Having met the woman of his dreams, the man is ready to end his bachelor life, so sooner or later the question of legalizing the relationship arises. Since a man seeks to do everything to surprise and please his beloved, the thought of how to make an offer, unusual and original, may not leave him for a long period of time.
The beauty and unforgettable moment is not at all connected with the financial side of the issue. Of course, you can take your beloved on a romantic trip and there, on the ocean, under the whisper of a wave to make an offer. For example, you will build a sand castle together, and the girl will find a treasured box with decoration.
While thinking about how to offer a beautiful hand and heart, you must take into account the characters of a man and a woman. Someone, wanting to tell their feelings to the whole world, arranges flash mobs and engages all familiar (sometimes unfamiliar) people in this, but for someone this is an intimate moment that you don’t want to share with anyone.
Most often, a man invites a girl to a restaurant, where at a solitary table, by candlelight, he says: “marry me.” In fact, if a girl has been waiting for these words for a long time, then the entourage does not really matter. If you dream up a little, you can turn this, a little trite way into an unforgettable one. For example, you can ask the waiter to turn off the lights in the entire hall and with a firework make a dessert, next to which there will be a beautiful ring. You can develop this idea and instead of a standard romantic dinner to arrange a romantic breakfast.
If you have been dating for a long time, and you have collected a decent amount of joint photos, make a photo album, where, after all the photos, the beloved will find a ring. You can say that this is the continuation of your story. You should not dismiss this option if you have a little joint photo or not at all. Just offer to recreate the history of your couple - invite your girl to the place where you met, where your first date went, to the places where you loved and like to walk together.
Recently, young people are trying to get away from the trivial sentences of the hand and heart. For example, you can associate the traditional way with a more original one. Invite a videographer (as your friend or you, yourself, can act in his capacity) and go to visit your girlfriend's parents. Ask her hands, take it on video, and after receiving consent, looking at the camera, tell us how you love her, and make an offer. Then boldly go to the cinema with a request to show this small video before the beginning of the session. It remains only to invite the beloved to the cinema.
For thrill-seekers, the next option will do. Give the girl a ring box with some kind of trinket inside. When she opens it, ask in surprise, isn't it what she expected. After that, put the ring on her finger. Why would a way like those who like to tickle your nerves? You will learn about this when the girl opens the box and does not see the expected. The main thing - do not waste time and quickly correct.
The ring has long become an integral attribute of the engagement, but there are girls who do not like them. In this case, the jewelry that is preferred by the girl is suitable: earrings, pendant or bracelet.
By the way, this attribute is not so obligatory. Much more original will be if you order, for example, a T-shirt with the inscription “The most beautiful bride” or “Soon a hen party” and hand over to your girlfriend. And the girl will be able to choose the ring according to her own taste.
You can combine recognition in your feelings and with another holiday. If your girlfriend has a birthday, give the gift that she expects, and when the guests disperse and you are left alone, tell me that you have another little surprise for her.
February 14 - Valentine's Day, as if he was specially created to make an offer. Agree with the photographer, invite your girlfriend to arrange a photo session, it will give an opportunity to capture her reaction and get frames full of joyful emotions.
If the New Year is coming soon, order a print on the Christmas balls and decorate the Christmas tree with them. It will be more interesting if the girl reads compliments to them in her address, and on one ball that you give to her to hang it, write “Marry me”.
There is another original way. To implement it, it is important that the girl is prepared and looks good. Yes, and it will require a lot of effort from you, but it will be appreciated. Say that you go to the wedding to your friends or to the restaurant for a birthday. While you are driving in a car, you can start talking about the role that rehearsals play before important events - because in order for everything to go smoothly, you must “work out” all the nuances. You can end up with what you change your mind and plans change.
You should agree in advance with the catering service on field service, with decorators who will help you to arrange everything beautifully, and also to find a person who will solemnly declare you husband and wife. Driving up to the place where events will develop, tell your beloved that you have a rehearsal of the most important day of your life today. And boldly lead her to the arch with the nearby “marriage recorder”.
After the standard announcement of what everyone has gathered for (about not scaring the girl in advance, announcing the engagement), you will be asked whether you agree to become a bride and groom. Of course, choosing this option, you need to be sure that the girl agrees.
How not to make an offer
Do not rush things. If you have recently met, and you think that this is the girl of your dreams, it is better to offer to live together. A wedding is not just a holiday, it is the beginning of a completely different life, and you must be 100% sure that you are ready to go through difficult moments together.
The excitement before such a crucial moment is understandable, but the idea of “drinking for courage” is definitely unsuccessful.
You should not make an offer by phone or send a letter of recognition. The same goes for the radio offer. At such a touching moment, you need to be close to your beloved and see her eyes shining with happiness.
Do not put the ring in the food or a glass of drink. There is nothing original in this for a long time, but there are a great many unpleasant scenarios.
Patience my friend
How long have you thought before offering your beloved one to get married? Most likely, this decision was not momentary. Give the girl the opportunity to carefully weigh everything, do not change your face, hearing "I have to think." Give her as much time as necessary. If your sweetheart replied “No,” most likely she has a reason for that. No need to be offended or angry, because nothing will change from this. If she does not see herself as your wife, then happiness in marriage is impossible.
In fact, if a girl loves you, then it does not matter in what circumstances you make her an offer, the main thing is to tell her feelings sincerely. But if you prepare, she, without a doubt, will appreciate it and once again be able to feel how important she is to you, and that it is you who are the man who will protect her all her life.
