Strong woman: who is she

The strength of a man - in the strength of character, responsibility, determination, in the end, it is physical skills. But who is such a strong woman? For many, the iron lady or business woman seems the epitome of success. In part, they are right, such women are self-sufficient, independent, they literally "made themselves." But if you dig a little deeper ...

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It is safe to say that today the weak and the strong sex have equalized. Women shouldered the house, children, work, old parents. Often they provide husbands. Guided by the principle "I can do everything myself," iron ladies reach unprecedented heights in their careers, they build houses themselves, make repairs, and serve.

It would seem that a strong woman takes everything from life. Alas, often this does not bring her happiness. Acting straightforwardly and energetically, she fills herself with masculine energies, from which her soul suffers. Living into a role alien to her nature, a woman inexorably moves toward loneliness. Rather, not even to the physical, but to the soul.

Controlling one and all, the iron lady falls into the trap. Often she believes that others are not able to act independently. Doing someone else's work gives her a sense of her own worth. But in reality it is not. Strong people always tend to use. And really, why do something with your own hands, if there is such a determined and purposeful assistant around?

Let's look at the family of a business woman. Often lives with her henpecked husband, Alfonso or just a slacker. Strong men do not get along with such a wife. Children (if they exist at all) do not feel emotional connection with the mother. A strong woman is more inherent in male features, she can not be soft, gentle, compassionate, kind, warm. So are those material goods worth that?

How does a woman get strong?

Such a decision is never taken independently. Becoming a strong woman is forced by circumstances:

Installation from childhood. If a girl grows up among brothers or she is the eldest daughter in the family, then she should not be a "weak". From an early age she will learn independence, responsibility, ability to fight back. Being a strong girl will teach a parental divorce, poverty, a serious illness or other serious upheavals that you just have to endure.
Movement on the career ladder. Any work related to responsibility develops such qualities as rigidity and determination (health workers, teachers, managers, etc.). Often the woman herself does not notice how quickly she makes decisions. It acts with lightning speed, without a shadow of doubt, completely without listening to the feelings and soul.
Love relationship. Unsuccessful choice of life partner can change a woman beyond recognition. If the husband gets a weak character, then willy-nilly, she will have to play the role of "head of the family" herself. Even worse, when a woman is left alone with the children. Then she is simply obliged to become strong in order to lift the little ones to their feet.
Perfectionism. The desire to bring everything to perfection can play a cruel joke. A perfectionist woman is inclined to criticize one and all: her husband earns little, the plumber has not properly installed the faucet, children cannot learn the lessons themselves. She begins to interfere with literally everything, taking responsibility for herself.

A woman without support, under the pressure of circumstances, is often forced to assume the male role. But does she make her happy? No no and one more time no.

What is the power, sister?

A strong woman is, above all, a happy, beloved and loving wife, mother. Career, fame, money - things are secondary. By themselves, they do not bring either happiness or joy. It is important to leave the role of the breadwinner to the man. It is he who provides the family, reveals his natural essence, multiplies the strength, gains peace of mind. The purpose of women is different. What is her strength?

In purity, loyalty, chastity. Keeping her body and mind clean, a woman gains the respect of others. A good reputation brings great benefits, gives her a good spouse. And in the Vedic scriptures it says that the chaste wife can even take away the misfortune from her home.
In obedience. A strong woman knows how to obey. Allowing her husband to realize his potential - to manage, she automatically gets the throne next to him. Behind every great man is an equally great woman.
In peace and tranquility. A woman is calm, full of love, able to calm any storm. She easily finds a solution to the conflict, can calm others down.
In flexibility. A strong woman is like a liana, she can adjust, change her mind. Only a man, like an oak tree, having made a decision, stays with him to the end. She does not need to prove her right, it does not bring happiness.
In weakness. Weakness does not mean helplessness. A strong woman always gives a man a chance to prove himself. It does not force, does not nag, no. Just showing feminine weakness, without putting extra responsibility on their fragile shoulders.
In happiness. A woman who glows with love and joy, attracts the right people to her, successful circumstances, desired things. It seems that all around seek to increase her happiness.

How to become happy?

"I shout, but in response - silence,
I'll be alone again
A strong woman cries by the window "

A.B. Pugacheva.

So, in order not to cry at the broken trough and not to languish alone like a dragon over gold, a strong woman will have to change. And you need nothing more or less - to moderate your pride, give up ambitions, learn and recognize the feminine in yourself.

The following rules will help shorten the path to happiness:

do not take on male work;
ask for help;
keep composure;
do not compete with a man;
be benevolent;
avoid conflicts;
realize yourself in creating home comfort, raising children;
cultivate a sense of responsibility in a man;
let her husband have the last word;
learn to accept gifts, sincerely thank for them;
smile more often;
take care of yourself;
learn to let go of a situation when something goes wrong;
let yourself be wrong;
be easy;
say only good things about loved ones;
follow the principle: "I am a woman, not a horse, and my husband is a man, not an invalid."

Female power is different from male. She is more subtle, graceful, tender. A strong woman does not wave a sword, does not chop an ax, her weapon is a magic wand. Having learned to manage it, she gets everything: a happy harmonious union, obedient children, prosperity, care and respect.

Women who give up their iron grasp are becoming really happy. I see the results on myself and my friends. Just believe: a woman can get what she wants without a fight.