How to kiss in a hickey - the secrets of a deep kiss

Tired of the simple "cements", but the French style did not like it? Want to reach maximum depth in intimacy and passion? For such situations, the most intimate kind of kiss is perfect. What does he look like? When and with whom can it be used? How to kiss in a hickey so that your partner feels undeniable mastery and dizzying emotions?

What is a big kiss?

A passionate kiss is the most ardent, temperamental, and even aggressive lip fusion technique. She quickly excites and frankly expresses further intentions. Its characteristic features:

tight compression of the lips, the closest touch with pressure;
lip pulling, “vacuum” effect, frequent sucking;
wider opening of the mouth in comparison with other types of kisses;
constant stroking, strong hugs, the complete absence of statics;
Often - sound (growl, groans, whining);
fast, gusting movements, full of expression.

Despite the stereotype, such an occupation is far away. does not always require the use of language. On the contrary, with such a dynamic pace of its use can lead to injury. And they will turn into a negative experience or even in disgust and a final rejection of such a technique.

Kiss Duration - business of "golden mean". The brief version will look strange and will not have time to stir up emotions. If you practice too long, do not move to more serious steps, or do not change tactics, the beauty of doing things fades away and disappears.

When you can kiss passionately

Big kiss - effective way hint on sex. It would be more accurate to say - to actively push for sex. To answer it is to block your path to retreat. The center of such technology is a bright hot emotion. If she is absent or not strong enough, such a kiss looks inappropriate, dirty, vulgar. Often this sudden kind of kissing is resorted to after:

frank conversations, unexpected confessions;
quarrels and disputes causing “hot passions”;
quiet kisses, smoothly and naturally turning into a more aggressive or passionate form;
watching movies, commercials, posters or reading books, articles with erotic overtones or open sexual promise.

You can go to such a step less spontaneously by creating a romantic setting in advance or specifically bringing a partner to other kinds of caresses, for example.

It is better not to use such a passionate technique with the following types of people:

vulnerable, subtle, very sensitive personalities;
partners, with whom they began a relationship recently;
squeamish, overly careful, pedantic persons;
newcomers to love affairs and relationships;
shy romantics, dreamers, divorced from reality.

Those who are not ready for an intimate sequel are also unlikely to be satisfied after such an exercise.

But gambling, flimsy, curious, passionate and emotional natures will appreciate the kissing passionately as well as possible. If the relationship lasts long enough (more than a year), the boy / girl, too, may not be against such a “kissing” experiment for the sake of diversity.

So, the partner is chosen, the place and the situation also correspond to the recommendations - you can start kissing ... But how?

How to kiss passionately

Determine the distance and pose

The main rule is to eliminate statics altogether. Otherwise there is a risk to get the nickname “frost”, “ice”, “iceberg” or simply “log”. This can be easily avoided. adhering to the tips:

Working with this technique, you can’t just put your hands on her waist or on his shoulders. Hands with such a kiss explore the body of the couple, and not in the most gentle way.
Unpleasant feelings, pain should not be, however, and tenderness in such touches is also small. All movements are solid improvisation and a reflection of the bright release of hormones.
Physical contact is as close as possible. This applies not only to the lips or hands with the arms, but also the whole body.
Occupation gives pleasure, only if the constraint and awkwardness are absent at all. That is why emotional intimacy is so important in this technique.
A kiss can really turn the head. It is better to exercise it lying down, sitting, or in a position in which the partner rests back against a wall or other stable vertical plane.

In short: distances - zero, posture - non-static, movement - with dynamics and passion.

Start right

This type of kiss rarely start with tenderness. On the contrary, with such a technique, partners literally fly at each other, like waves of a stormy sea on rocks. In such cases, of course, emotions act as a storm.

If there was no bright prerequisite for such an acute reaction, can be called “artificially”:

start with a simple kiss, light touches, hugs;
gradually and gradually increase the pressure, amplitude, pace of movements;
gradually reduce the distance between the bodies;
if you want to go to a passionate French kiss;
resort to biting, but better - sucking lips of medium strength;
open your mouth wider (not instantly), when the speed and strength of the kiss reaches its peak, go to the kissing passion.

It is important to understand that the success of this instruction depends on comfort, decor, privacy. If you apply this tactic all the time or in a public toilet, for example, there will be little enjoyment for at least one of the couple.

Do not forget about caution

Since the technique requires sharp, sweeping and sometimes aggressive movements, its careless use increases the risk of injury. Excitement and passion muffle the pain, but sometimes the damage turns out to be so severe that pain becomes the least problem.

How can you avoid or reduce the risk of an “accident”?

Problem	Decision
Teeth clash	Grab the partner's face with your palms during the approach. Tighten and pull the lips forward so that their inner side does not touch the teeth. “Aim” first in the corner of the mouth.
Pumps and bruises	Do not squeeze lips tightly, drawing in skin on areas such as neck, wrists, abdomen and other sensitive areas. You can bite your lips, but you can not “chew” them, strongly delay or stick your teeth with all your strength. If there is nowhere to put energy, it’s better to just tightly clasp your partner’s lip.
"Bear hug	Avoid hugging in the chest area. More power to invest in the palms and fingers, eliminating the intense tension of the biceps-triceps. Watch out for “playful” suffocation - use only one hand, clasp the neck from the back or place the palm closer to the hollow between the clavicles so that only the big, index and middle fingers touch the neck.
Unstable equilibrium	Kissing lying, sitting or with a vertical support. Wrap your partner with your hands, cuddle, but do not lean on him.
Other common problems	Press partner with palms and fingers, but not nails. Do not bend your elbows too much. It is better to line from the shoulder to the brush was soft, semi-circular, and not sharp. Do not pull sharply by the hair. To do this smoothly, while maintaining passion, is quite real.

Change the point of impact

Monotony is boring. In a kiss, I’m passionate about it all the same way, so it’s best to periodically update your movements. This applies not only to force and pressure when touching or compressing the lips, but also:

points - You can kiss the neck, hands, face, any accessible areas of the body as long as the couple does not mind;
technician - the transition to a simple lip pressure or French style, for example;
caress hands - go higher, lower lower, stroke the front or press the back;
touch types - from biting to licking, from light “fluttering” kissing tracks, to a strong lip penetration;
provisions - Start standing, then lean against a wall and move to the floor, for example.

Experiments are welcome. However, it is better to remember the tips from the previous subsection of the article. It is better to be safe once again, but leave only a pleasant aftertaste, instead of bitter regret or even fear.

Listen to partner

During such a deep and close contact it is very easy to forget. For the majority of those who do not like this technique, the partners caused physical pain while kissing without even noticing it, or focused exclusively on themselves.

However, a passionate kiss can bring pleasure, express love and be bright, pleasantly burning, and not predatory or arrogant.

Signs that the partner does NOT like actions and their time to change - he / she:

detaches himself, rests his hands on his chest (not necessarily strongly pressed, but his hands take a defensive position, a person tries to defend himself);
“Swallows” the air too often, turning away, escaping from direct kisses;
trying to talk, while about something completely unimportant, distracting, trying to switch the attention of the couple;
rolls his eyes, looks “glass-eyed”, squeezes tightly and for a long time (often the mouth line is bent at the same time).

If the partner is constantly laughing, and even more giggles, this is a signal of embarrassment. If the bouts of laughter do not end, it is better to postpone this technique until later, when the relationship becomes more trusting.

The main signs of making a kiss I know:

fervent retaliatory steps, sometimes even with greater force;
mirroring of movements, their repetition, active perception;
rapid breathing, dilated pupils, moans and similar sounds, accelerated pulse;
attempts to cling to the body of a loved one, literally “squeeze into it”;
experiments and direct transition to sex (removal of clothes, touching the genitals, etc.).

Knowing how to kiss in a hickey right, you can give your partner an unforgettable experience, reach the maximum level of intimacy and make your couple in just a second. Let this kiss is not for everyone, but its use or acceptance is the best indicator of mutual passion. When this crucial moment comes, I do not want to show inexperience. Fortunately, the article has helpful tips that help beginners to completely get rid of this problem.