It happens that in family life there are such moments when you don’t understand whether the partner has feelings. These conditions are very hard for women to experience - after all, they are more sensitive, vulnerable and constantly need the attention of a beloved man. But, despite the difficult situation, it is better to know exactly whether the husband loves or does not like, in order to understand what development of events to wait on.
The content of the article:
Signs of love
Accusations of failures
Psychologist's comment
There are several signs by which one can understand whether the spouse has feelings:
- mutual touches;
- respect for the partner;
- lack of attention;
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constant reproaches; - desire to consult;
- lack of sex;
- unwillingness to make joint plans;
- accusations of failures;
- changing priorities;
- unwillingness to acknowledge an existing problem.
constant reproaches;Mutual touches
It is always pleasant to touch a loved one: couples always walk, hold hands, and embrace in a movie. This is the normal behavior of people who want to be close. But when the feelings cool down, the need for touch disappears. People avoid any contact, and even random touches start to annoy.
Lack of attention
Calls, messages during the day or bouquets for no reason - the ultimate dream for you? A loving man always wants to please his woman, so flowers and surprises are considered mandatory. As well as calls: for a man who is interested in a woman is important to know how she is doing and how she feels.
Respect for the partner
Often, even the most minor quarrels end up trying to hook a partner “for living”, to hurt as much as possible.
Also, one partner begins to make fun of the hobbies, activities or professional activities of the second. Husbands can criticize the culinary abilities of women, and wives speak sarcastically about the career of a spouse.
The same can be said if the spouse is never fully satisfied. No matter how hard you try to please him, he will always find something to cling to.
Constant reproaches
When love passes, the constant intimacy of the partner begins to annoy. The expression of this is the constant reproaches, most often due to some insignificant trivia such as an uncovered tube of toothpaste.
Desire to consult
Joint decision making is the norm in a family where partners are responsible for each other. As a rule, at the beginning of a relationship, all issues are discussed, and all decisions are made together. The desire to share all the events in life passes when love passes. Therefore, if the spouse began to make important decisions on his own, without devoting you to what is happening - this may be one of the first calls that your opinion is no longer interesting to him.
Also lost interest in the life of the spouse - a man no longer worried about her problems. And the question of why she was delayed is asked only for the purpose of provoking another quarrel. After a hard day, you have the right to count on the support of the person next to you. If he does not give you the opportunity to speak out and with irritation takes all your attempts to discuss what is bothering you - this is not your man.
Lack of sex
This does not always unequivocally indicate treason or cooling of feelings towards a partner. Sometimes it can be stress or health problems. Therefore, if this is the only point because of which you have doubts about your husband’s love, you should not rush to conclusions.
Reluctance to make joint plans
This may include both weekend breaks and large-scale family plans, such as buying a home, for example. The pronoun “we” sounds less and less in conversations; the partner concentrates on his own interests and desires.
Accusations of failures
When love passes, a man cannot restrain negative emotions. If something does not add up to him, then it is she who “beloved woman” will fall under the “distribution”. If you constantly hear phrases about what you have messed up, this can be a serious reason to find the strength and end the relationship. If this behavior of a man becomes a habit, you will soon begin to play the role of a victim to which he will pour out all his negative. And there is already close to assault.
Changing priorities
If earlier he spent a lot of time with you, and now he prefers to communicate with friends, leaving you alone, it is worth thinking. In the same way as in cases when the manner of communication with them and with you is strikingly different.
If he is friendly and sociable with friends, discusses with them all the details of his life, and for you cannot find the time and good words, then there is no question of love here.
Unwillingness to acknowledge the problem
Women are patient enough, and you, most likely, only repeatedly having made sure that you have any reason to doubt the feelings of the man, yet decide to have a conversation. If it only irritates the husband, and not the desire to convince you otherwise, then love, no matter how sorry, is gone.
Olga, Kasimov
