How can you interest a man by correspondence: tips and a comment by a psychologist

Social networks, a variety of mobile applications and dating sites have done everything possible so that single people quickly find each other. How to interest a guy by correspondence, and what traits of his character should be shown?

5 rules for successful online communication

Be an interesting conversationalist for the guy you like, and even by correspondence can not every woman. It is impossible to know a person entirely solely by communication in the network, and only contact with him in reality will be able to dot all the "i". However, sometimes by correspondence, you can understand the level of intellectual abilities of the girl, her manners, interests and degree of sociability. What rules must be followed to interest a man by correspondence?

to be as active as possible, but not intrusive, because excessive sociability may annoy a man;
to be able to listen and understand a person, asking him as many questions as possible, and telling about himself only when it is interesting to the interlocutor;
write correctly and without dirty words, showing your education;
demonstrate a wide range of their interests, show curiosity;
Do not hesitate to joke with a new acquaintance.

The main mistake that, according to psychologists, women make when communicating online is an attempt to make themselves a completely different person. Many ladies try to communicate in a mannered way, demonstrate excessive frankness, and when it comes to a personal meeting, they give in and show a completely different behavior. As a result, the man is disappointed, and the lady herself does not know how he will like it in reality. Sincerity will always help in online communication by building bridges for future real contacts.

It is also very important to learn how to listen to your virtual interlocutor. If a woman talks to herself all the time, then the man will quickly lose the incentive to correspond. The more questions a lady asks, the richer and more interesting is the conversation. If she also adds a couple of bright jokes to this, then the attention of the opposite sex on the net is secure!

And, of course, do not forget about the elementary culture of communication. Words-parasites, mate and gross grammatical errors are better isolated from the dialogue. If a woman knows the rules of the Russian language poorly, she should use a variety of services to check grammar and spelling.

Mistakes that "kill" the interest of men in correspondence

How to intrigue a penman if a woman likes him a lot? Many ladies are not able to solve such an elementary question, allowing annoying slips in communication. Most often, ladies sin with the following mistakes:

they excessively insist on a real meeting and on entering a new stage of relations;
sometimes women are excessively active, overwhelming a man with intimate questions and a vision of a shared future;
the desire to joke sometimes leads to the fact that a woman starts saying something so offensive that communication immediately comes to a standstill;
with her cheeky online behavior, the lady may hint at levity in real life;
manifestation of disregard for the interests and hobbies of men also turns into a quick cessation of correspondence.

Despite the fact that communication in the network eliminates personal contact and reduces the overall awkwardness, this does not mean that a couple can be easily and interestingly with each other. One said nonsense sometimes affects future communication, inserting a couple of sticks into the wheels.

Psychologists say that assessing mutual compatibility when communicating online is easy: to do this, after 2-3 weeks of correspondence, you should think about how interesting this dialogue really is. Usually, after the euphoria of the first days of online communication, interest in each other is either fixed or markedly reduced. If a man annoys a woman by correspondence, then you should not grasp the prospect of future relationships, because during a dialogue in reality, unpleasant feelings will only increase.

To interest a man in correspondence, you need to pay attention to topics of interest to him, tell funny incidents from his life. However, even if a woman does not like football or fishing, she should not insult the hobbies of her new acquaintance. Otherwise, the man will minimize contacts and refuse to communicate. Offensive jokes also only spoil the impression of a guy about a girl.

No matter how much a man likes a lady, she does not need to be excessively active. If a woman is looking for meetings with all her strength, she writes to a guy for any reason, then, most likely, such activity will scare him away. Restraint and even some coldness, on the contrary, will spur the qualities of the conqueror.

How to understand that a man is interested in communication?

Psychologists do not get tired of repeating that you can find your love on the net, but not always this kind of communication turns into tender feelings. How to understand that a man is interested in correspondence?

he is the first to ask questions, trying to find out as much as possible about the girl;
the man writes first, and almost every day;
he now and then speaks about a real meeting, makes the girl pleasant compliments;
if a man speaks extensively, writes large sentences instead of monosyllabic answers, then he is most likely very interested in communication.

Men as well as women want to be happy, and therefore, if they are interested in communication, it becomes immediately clear. Representatives of the stronger sex behave actively, ask a bunch of questions, and even hint at a real meeting. This behavior is typical only for those guys who are already practically in love, and in order to fix their feelings they only need to personally meet with the lady of the heart. If the correspondence lasts more than a month, then the man is definitely interested in it, and one should hint at the relevance of a real date.

Opinion and psychologists, and the lovers themselves coincide: the network can start an interesting conversation, but sooner or later it must go to a new level.

Interested in the guy in the correspondence, the lady will still have to meet with him in reality, and here showing his bright character and cheerful disposition.