What prevents to be happy?
We all strive for happiness, whatever it is for each of us. But how many people can give a positive answer to the question, are they happy or not? We feel discomfort, lack of self-confidence, lack of harmony and fullness in life, from which we do not feel the satisfaction that we would like to feel every day.
However, what if we ourselves deprive ourselves of what we want? Maybe the fact is that we are constantly inventing new excuses and reasons for our indecision, for our unwillingness to make dreams come true? It is about such excuses that keep us in place, not allowing us to move forward and will be discussed.
Excuses that make it difficult to be happy:
1. There is no time at all.
Time is a stubborn thing. Unlike money, it cannot be replenished, each is allocated exactly 24 hours. However, the question is how it is managed by some and how others spend it senselessly. Maybe it is worth to join the ranks of those who want to find time for themselves? After all, it is in your interest not to turn life into a routine and to find time to achieve the desired goals.
2. It's too late to start something.
"What are you talking about, the institute needed to finish at twenty-three, don't make people laugh!" Our stereotypes and the opinions of others, sometimes the same stereotypical, constantly dictate to us that for each age, their occupation and their achievements. Want to learn how to play the guitar? Too late, it was necessary to do this in childhood. Maybe you want to change the occupation? No, it is too late to leave their homes.
Remember, it is never too late to start doing what your soul is about. Life is given only once, and it would be foolish to waste it on an unloved matter, waving away favorite things.
3. This is not for me.
“I’m too bad for that. I’ll never get it” - these settings will help you to get stuck in one place for a long time. With your fears, like with other hampering habits, you need to fight. By asking yourself the question: “Why me?”, You think wrong. It sounds better: "Why not me, but someone else? I'm no worse."
4. I have such a character.
Is your character allergic to happiness? On a positive, vibrant life? Alas, this is just your choice. Just try to make yourself shake up, get rid of excess negative, do not allow stagnation. You will understand that only you yourself decide what your life will be and what role you will play.
5. My parents are to blame.
Do you think that you were too much on guardianship, why did you become so dependent and indecisive? Or, on the contrary, did your parents give you too little attention, because of this, your problems in relationships and at work? Well, this position is quite common, as it is very convenient. After all, it is not necessary to take responsibility for your life, your failure, in the end. Why not try to finally take life into your own hands, let go of the past and start building your perfect future?
6. I do not have enough willpower.
As well as discipline, motivation, drive. The problem is that if you do not decide to change the situation yourself by starting to educate yourself, to find new sources of inspiration, then it is unlikely for anyone to do it. Acquire useful habits that will help avoid unnecessary routine in your work, learn to present work for yourself in a more positive light.
7. My surroundings are to blame for everything.
The longer you think that others are able to make you do what you really do not want, the longer the black line in your life will last. Stop shifting responsibility for your actions to other people. Of course, this is not so easy, but it is better to live your own life, with its own rules, mistakes and achievements.
8. I do this not for my own sake, but for the sake of my loved ones.
Yes, you make sacrifices by doing what you don’t like for the welfare of your family. Just think, do they need such sacrifices on your part, if they come at the cost of your unhappiness? Maybe there are other ways to solve the problem, or do you just like to play the role of a martyr?
9. For this is not the right time.
Yes, it is also quite convenient - to postpone the planned infinitely. You, it seems, did not abandon the goal, but do nothing to achieve it. Of course, I want to create ideal conditions for work, but you should think about why you are postponing this matter until next week? Because it is better for business or more pleasant for you?
10. I have no luck.
Perhaps it is even more pleasant than the option with the influence of others - to think that the Universe, karma, bad aura and so on are to blame for everything. Of course, a person is a creature quite sensitive to various energy fluctuations, however, it is unlikely that they would be the cause of your dismissal due to poorly performed work or a couple extra pounds after the anniversary. Everything is in your hands, you need to remember this if you want to become the master of your destiny.
