A woman blossoms next to a loving man, she radiates love herself, making the world more beautiful. However, over time, any feelings are dulled, a man can cool off, and it is important not to miss this moment in order to be able to rekindle the spark and return love. Men are less emotional than women, and are not inclined to show their feelings, so it is not always possible to immediately understand that a loved one does not behave like before. What signs suggest that a man is no longer so ardently in love with you?
Annoys him all
At the beginning of a relationship, when a man is in love, he may not notice any flaws in the character of the woman or her manner of behavior. But at the moment when love passes, he sees absolutely all the nuances, and he treats them very meticulously. Any little things can irritate him: gait, timbre of voice, intonation - something that you don’t even pay attention to.
This can not be overlooked - even if you try to change your behavior, he will find more and more new reasons for reproaches, without noticing your attempts to improve relations. And he will express his claims without thinking about the consequences, i.e. about your feelings. He will not care that you cry all night. Most likely, he simply cannot say that the feelings are gone, and simply creates all the conditions for you to finish the relationship first.
He doesn't spend time with you.
He no longer calls several times a day to inquire how you are doing; he does not try to finish the work early in order to meet as soon as possible. Him to communicate with you. Now he can stay up late in the office, have fun with friends until the morning, or spend time in the garage - anything but be near.
He no longer makes joint plans. This may even apply to the usual event that you were invited to both. He has no desire to spend a vacation together, not to mention living together.
You are no longer laughing together
If before you could make laugh the same jokes, now there is no such thing. The ability to laugh one another and to have fun heartily brings people together and creates a certain harmony. At the beginning of a relationship, such moments are always present, but when they disappear from life, this is a bad signal.
He is indifferent and does not respond to you.
He does not care about your problems. If at once he tried to prove himself as a man and sought to relieve you from worries, now he is not interested in it, and he prefers not to invest his strength in solving your problems. A man in love tries to surprise a woman, to make her pleasant, to see in her eyes gratitude and love, he will reassure her if any trouble has occurred, even if it is a trifle. A man whom you care about will not find time for this.
Sexual relationships have changed, and you no longer attract him. He has become an inattentive lover, does not try to please you, or avoids sex at all, referring to fatigue.
He is no longer jealous of other men. He does not care that a colleague looks at you with a lusty look, and you have had to stay at a meeting.
He avoids tactile contact.
He touches you less and less. When you try to hug him, immediately pulls away or hugs you back very cold - so that it is impossible not to feel.
If you understand that a man has fallen out of love with you, you should think carefully before starting a “return operation”. Sometimes the woman's pride is so hurt that she, without knowing whether she needs this particular man, begins to fight for him. Perhaps it’s just not your man, thank your destiny for having divorced you in time, and with a confident walk, move on to your happiness.