Probably, before every man is male, whether it is a young man or already a mature man, the question once arose: "How to meet a girl? How to make the girl interested, and the acquaintance had its continuation? "Recently, dating over the Internet is gaining popularity. Of course, it is easier and freer to communicate via the monitor, in the virtual space. But agree that you cannot replace visual communication, live communication how much nicer!
So, how to meet a girl?
- First, you must understand that you can meet anywhere: on the street, in the park, in the shop, etc. It is not at all necessary that in the library you will meet only smart female representatives, and in a nightclub - disguised anemone. If the girl initially interested you, do not miss your chance. In any case, from practice there is an experience in communication and self-confidence. And confidence is an indispensable attribute of a real man.
- Think up some phrase with which you will begin acquaintance. For example, ask if she is waiting for someone, or ask to explain how to get to some building. At the same time speak clearly and clearly, not mumbled. And it is advisable not to approach too quickly, so as not to violate personal space. It is better to stay half a meter, at arm's length.
- Getting started with the correct "you", there will still be an opportunity to switch to a more courageous "you", and perhaps the initiator will be the girl herself.
- Do not ask at the first acquaintance about the age - it is tactless. But if it continues, you will have the opportunity to find out not only how old a girl is, but also the date of her birth.
- Use humor when communicating. No wonder it says that "the most expensive gift of nature is a cheerful, mocking and kind mind." After making the girl laugh, you will disarm her and start informal communication. The main thing is not to overreact and not to fall into sarcasm. Needless to say, communicating can scare.
- Do not be afraid to run into failure. After all, "who does not risk ..." If a girl is frankly beautiful, it does not mean that she is not available. Maybe all her life she had been waiting for someone like you. And if not, then do not worry. Having received a refusal, do not be discouraged - this is only a signal to continue the search. And never be hami back. Remember: negative experience is also an experience.
- Before you start, tune in to a positive wave. Easy and relaxed style of communication will arrange a girl for you.
- Say less about "beloved": the boy - egoist is hardly the subject of dreams of the fair sex. If a girl asks you herself, do not give exhaustive answers, shy away from them. Girls are mysterious creatures, and they themselves love mysteries.
- When addressing a girl during a conversation, as often as possible call her by name. This will give the communication intimacy and will arrange it for you.
- Speaking of compliments, speak them sincerely. Women intuitively feel false and perfectly recognize the lie.
When meeting with a girl - carefully watching her.
One of the basic rules when communicating with a girl is the right choice of the subject of conversation. If you see that the girl's face stretched out and became indifferent - urgently change the subject. To find the right direction, you need to carefully monitor its reaction. This can help you knowledge of sign language:
- if a girl is relaxed, scattered, starts tapping or shaking her foot during a conversation, is inattentive to words, pulls on some object or lowers her eyelids and looks at one point, and not at you - she obviously became bored. And if she crossed her arms, then she wants to stop communicating at all.
- if her gestures are open, the girl leaned in your direction and opened her eyes wide, she was interested.
Remembering the proverb that “the eyes are a mirror of the soul,” we can also note that if a girl is positive, her pupils will expand, and with a negative mood, the pupils usually narrow.
In the process of perception of man by man, and in our case by girl, the formation of the first impression plays an important role. If the overall impression is favorable, it leads to positive evaluations and its unknown qualities. If, on the contrary, the first impression is unfavorable, negative evaluations will prevail. And the acquaintance is likely to end there.
In any case, you need to keep in mind that the girls also want to meet and attract the attention of the guy you like, but do not know how to do it. Many are in search, and maybe they are looking for you. Dare, and you will succeed!
