Sensations from the outside world come to man in different ways. Someone better perceives information by ear, someone prefers visual images, and someone likes to find out everything independently: through touch, experiencing physical impressions, passing them through his own body. The last, just, is kinesthetics - people who perceive reality through sensations.
It cannot be said that a person can perceive information only through one channel or, over time, does not change the way of perception. We were all kinesthetic in childhood. Look for the kids who want to touch, rotate, shake, disassemble, taste everything. For them, this is the main path of knowledge. Growing up, a person often switches to other channels of perception, dulling his experiences from sensations. Even if you think that there is nothing in kinesthetic in you, it is not so! Surely you've ever had to say the following:
- I feel trouble!
- Something is restless for me - feelthat forgot something!
- It was so nice - I just melted away.
- I have it feeling calm and confidence - i feelI'm lucky.
All these phrases speak of almost physical sensations associated with the non-material world — that is, each of us has a channel that perceives information through sensations — but not everyone has it developed equally strongly.
Explicit kinesthetic - who is he?
Kinesthetic gives out a lot of other types of people - he always prefers to touch, if it is possible, he will always pull at something and try, savor a dish in a restaurant for a long time, feel the bark of a tree and collect leaves in a park in a bouquet. In everyday communication kinesthetic can be distinguished by several signs:
- He may not look into the gas partner during a conversation, but he will try in any way to reduce the distance and touch you. No, this is not because he is in a hurry, he is ashamed or uninteresting, he can be very passionate about conversation with all his soul! And rapprochement with touches is not at all harassment or physical sympathy, just so he will participate in the conversation to the fullest.
- A kinesthetic is often distracted by some inner experiences and sensations, as if “going into himself” or as if he is longing for something. His gaze stops at one point, his thoughts evaporate far away - he falls out of a conversation, a lecture, a lesson. School teachers, faced with such manifestations, do not shout at the child or pull it off - this can bring a person to shock. They just gently touch the shoulder, returning to the subject.
- Most kinesthetics are people of action. Kinesthetic man he does not understand why everyone thinks and discusses for so long that yes how - after all, you can already do something! Let it be wrong, then have to redo it, but the kinesthetic will do its thing.
- Kinesthetic well feels his body and directs it - therefore, people of this type of perception make the best dancers and athletes, massage therapists and tasters.
- Kinesthetics love convenience and comfort - and they are not at all synonymous with order. They can have a complete mess in the apartment, and they themselves are not at all neat - they can wear the same faded old sweater for years, the touch of which is pleasant to the body. Yes, and in the apartment, where everything is random, but at hand, they feel much more comfortable.
- In everyday life, kinesthetics are very calm, sensible, and often can seem closed. They rely heavily on foreboding and intuition. If kinesthetic is offended or needs support, then it would be best to express it through embraces.
How to treat kinesthetics?
If you see that a person is clearly inclined to trust his own sensual impressions, then just note to yourself that you need a special attitude to him - you will have to get used to this if you have a relationship with a person.
Do not scold him for the mess and bitten cake with coffee, standing in the workplace - for him this is an additional feeling. Do not deprive kinesthetic handshakes and hugs at the meeting, pats on the shoulder, walking arm in arm. He will appreciate this highly and will treat you with special benevolence.
Most conflicts between people occur due to mutual misunderstanding between psycho. So here kinesthetic type quite difficult to handle, and most representatives of other types can be difficult to get along with. But you can try, showing patience and tolerance.
Is the kinesthetic child constantly slouching? You do not need to constantly talk about his posture and show how it looks - it still will not help. After all, he is comfortable - it means that this is the norm. If you want to develop a good posture, give it to the swimming and dancing section. There he will be in his environment - the body will be in business, there will always be sensations of new things and people, and at the same time they will keep their backs held.
A kinesthetic husband looks untidy, walks in clothes with stains, often not ironed - and at the same time, straightens folds on the sheet three hundred times before going to bed? Everything is in order, sleeping with folds or crumbs will really be uncomfortable, but walking in sloppy clothes is just right. She after all does not hold down movements and is pleasant to a body! If you want to change - do not panic and make scenes and quarrels. You do not understand, hurt insult, and the microclimate in the family will be worse than ever.
Better put up and take things into your own hands: pick a sporty style or, if the work does not allow, casual style. With a minimal amount of creasing tissue, "biting" and unpleasant synthetic materials to the skin. It is better that everything stretches, does not fit too tight, does not rub and does not require ironing - then you will have less work and the spouse will look better.
Almost all kinesthetics do not like change, they are very stable, they love to eat tasty food - this should also be taken into account by their relatives and friends.
And yet remember that in the world there are no pure types of this or that category - all people are different, in each of us many visions of the world are mixed. The main thing is to realize what is comfortable for you and what is for your relatives and friends, and act in accordance with this awareness.
