How to find a girl and not make a wrong choice?

I want to tell a story that I hope will be useful to readers. It is connected with the search for true love, with the search for oneself and one's place in this life. I hope, on my example, many will be able to understand how to act in such a situation, how to find a girl and not make a wrong choice.

I have never been deprived of female attention. Even in childhood, mother's girlfriends always came to the delight of a sweet and intelligent boy. Growing up, I found new friends and acquaintances, girls have always been an integral part of my life. Having reached 15 years, I first connected myself with relationships, but they did not last long. Then there were short intervals when I met with someone, but all this was not serious, perhaps the reason for this was youth, which did not allow me to stay in one place for a long time.

And the friends were the main irony - the years went by, all the friends were already ringed, someone was already waiting for the second child, and I was still working. Honestly, I watched the happiness of my friends through a prism to make, although I said that everything was fine. The time came when I also needed to have a lover who would wait for me in the evening after work, give me warmth and affection.

Relationship benefits

This is primarily:

constant support and support from the second half;
stability and neodinokaya old age;
friend in the form of a beloved woman;
joint budget, double the income;
happiness in the end.

It seems I missed the moment when I had to act, I got used to being constantly alone and getting rid of the habit was very difficult. My first advice that I want to give the same guys, men, like me - do not stay long alone, quickly get used to loneliness. At that time I was 32 years old, and then I decided to act, change my life and finally create a family. I had a well-paid job, my own apartment, but what is the use of it if I do not have a person with whom I could share all this.

Places dating girls

I decided to seriously address this problem and therefore I created a list of where and how to get acquainted with the girl, by the way, he helped me a lot.

Public places

Various cafes and restaurants, concerts and events. Remember that when you intend to meet a girl, you must carefully choose a place. For example, if this is a club, then get ready for the fact that girls there will be appropriate for this institution. Often these are club party girls who spend their lives in music and alcohol. Therefore, do not look there for the lady of your heart; most likely, such relationships will not last long. This method is suitable for young guys who do not want to start a family, but are looking for a girl for a good time.

2. Social networks

Various dating sites, mobile applications with this theme. At this stage of the search, I spent many hours near the computer, reviewing the questionnaires of potential candidates. The method is not bad, especially suitable for people who are busy, who do not have enough time to sit in a cafe. It is also a great option for shy people, it is much easier to communicate in social networks.

3. Friends and acquaintances

When friends found out about my intention to find girls, they decided to help me. But a great initiative was shown by their wives, for them it became a goal to bring me to their lonely friend. At this stage, I visited many dates, some of them were just insane, many of the girls even gave me advice, by the way, for which I am very grateful.

4. Colleagues

Do you know friends who work with you well? I was so immersed in my work that I didn’t even know half of the personnel in my corporation. I met their eyes every day, nodded in greeting, and that was the end of my conversation. Therefore, I advise you to look around, maybe the one is somewhere nearby, and you nod every day to her in greeting.

Fortunately, my search led me to what I was looking for. A wonderful girl, a living dream, who, just like me, was eager to start a family. By the way, she worked in the neighboring department, I saw her every week, but I never thought to come up. Just starting my search plan, going on dozens of dates, I realized that my happiness was always there. It turns out that she liked me for a long time, but she did not dare to approach, which I later made myself. Acquaintance with a girl is not so difficult, the main thing is to make the right choice and, of course, to be his worthy.

Tips for guys

You should behave like this:

be decisive;
understand yourself, understand what you need;
become better, then you deserve this;
do not despair; failure is a common occurrence.

Before you start your own searches, you must be prepared for this morally. It is important to decide what kind of girl you need - just a friend for entertainment and burning through youth or a woman's dream of a lifetime.

Do not leave your goal, do not give up at the first difficulties and do not count on fate. I am not against casual encounters, it happens very often, but, nevertheless, I urge you to be a builder of your own life and not to hope for a chance. Take a look around right now, maybe the girl of your dreams is somewhere nearby, or you will meet her today when you go to the movies with your friends. Act guys, don't give up and win!