Often, after several years of marriage, the former passion subsides, and even if feelings between the spouses do not subside, everyday problems, work schedules, and established friendships slowly turn family life into a rather boring routine.
Many women in such a situation want to change something, so they are thinking about how to surprise a husband in order to revive interest in a relationship.
The content of the article:
The path to the heart of a man lies through the stomach
How to surprise a spouse in intimate relationships
Prepare a creative surprise
Give an original gift
Psychologist's comment
Today we will talk about several non-trivial ways to unexpectedly please your spouse, which will not entail any other consequences, except for a burst of extinguished feelings. So let's get started.
How to surprise a husband in the kitchen
It has long been known that the way to a man’s heart lies through the stomach, and wise women are using this axiom with might and main.
Many wives will be indignant: I’m standing at the stove every day, preparing delicious food, and there’s nothing to surprise my spoiled husband. But this is a fallacy!
Even French-style meat, even naval macaroni and Kiev-style meatballs have long since become components of an ordinary Russian table. Agree, in your culinary arsenal, basically, there are simple and fast dishes that are convenient to cook, coming from work.
Use this fact to your advantage - pamper your husband with dishes of foreign cuisine. Now Indian cuisine is gaining popularity all over the world: the national dishes of this cuisine will appeal to Russian men - they are hearty, fragrant and very tasty.
Arrange a themed dinner to make the dish even tastier: turn on Indian music, wrap a silk pareo around your body in the manner of a sari, draw a circle between the eyes. Believe me, any husband will be happy for such a pleasant surprise.
How to surprise a husband in bed
The next sphere, to which men are not indifferent, is, of course, intimate relations. Sometimes one passionate night is enough to revive a former passion. In order to succeed for sure, you need to hold some preparatory activities.
First, decide for yourself what you are ready to go for and whether your bold innovations will approve of your faithful. For someone, tying up is nonsense, and even putting on a nurse's suit is embarrassing.
Here are a few options that can not cause anyone moral injury.
Easy striptease before sex:
- take a couple of strip plastic lessons;
- buy new beautiful lingerie;
- choose high-quality music;
- consider your dance in advance and rehearse it well.
Role-playing games:
- buy in a sex shop any costume that you like;
- rehearse your behavior in front of the mirror so that you don't look ridiculous in the process;
- recharge your spirits, be flirty, but persistent - and then you will succeed!
New positions:
- go to thematic sites to learn more about existing positions, select new ones for you;
- prepare your partner: tell me that you want something new;
- show him the poses that you like, offer to try or choose what he likes;
- be open to the new: it is likely that the seemingly impossible positions are quite within your reach.
New places:
- think about where you would like to have sex (in the forest, on the beach, on the roof, in the car ...);
- prepare yourself (choose a place, take some things with you if they are necessary);
- bring your husband to the place and tell him that you would like to make love to him right here.
How to surprise a husband creatively
This option is suitable for creative natures who are engaged in music or vocal, write poetry, draw or are engaged in any kind of needlework.
If you are a happy owner of such a creative hobby, dedicate one of your creations to your spouse. If creativity is not your thing, order one of these options from freelancers:
- write a verse about him, about your love and relationships, about how happy you are together;
- draw his portrait or joking cartoon;
- create a scrap album dedicated to the history of your relationship;
- create and print a photo collage with your best collaborative photos;
- record for him a song or a disc with a collection of your favorite songs with which you have pleasant memories;
- Tie him stylish, original accessories (slippers in the form of sneakers, a hat in the form of a knight's helmet, etc.).
How to surprise a husband with a gift
This option is quite banal, but the main thing is attention. It is not necessary to save for a trip to Paris, show imagination. Choose an original gift that your husband doesn’t expect:
- Heated Gloves;
- paired T-shirts with cool inscriptions or prints;
- slippers with lights in the form of cars;
- electronic piggy bank in the form of a safe;
- a jar of happiness (a glass jar with wishes and confessions rolled up).
There are many ideas for gifts - the secret is that only you know your husband and his tastes, so you can choose the perfect gift yourself. Do not wait for the holiday to hand it over: just make your spouse happy in the morning, for example, on Monday, so that he is charged with a good mood for the week ahead.
Finally, I would like to remind you that sometimes a couple of gentle words are enough to surprise your spouse. A series of daily events, stress at work, caring for family members takes all our strength away from us, so wives and husbands become cold to each other and often live as neighbors.
If you feel that your marriage has become similar to the cohabitation of two retirees, make an effort to return to the relationship dynamics. Take the first step to build new relationships, because they always need the attention of partners to develop further. If no one tries to make the relationship better, they will gradually fade away.
Surprise and delight each other, make each other surprises and gifts to show your feelings and affection with each of your actions. Do not expect this from a partner - give and receive in return twice as much. This is the only way to live happily in a marriage.
Alexandra, Voronezh
