Every woman really wants to believe that a man who is handsome to her is experiencing tender feelings for her. How to avoid the temptation to wishful thinking? How not to confuse flirtation with ordinary politeness or kindness? To do this, you need to find out which signs directly tell about the increased interest of the man, and which - not.
Gestures and deeds
Non-verbal signs are usually the first to give out a man in love. Among them is the desire to keep the person of interest in sight. This does not mean that he will look without stopping; while most likely will try not to miss the opportunity to observe. It may even succeed in intercepting his gaze - this may confuse him, or, on the contrary, will give courage.
Another sign - the desire for tactile contact. This may be an attempt to gently embrace or take by the hand. For someone, this may apply to things that belong to a girl.
The body of the guy will be turned to his pretty girl, his legs will be wide apart. He will not cross his arms, but he may pull at the buckle on a belt, ring or any other object. Of course, there are people for whom this is a familiar pose, in this case it is not necessary to evaluate it as a sign of sympathy.
A man will try to involve his beloved in his personal space. This may be an attempt to be alone or a desire to share your personal things: warm your jacket, learn to drive your car.
It is worth considering that these signs can talk about sexual attraction, and not about deep and strong feelings.
Speech and manners
In this regard, men may have dramatic differences in terms of the manifestations of feelings: someone starts to stutter or speak out of place, as he will worry about what impression he will make. The other one will talk a lot, trying to show their best, try to do something to impress.
Good manners are not in themselves a sign of falling in love. However, if a guy manifests them exclusively to one girl, this may indicate that he distinguishes her from the rest, which means that he has feelings. In order not to be mistaken, you need to keep an open mind about how he behaves with others.
If a man is seriously interested in a woman, he will see her in his anticipated future, which means to make common plans. So if a guy is planning a joint trip, holding a holiday or other general pastime, this can be considered a sign of sympathy.
The desire to look better for a loved one - this is what unites men and women. Therefore, if talking with a girl, a man corrects clothes or even purchased something new for a wardrobe, this may be an indirect sign of sympathy. Of course, if this is not the only thing that can be regarded as a symptom of falling in love.
Signs of affection
There are signs that speak of deeper feelings. They usually develop very slowly, and not all girls can or want to notice them. Because of this, sometimes truly loving men remain in a friend zone, and their lover does not know anything about it.
Being in love provokes the production of the hormone of joy, while the part of the brain responsible for criticism is temporarily turned off. So at the sight of the beloved, the man will rejoice, his mood will immediately rise for no apparent reason and he is unlikely to be able to hide it.
The degree of sympathy depends largely on how confident a man is in reciprocity. This is another opportunity to understand whether a man loves - if, in response to a smile, a compliment or a greeting, he did not strengthen the expression of his feelings, then, most likely, one should not count heavily on his sympathy.
When a person develops real feelings, he will be interested not only in the appearance of the girl, but also in her inner qualities. This is quite a rarity, but still occurs. A man will consult, share deep thoughts, feelings and experiences. It will not be a one-sided fountain of emotions. He will try to learn about what his beloved lives, what worries or pleases her.
The desire to communicate as much as possible. Now, even the most shy guy can either write or put a “like” mark on a photo of her beloved in a social network. And if the girl answered or gave reason to think that the desire to communicate is mutual, calls and messages will not keep you waiting. Of course, there are pathologically shy people, but this is a great rarity. Usually, if a man does not call, when he knows that they will be happy to call, he does not want to.
In addition, the man will try to learn as much as possible about the girl, and may try to control her unobtrusively. This is typical of men with a heightened sense of ownership.
Another sign of true feelings is sincere care. It will not necessarily manifest itself in expensive and obviously meaningless gifts, although this is not excluded. It may be the right medicine or fruit during an illness, an insistent demand to put on a hat or a desire to protect from difficulties. So the man will try to make it clear that he is in love.
A loving man will allow in return to take care of him. He will not be angry because the girl asks him to call to find out how he got. He will be pleased that the girl shows attention to him in this way.
Willingness to make sacrifices is the next sign of strong feelings. This does not mean the fulfillment of any whims. In this case, the guy will make an effort to become better, for example, to give up bad habits or change the usual way of life.
The next stage is permission to change something in his life. He does not just let him go to his home, but allows him to change something in his discretion. This is a kind of trap - he wants the girl to be as comfortable as possible with him, and she wanted to come back here.
Interestingly, women often forget about the most important manifestation of sincere feelings - the desire to make happy. So a loving man will not intentionally cause physical and mental pain. Even if a man is in love on all grounds, but continues to deliberately hurt - you should not believe in the sincerity of his feelings. Beats - it means he loves to fight, and nothing more.
