The problem of how to become very popular at school sooner or later begins to worry almost every modern girl of school age. It is especially relevant for middle school students. At this time, communication begins to play a major role in the life of schoolchildren. And so you want to have credibility, to become respected in your team, so that peers listen to your opinion, and kids want to be like you. How to achieve this status, we will tell in this small study.
The first thing to note is that there is no "magic" pill and no secret of popularity. Popularity in school comes as a result of the work done on yourself. Simply put, it must be earned. Of course, some girls do it by themselves. But this is an exception to the rule. Most also have to put a lot of effort to become popular and earn respect.
The choice of ways to achieve popularity depends on the school and the children, how they live. First of all, study well the group in which you want to become popular. What are your peers interested in, what style of clothes, the direction of music they prefer, how they spend their leisure time, etc.
Let us consider in more detail what the popularity of the school consists of. Based on the advice of psychologists (first of all those who work with schoolchildren) and their own experience, let us highlight a few general rules on how a girl can become popular among peers.
- Watch your appearance.
Sluts were never held in high esteem. Especially - among girls, for whom appearance is so important. Develop a good habit of always being neat. This means: regularly brush your teeth, wash your hair, do a manicure, styling, epilation, wash and iron clothes in time, take care of your skin if acne has appeared, etc. Listen to the advice of cosmetologists, attend and watch the master classes of hairdressers in the network.
- Take care of your wardrobe.
Let your wardrobe be a few high-quality and stylish things, than a bunch of rubbish. With the ability to combine them and add accessories, you can look stylish and not monotonous.
Use free tips and lessons from stylists - there are a lot of them on the Internet. Visit their sites, read articles, watch videos, and over time you will learn to harmoniously complete things, creating a single image. And develop your own sense of style.
- Make friends with cosmetics.
Girls of middle and high classes actively use the general sets of cosmetics. Every young lady should have eyeshadow, foundation, mascara, gloss and lipstick in her arsenal. Such a set will make the appearance brighter, emphasize the freshness and beauty of the young face. Use makeup tips to find your own colors and learn how to make light makeup.
Know the measure. Too dense, "adult makeup", thick black arrows on the eyelids can ruin everything. And do not forget to wash cosmetics every evening with special means.
- Develop self-confidence.
How to do this, they know the professionals - psychologists. If possible, go to an appointment with a specialist who will select the methods you need. Read more on this topic: articles in women's magazines, on the websites of psychologists, books, etc. Try to apply their advice in life and constantly analyze the results: did it help you become more confident.
- Stay yourself.
It is important to have a lot of advice from outsiders, how to correct their appearance and character, not to lose their own individuality. Do not do what makes you sick. Do not fake. Prankiness sooner or later unfold, and you begin to lose your own personality and you will feel unhappy.
If you are ready to work to achieve the goal of becoming popular, you will succeed. But remember, friendship is much more valuable than popularity. Popularity may be a temporary phenomenon, and sincere friendship will remain for years, and perhaps forever. So do not sacrifice real friends for ghostly fame and your own ambitions.
