A happy harmonious marriage is one of the components of a successful life. Each of us needs a family consisting of loved and loving people, a home to which I would like to return. Responsibility for the family hearth at all times fell on the shoulders of a woman. An ideal wife, what should she be?
The commandments of the perfect wife
A girl who wants to create a harmonious family and become for her chosen one the only woman for life, support and support, must learn the basic principles on which successful marriages are built. The commandments of the ideal wife are as follows:
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Wife - the card of her husband.
Wife - the card of her husband.Any man looks at other women and unknowingly compares them with his chosen one. Also, by the way the girl looks like, how she behaves in society, how she is dressed, one can judge about the social status of a man. An ideal wife knows that she is the “calling card” of her spouse, so she always looks great, knows how to keep up the conversation and does not lose at all against the background of other women.
Always maintain a positive image of your husband. Never scold him, do not humiliate, do not make scenes with strangers. Also do not gossip about him with your friends. In society, you should always look good, radiate confident calm and pride.
- Be a mate to your spouse.
When entering into marriage, a woman should understand that there are ups and downs in life. Any of us can experience a personal, creative, or financial crisis. If the black stripe has come in the life of the husband, for the spouse to adequately support him and go through this test with him.
An ideal wife will not blame her husband for the current crisis situation, but will try to help him survive a difficult moment. She will try to find a way out of the situation with him, will support him morally, will not allow him to fade away in his faith in himself.
- Be a good mistress.
If you want to be the only woman for your spouse, you need to be able to replace with yourself all the other girls who could have him. A good wife is always ready to surprise her lover and does not refuse him in the vicinity. If you are lucky enough to marry a loved one, this does not mean that the goal has been achieved and you can relax. Remember the beautiful linen, romantic dinners and dates by candlelight.
Being in the same bed with your husband, imagine that you are with your lover. In an intimate setting, forget that you are bound by common obligations, life, children. In private, you are casual acquaintances who only have a night ahead.
- Maintain the authority of the husband in the eyes of children.
Many women sin by dragging the blanket over themselves in raising the younger generation. The husband is most often busy at work, and the wife is busy. "I am the mistress of the house!" - the woman decides and starts raising children, relying only on her own opinion and ignoring her husband's considerations on this matter. The most common mistake is the situation when the father forbade something, and the mother immediately resolved it, thereby undermining the authority of the father in the eyes of the child.
The task of a woman is to create the right family model in the understanding of children. In addition, ignoring the opinion of the spouse, the wife shows her disrespect for him. A good mother will maintain the authority of the father in the eyes of the child, will never argue with his decision or act condescendingly towards him.
- Create comfort.
Do you know why men get married? Of course, not only for the sake of procreation. At all times, a strong half of humanity has admired the ability of a woman to transform everything she touches into something beautiful. A good wife is able to create comfort even in the most modest apartment and her husband will not linger after working with friends, but will hurry home.
You do not need to invest a lot of manpower and money, it’s enough to keep the house clean, have a hot dinner, obedient children and a loving woman! That's the whole secret!
- Allow the spouse to show their masculinity.
Many women behave as if they were forcibly forced to marry, and continue to make all decisions on their own, tend to lead their spouse and subordinate everything around them to their control. This position is fundamentally wrong. Marriage assumes that you are married, that is, "for the husband"! Think about these words. A good spouse leader position will gladly pass on to his chosen one. He will listen to her advice, but at the same time he will feel like a confident man, the head of the family, and not a henpecked.
A wise woman who does not want her husband to become a weak-willed, boring and inert person will not take on a "male" role in the family. She will allow her lover to show her masculinity and will try to strengthen his self-confidence.
- Always be in good spirits.
Of course, maintaining a positive attitude throughout life is not easy enough. There are situations that even the most optimistic person can knock out of a rut. But most of the time in our lives, nothing happens except ordinary things. It is important to always maintain good spirits and not succumb to despondency. Believe me, even in the daily routine there are many pleasant little things. In the end, you can just rejoice that you have a loving family!
It is difficult to live life with a man who constantly shows his displeasure, is depressed. No man will long hold a marriage with such a woman. A good spouse remembers this and learns to switch their attention from negative points to positive ones, brings joy to the life of her husband.
Wisdom is the core quality of a good wife
The ideal wife shows feminine wisdom in all situations of life. It is based primarily on love and respect for the spouse and to all family members.
Wise woman:
- can listen;
- does not argue, does not provoke conflicts;
- respects the husband's parents;
- not fighting for leadership in the family;
- equally kind and attentive to all family members;
- knows how to convince her husband of being right by kindness and love;
- does not order, but gives advice;
- knows when to keep silent;
- follows her spouse and supports in all situations.
In the modern world, ideas of feminism and equality are more popular. Many girls have forgotten about femininity, their purpose, laid by nature. But any position has the right to exist, everyone gets what he wants.
A wife who tries to make her marriage harmonious, to become wiser and change herself for the better, receives in return a happy family, raised children and a loving spouse!
