Every child comes to this world talented. But what this unique gift is about is determined by its loved ones. Talent revealed in due time and its subsequent development can radically change the fate of the kid for the better. Conversely, if you do not pay attention to the disclosure of the abilities of a small person, then there is a high probability that he will grow into ordinary mediocrity. How to do this correctly is the "diagnostics" of abilities, explains the head coach of the Academy ALMA Victoria Romanova.
the freedom of action
To determine the inclination of the child, you need to be as attentive as possible to his hobbies from an early age. And that means giving him some leeway. On the playground, in the game room, in the park, the kid should choose for himself where to go, what to play with, and who to talk to from his peers. Of course, some control by adults is necessary so that the child does not get injured or doesn’t eat a lot of sand. But in general, bans should be kept to a minimum. Otherwise, the baby will be afraid to once again do something on their own.
Variety of choices
It is very important that the child from birth had the opportunity to prove himself. For each age there is a certain set of toys that contribute to the development of certain abilities. For example, the baby first “sharpens” musical talents on ordinary rattles, then more serious musical toys and children's songs appear at home, later - musical instruments and “serious” classical music.
In the arsenal of the child should be a wide variety of educational toys and creative supplies for all occasions. Let him sculpt, draw, burn, play music, play ball, so it will be easier for parents to determine what their baby is predisposed for and focus on the development of his true talent.
Talent does not happen much
Sometimes parents notice that their child is not for one type of activity, but for several. For example, he is great at dancing, singing, drawing, and skiing. Adults begin to experience that by developing all the abilities of a child at the same time, they will “overload” his brain.
In this case, you need to give the child the opportunity to set his own priorities. After all, any business, if it is loved, did not bring any harm to anyone. And if the child is comfortable doing all the things he chose, he does not get tired of the classes and always runs to them with pleasure, then let him do it - it will not be worse. On the contrary, the child will grow versatile and successful.
In the footsteps of my father?
Often parents are trying to translate their unrealized children's dreams into a child. Very often, the Academy of Female Wisdom ALMA hears similar stories from female students. Dad, who once wanted to become the second Maradona, drags his abutting son into the football section, while the boy sleeps and sees how he does robotics. Mom, who dreamed about the Olympic medals, “shoves” her daughter to the school of figure skating, and she dreams of horses and a rider's career ...
It is possible that the child will achieve some success in the field chosen by the parents, but he will not be able to fully reveal himself. Because each person is an individual, and the dreams of adults rarely coincide with the real passions of children. In order for the baby to become a successful and talented adult, the Academy of Female Wisdom ALMA advises to listen to his wishes. Make a choice for the child categorically impossible.
In the end, it’s not so important what your baby does, as long as it realizes itself and does it with pleasure. Then he will grow up a happy man.
Parental support
We live in a constant rush and haste. Most often our children suffer from this. To determine what talents a baby has, parents must be constantly present in his life and games. If you put the child in front of the TV and go about your business, then understand what a little man is inclined to is simply unrealistic.
Raising and revealing talent is a huge daily work. With a baby you need to play ball and cubes, teach him to draw, sculpt, cut, sing with him, dance and much more. Then it will be revealed from different sides in sports, in creativity, and in science. A small child is a clean sheet. Only attentive and caring mom and dad will be able to help him find himself in this world, reveal his talents and abilities, grow into a truly happy and successful person.
