Men, they are like assimilated aliens: they look like the same people, but with a mysterious and difficult to understand inner world.
The intrigue at times increases, if to some of them a woman or girl experiencing personal interest.
Then all the skills of successful communication with the opposite sex disappear somewhere and here difficult to solve at allhow to start communicating with him and on which train to drive up.
Communication psychology
What attracts the stronger sex in women?
Delight and approval in the eyes of the ladies - This is the most important for all times male “drug”, without which gentlemen of any age wither down physically and mentally, turning into insecure neurotics.
Therefore, trying to make acquaintance or seeking to build a relationship with today's boyfriend, look for a reason to praise him at least once a day. At the same time be sure to be natural and reward with approval for valid acts.
Suppose that in the first couple it will be small deeds, but they should not hide from your attention.
Praise for domestic minor feats will help a man to develop the confidence that he can do anything.
What else do normal men like in women:
- Defenseless, imaginary or real - without a difference. The main thing is for a man to understand that without him you will perish, be “eaten”, hungry. Then he has a desire to grow somewhere and do something to ensure the safety of his female.
- Femininity. It's nice to charm, kiss and hug someone of the opposite sex, and not suffer from eternal cognitive dissonance and feel that somewhere you have miscalculated and turned down the road of life is not behind that individual.
- Listening skills. It is vital for men to have the opportunity to speak out, freeing themselves from stress and, possibly, giving rise to a solution to the current problem in the process of a monologue.
Madonna, which will pray in the literal and figurative sense, the easiest way to become, providing his faithful the opportunity to "confess" when he needs.
- Ability not to push out your intelligence. After all, what kind of male will he like when his female demonstrates to others the rich coloring of feathers, figuratively speaking, what pushes his breadwinner into the background? Suppose that in reality it is even cooler in all respects, but you can only brag about it at girls nights. And even that is not safe. And what if one of the girlfriends wants to use it as compromising, having laid eyes on your male?
- Lack of cunning. It is interesting to watch clowns only in the circus arena or being the same frivolous subject. And when a lady explodes to a place and out of place made with laughter, rolls her eyes and shows other unhealthy facial expressions, then in adequate people she causes very inhuman desires.
Why not like those?
Why am I attracting the wrong men? The point is not that the right type of men transferred. You just have a subconscious attitude to an unhappy relationship.
For example:
- Due to the difficult childhood in which the mother abandoned by her husband and your father claimed that all men are radishes or even radishes.
Out of her strength for the sake of your well-being, she often complained about this and developed a huge sense of debt to her.
Like, now your life should be lived for the sake of the mother, and therefore no men. From them, only one problem.
- In the past, you have a long relationship that ended in a painful break. You have not learned how to calculate men with the same behavior problems, so you continue to get acquainted with the same gentlemen as before - with a similar outlook and needs, and, naturally, with the same attitude towards you and living together. As a result, you have all seen it all before and do not understand, for which the heavens send the same punishment.
- You dream of a beautiful, wealthy "prince", but at the same time realize that appear such on the horizon, there will be nothing to lure him: your appearance is mediocre, the figure floated, talents are not made happy by self-conceit, too. But for some ladies it is enough that only the last factor was about th-th, and not only that one prince was spinning, the crowds of the most worthy husbands would fit in the pile. Is the hint clear?
How to learn to attract the attention of men?
Basic advice: rummage in yourself and honestly tell, what prevents to live and shine from the inside with the light that attracts any man?
Since it is not a red lipstick case and not even in the presence of wardrobe outfits from the most famous designers. Normal men cling on charisma, zest, openness and not obsession with problems.
Abnormal swims, "fluid" confused, the desire to be a victim - because, you see, otherwise you do not understand from yourself the benefits to the world.
Is it hard to believe that women’s happiness is not obtained for a figure and a beautiful face? Look at how many happy couples are around, where a woman has external data below averageand the husband does not take her eyes off her.
What can interest a guy?
How many men, so many ways, methods, tricks and tricks.
for example
- Kutyla bite on catchy looks and defiant behavior.
- Romantic appreciate the reading and own opinion about one of the poems of Shakespeare.
- "Master of All the Galaxy" prikipit for the demonstration of resigned behavior.
- Shy will appreciate a step towards and interception of the initiative to start a conversation.
- Hard worker will be grateful thanks to the care and the "brakes" brought in time for dinner.
During conversation
The ability to listen, to be honest. Most men love to talk. And the older they are, the stronger this passion. Try to delve into the subject of the narration started, periodically ask the most incomprehensible moments and be sure to keep a little interest in your eyes.
A couple of times with a man "talk" and he is yours if not forever, then for a long time. And only then you will “teach” the skill of not only speaking, but also listening and hearing you.
The only condition: you need to strive at least sometimes really capture the essence of the conversation, and not pretend.
On the first date
Under any circumstances no sex!
In every man there is a "app" hunter for the female "."
And if immediately satisfy the most important interest, then hope for the continuation of the relationship is possible only in some cases.
For example, if in bed you are such a gur that oh-go-go. But, again, a man with lowered self-conceit may not even dare to repeat the experiment, since he will be tormented by the question: "How do you know all this, are able, and who has filled you up so much?"
And the rest ... Act on the situation and considering what your own eyes inform about, the heart. Be natural and open, but not to confess all sins, starting from the first class.
Enjoy the surrounding nature or architecture. Enjoy the taste of coffee or ice cream. Joke, laugh at the other person’s funny stories, thus demonstrating that you enjoy the company of this person.
Online Dating
For the attention of the interlocutor have to compete with a lot of other ladies. Therefore, it is easiest to attract attention with your own uniqueness. For example, personal views on topics of interest to both.
After all, who is only interested in quoting someone else's phrases in response to a question? The most popular sayings have become boring to so many that with the next eye contact, they cause the deepest boredom.
You can surprise even the lack of propensity for possession, because some ladies, after two days of correspondence, already believe that a man is simply obliged to help them with the purchase of another trinkets or things.
What can be discussed:
- cinema, music;
- novelties of literature;
- secular gossip;
- features of breeding pets shaggy or green;
- unusual gastronomic addictions.
How to attract a particular man in your life?
Become for him "the sun in the window"by providing a resource that is scarce for a person: caring for him, interest in his problems or hobbies, love.
What is most important to him, I think, will be able to figure out without much difficulty, using a virtual network or dating.
How to attract the attention of a certain boy in school?
- Systematically gazing at him and take the time to look away when he catches his eye. In this case, you can twist the lock curl.
- His new hairstyle, which not only catches the eye of everyone, but will lift your spirits so much that even the sun does not compare with you in the glow.
- Inviting for a white dance at one of the festivities.
- By offering a treat or giving your compote at the buffet.
- A story about a pet or a question about the difficulties of caring for a pet in a boy.
- Caring (for example, recalling the cap, before going to the frost).
- Support in not the most successful day for him.
How to attract the right guy you like?
- A couple of manholes catch the eye and hold the contact, while smiling slightly.
- Drop something unbreakable in his presence and ask for help.
- Passing by, as if accidentally hitting your elbow and immediately begin to apologize for your clumsiness.
How to attract the attention of an unfamiliar guy?
- Calling, ask to tell how to get to the place of interest or something like that.
- To say a compliment, admiring the color of hair, clothing, cut pants or cool shoes.
- Help, if, for example, messing with the younger relative.
- Ask about the features or the name of the pet breed if you met for a walk.
How to attract the attention of a guy in VK?
- Posts with interesting information for him on the topic to which he breathes unevenly.
- The absence of 1500 photographs almost not differing from each other in the story with a beloved one.
- Morning and evening greetings, farewell, accompanied by funny photos.
How to attract the attention of the former guy?
Good life and happiness with another guy.
It is the joy on the face of a girlfriend that can instill anxiety in her former heart and the feeling that he is somewhere, forgive me, blunted, and missed someone very necessary.
Like an adult man: how to get his attention?
Someone hooked well-groomed appearance and balanced behavior, and someone touches some immediacy in the actions of the ladies.
But in any case, open eyes and hot interest in everything that a person tells should work without fail. Only salivating is not necessary, seeking the effect of enthusiasm with the help of the mouth ajar.
How to attract a married man you like?
With an interest in everything that he tells about his life with sadness in his voice.
Just keep in mind that in most cases, everything that has been said is dramatically dramatized and will be retold more than a dozen times, if you stay next to him and further.
How to find and attract a decent, rich and successful man in your life?
Pump through. In the sense of bringing appearance in order, pick up a thoughtful wardrobe and much care for, figuratively speaking, by painting with bright colors of the inner world.
Because on empty socks, only versed in make-up and clothes, wealthy men are no longer kept. Because they value individuality and zest, and not just external gloss.
And very eager to have nearby source of delicious energywhich radiates from a woman when she is pleased with her appearance and in harmony with her own cockroaches.
Yes, and the ability to communicate on an equal footing within the house, too, is pleasant to many. After all, it is difficult to enjoy a dialogue with a woman, when you talk about something with enthusiasm, and they look at you as a talking parrot and they don’t understand what it is about.
If you did not know yet, men, when the question concerns matters of the heart - that is, women who are really interesting to them, stewedlike a flame under a stream of fire extinguisher.
Therefore, many princesses and korelevishnam you have to take the initiative and independently conquer the princes. And then so until gray hair in braids you can see it out, waiting for the knight to decide to stop his mount near your tower.
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