How to kiss a girl: tips and instructions for action

Evening, the city calms down and includes night lights. The guy is standing at the girl's house, preparing to say goodbye to her and on the move thinking about: “Just say “bye”? Or have the courage to embrace, peck her on the cheek? And what if you take a chance and touch your lips? How will she react? Suddenly get angry? And if I do nothing, I think that it is inexperienced, indecisive. How to be?!". So how to kiss a girl? How to prepare for such an event and guess that the chosen one is waiting for him too?

How to behave before the kiss

General rules

Before kissing, she probably wants a dose of romance. To kiss a guy for a girl is to trust him. She uses all the time until “X” to check whether the young man deserves her trust.

To live up to her hopes, it is important to monitor your speech and behavior. This means no vulgarity, provocation and aggression, about the former or problems. Instead, better:

be polite and courteous - give a hand, help with outerwear, open the door in front of her, set aside a chair;
listen to her - she will be pleased to spend time with an attentive gentleman. In addition, she “by chance” can share her dreams of a kiss or relationship;
to talk in a positive way, unobtrusively mentioning their strengths (without bragging);
tell jokes - if she sincerely laughs at jokes - congratulations, she is likely to want to go to the next step.

Compliments

The most important thing in the art of pleasant words is sincerity. No matter how good actor a young man is, his darling will surely feel a lie.

Good compliments are always unequivocal, do not cause "left" thoughts. And so that they are not banal, it is better to make them detailed. Not "You're beautiful", but "You have a very elegant and feminine figure.", not "You have a cool perfume", but "I like the sweet notes in your perfume. They fit your character”.

Eye contact

When she addresses directly or begins to tell something important, eye-to-eye contact will be necessary. But even without this, throwing at least rare glances at her is still desirable. Otherwise, she will think that she is not interested and then the chances of a kiss will noticeably decrease.

If the couple finds a common theme, starts to joke, then the “peek game” will no longer seem so complicated.

Touch

Fly to the girl with a bear hug, as soon as she appeared on the horizon, or all the time to squeeze her waist, and even below can not. In the right approach, all movements are smooth and gradual. It is important to give the partner freedom so that she has a chance to take some kind of touch or give it up. What can i do:

during the walk a couple of times “accidentally” touch her hand. If she does not mind, does not move away and does not hide her hand in her pocket, it's time to try to gently take her hand in yours;
invite her to take arm. You can ask on the straight or just put up a bent elbow and smile;
fill her naughty curl by the ear, brush off her eyelash, wipe the spot on her face.

But just before you kiss your companion, you can already openly take her hand, get close. But even at this stage, everything is done as smoothly as possible. Otherwise, she may be frightened, embarrassed and shrink.

How to understand that she is ready to kiss

I hardly want to get into an unpleasant position, trying to kiss the one that does not want it at all. The slap mark will disappear quickly, but shame and a sense of humiliation will not dissolve so soon.

Here is several will take what girl wants to kiss and ready for this:

she looks at her partner's lips, licks and bites hers;
plays with his hair, bares his neck and strokes it;
stares into the face, does not avoid eye contact;
leans closer, lets herself close to her;
for shoulders, chest, face, hair of a guy;
coquettishly looks from under the eyelashes and smiles when crossing the views.

It would be good to analyze and find several such signs at once. Individually, they may be random or mean something else.

How to kiss a girl for the first time

Approximation

Shut up. Look into her eyes. Cut the distance to the step.
Take her hand or gently around the waist and gently pull to yourself or get closer.
Make a short pause. Leave your hands on your waist or gently touch her face.
Smoothly bring the face and touch your lips. Before that, you can quietly say about wanting to kiss her. Most likely she will answer something like “So kiss” or just smile.

Main action

Gently and easily press your lips to hers. Make some short and soft touches in this style.
Wait for her reply. Before that - no pressure.
Start gently wrap her lips with your own.
If all is well and she does not mind, you can lick her lip with the tip of the tongue.
Does she use language too? You can go to the French kiss. Not? It is better to continue the simple technique.

Completion

Was a french kiss? Go simple.
Slow down the pace of movement, pressure force lips.
Gradually move away so that the mouths barely touch each other.
Loosen the hug, slowly push your face away.
Look in your eyes and smile nicely.

Then you can look at the reaction of the couple and, depending on it, continue kissing, say a compliment or take a step back.

Having learned how to kiss a girl properly, when to do it and how to finish it, the guy will significantly increase his chances for a relationship. Of course, you can please your companion with a better and more pleasant second, fifth, thirtieth kiss, but she will remember the first one. And why be nervous and correct later what can be done perfectly from the first time?

How to prepare for the meeting

It is desirable that this was a planned date, then it will be possible to prepare in advance for the “battle”. Better yet, set a meeting place yourself, since not every location is suitable for the couple’s first kiss.

To kiss is to mean for the first time to seriously violate personal boundaries. This means that all the action will be more successful in a comfortable environment, away from the hustle and bustle. To go to this stage of the relationship categorically do not fit:

loud concerts, parties with a crowded crowd;
sports competitions with emotional fans;
home furnishings including ambiguity;
Friendly meetings or gatherings with relatives.

However, You can kiss after the same discos or shows, but after hormones and noisy music in the ears subside. The following kisses, of course, can take place in such conditions, but only when the level of trust is higher, and the embarrassment is lower. And for the first time the following alternatives are suitable: