How to communicate with the girl you like to "hook"?

Oh, this eternal problem of gender relations! After all, there is little chemistry that has emerged between young people, in fact it turns out that it is important for a guy to be able to continue communication with the girl she likes. How to make sure that she did not run away after the first of his replicas, and wanted to continue the acquaintance? Of course, the girls should learn to communicate with guys, but more on that later.

Two extremes

Paying off at the supermarket checkout, Lera hardly found a ringing mobile phone in her purse. The display shone the name of the best girlfriend.

- I need you to listen to me! - without preface blurted out a friend.

- Natus, now I just can not. Let's look to you in the evening, grind. Will she wait for the evening?

In the tube I heard a humbly-disgruntled "Yeah."

- Well, everything, put the tea and cook a cake!

- Yes, what the hell is a cake? Here it is necessary to strengthen ..., - Natalia pronounced doomed.

Barely released, Lera rushed to her friend, not waiting for the evening. Natasha began her tirade against the current boyfriend, right from the doorway. Indignation and indignation fell from her lips. It turned out that her friend was strained by excessive silence, the indecision of her boyfriend, and the inability to conduct a dialogue.

No, he was courting someone. With flowers, movies, candy. But he did it somehow embarrassed, timidly, so that even she felt constant awkwardness. And he could keep the conversation going with only monosyllabic answers, like "yes" and "no." “It’s as if he really doesn’t care about what I’m telling him!” Natalya complained with tears in her voice.

She had already decided that she would part with him, unless there was any change in his behavior. Although she did not want to do this, he was very good at the rest.

- Yes, you, a friend, have to pray to him! Here is my Vadik pros in communicating with girls. So what? Star pickup, damn it! But how great it all began! So it was fun with him! He found suitable topics for conversations, and he could listen, and it was great to laugh with him! And met, remember? He then drove to me with such a speech that it was impossible to refuse! And then, with the anticipation of each meeting I waited. From a date to a date only thoughts of him lived, like a hooked bastard! That's who knows how to communicate with girls, so it is he. At first I liked it. Sure such. Other girls pay attention to him. And now? And she does not call in marriage. And I feel that he has someone. I even know. They call him in turn.

Having poured out the soul to each other, the girlfriends felt that they felt better. And then it was completely fun. I made half laughable conversations on the topic "If I were a peasant ...". And as they say, in every joke there is some joke. All the girls' thoughts on this topic will be described point by point.

Guidelines items to action

First of all, you need to make sure that the girl herself wants to communicate with the guy. On a subconscious level, every young person is looking for an ideal father for her future children. And he certainly must be the smartest, the strongest, etc. Make every effort to be the most-most, at least in one thing.
Be in good spirits, give a good mood. They come on a date for positive emotions, and not to add other people to their problems.
If you suspect that in terms of dating a girl, you will get lost and you will not find common topics for conversation, make preparations. Silently outline the conversation. Remember a few funny life stories, stories. They should characterize you as an attractive, interesting, decent person.
Do not praise yourself, casually mention the facts, and the girl's imagination will finish drawing the image of a beautiful knight.
It is not necessary to speak only by yourself. It is better to even give the girl a chance to speak out. Predilection for long conversations at a female in blood.
Become the best companion. To do this, you need to listen with all sincerity to the girl’s stories, nodding, raising eyebrows in surprise, shaking her head, inserting meaningless words from time to time, like “What are you ?!”, “Wow!”, “And you?” . Or ask questions that stimulate a more detailed story. So you will show your interest in what your counterpart tells. So, and to her. And it flatters women's ego.
Remember Pushkin's covenant: the less you love a woman, the more she likes you. Use it in the following way: do not chase the girl on the heels, do not call every minute.
Give an unusual pleasant surprise. The simple gifts made from the heart and even with their own hands, especially for her, act without fail on girl's hearts. Write a declaration of love in the snow under her window, or sitting in a cafe, make a flower from her napkin as a gift.
Praise her new outfit, or original earrings. A compliment must also be sincere.
Be an interesting conversationalist. Expand your horizons. Read more, watch TV for scholars.
Arrange your meetings so that they are a holiday, according to the number of received emotions. Dating should be no longer than 1.5 hours. It is better to leave before the next meeting, when you still really want to sit, chat, take a walk. So rather, there will be a desire to repeat such a wonderful pastime. You will associate the girl with something joyful. She will reach out to you for a new portion of positive.
Do not try to impress. Usually the more you try, the less it turns out.
Start communicating with a girl just like an ordinary person. It is easier, because the burden of desire to please you does not put pressure on you, and you feel free.

In general, the philosophy of girlfriends is correct, with the exception of one important factor, without which all manipulations lose their meaning.

All of the above is not suitable for guys who pursue their own selfish goals, acting not from the heart, but from the desire to replenish the list of imaginary "victories".

Sooner or later their intention will be revealed. And besides, excessive self-confidence of such “pick upers” repels rather than causes the desire to continue acquaintance.

But the good guys with signs of excessive modesty may well adopt this guide to communicating with girls.