The feeling of jealousy man knows from early childhood. The child likes the toys of his friend, he wants the same and beg them from their parents. As we get older, we begin to envy those who have beautiful looks and clothes, who have success with the opposite sex. At work, we envy the more successful colleagues, in everyday life - those who have a good apartment, a car, a prosperous family. The reasons for the envy of a great many.
Is white envy good or bad?It turns out that black or even white envy is a normal and natural feeling? If envy does not arouse anger and desire in a person to make others worse than he does, then it may even be beneficial.
We often compare ourselves with other people and when they are more successful, we want to achieve the same. But this is not always possible, because all people have different opportunities. And then envy begins to eat us, it does not give us peace. In this case, you need to urgently get rid of it, until you have destroyed your own personality.
The most dangerous thing is when a person does not try to grow up to the level of the object of his envy, but wants him to have some kind of trouble in his life. As in the well-known proverb: "I want a cow to die at a neighbor." If you feel something like this, sound the alarm! Such black envy can suck all the positive energy out of you, undermine your health, scare away luck.
How to get rid of envy?
Indeed, how to stop envy? How to deal with envy? For a start, understand that all people are different and each has its own life. Do not try to live the life of another person. Are you jealous that he has an expensive car and a good job? How do you know that he is doing well? Maybe it brings health and trouble in the family. Everything is never perfect. For wealth and success often stand losses in other areas of life. Instead of useless envy, take better measures to improve your well-being.
And if you envy? There are people who like to give others a reason for envy, but still it is better not to do it. Envious people are different, some can harm you or your loved ones. Maybe you have achieved success with hard work, and maybe you just got lucky in life.
In any case, well-being and success is not a reason for showing pride and contempt for those who fail. Pride - the path to solitude. Treat your achievements humbly and with gratitude, take care of what you have, because life is unpredictable, and you never know what awaits you tomorrow.
Inga, Vladivostok
