realize their goals. And you can continue learning in parallel with practice. So do not focus on gaining knowledge.
6. Inaction.
This factor is related to the previous factor. Having learned something, a person must implement the knowledge gained in practice, but he does not. He continues to study this issue from the other side, and so on until he becomes an expert in a certain field. But the fact is that he can study like this indefinitely, because any area of knowledge is subject to change, there are always some innovations. Therefore, we must immediately begin to take action, and you will accumulate knowledge in your free time.
7. Absence of self-discipline.
Self-discipline is important in any business. If you do not know how to manage your time, your own strength and emotions, then you will not be able to get the desired result. Practice your discipline to get the job started to the end at the right moment.
8. Opinions of other people
Very often the opinions of other people have a decisive impact on human behavior. Therefore, you must be very careful in telling others about your endeavors. Indeed, at an early stage, even a small reproach can lead you astray. So try not to tell other people about your plans. Well, if told, do not take their opinions too seriously.
9. Fear of changes.
When a person begins to strive for something, his life changes. And many people are afraid of these changes. Because of this, they abandon their intended goals and remain "gray mice". Therefore, you should prepare yourself mentally for the fact that your life will start to change for the better.)
10. Lack of commitment and willpower
These two qualities help to realize all the goals and achieve success. If at least one of them is absent in a person, the process can not only slow down, but also stop. Willpower helps us move from dreams to real actions, and purposefulness sets them in the right direction.
These qualities can be developed. Start doing things that have always seemed difficult and impossible for you. Do not just immediately turn the usual life upside down, for a start, limit yourself to something one: let it be morning exercises or waking up with the first rays of the sun. Just do it regularly, without giving doubts and laziness to get in your way. Gradually, your willpower will develop and bring with it a sense of purpose. Tempering character will make you stronger and will be a loyal assistant in the fight against any difficulties.
