How do you punish a girl so that she realizes her guilt?

Unfortunately, girls do not always behave correctly, hang up, cheat, insult. To tolerate it is unbearable, but I still do not want to break off relations. What to do in this case, how to punish a girl so that she realizes her guilt and changes her behavior?

Understand and forgive

It sounds a bit strange, but in fact it works. You must internally forgive the naughty girl, otherwise after, in your every action will hurt insult. And she certainly doesn’t paint a guy. Feeling her power over your emotions, she can begin to manipulate. Therefore, keep your head cold and act logically and prudently.

Tell her: "You have the right to behave as you like, but I must not tolerate it all." And really, think about whether you need such a relationship? Isn't it easier now to find one that will treat you with love and respect. In general, cool down your ardor, look around and remember what you don’t need to do (until the conflict is settled):

Do not write to her and do not call, but do not avoid. Just stay cold enough to openly declare that you are wondering if you need all this.
Do not force to apologize, it should be her initiative. And in general, remember, the word "sorry" is worth nothing if it is not supported by actions.
If the girl decided to manipulate you, connecting aggression or tears as a defensive reaction, do not react. You say directly that this number will not work with you.
Do not commit rash acts. Do not change the girl if you plan to continue with her relationship. This can play a cruel joke with you, because, feeling guilty, you will make any compromises.

Skillful trainer

Remember, to achieve the correct behavior of the girl, it is important to skillfully use not only the tool of punishment, but also encouragement. Acting with one whip, you will achieve only hostility and loss of respect.

"There is a means to prevent crime - it is punishment; there is a means to change morals - these are good examples." Charles Louis de Montesquieu.

Therefore, do not forget to encourage her good deeds, give compliments, give gifts, etc. And, of course, do not punish just like that for a trifle (for example, if she was late for 5 minutes). But if the fault is serious, without delaying, proceed to action:

deprive affection, compliments and gifts;
talk seriously, coldly and calmly;
look straight in the eyes;
tear off any tantrum or manipulation;
Do not give conversations or meetings much time.

That's basically all, the further course of events depends on the girl. Sometimes she may not respond immediately, but this does not mean that she has no feelings for you.

Remember that the nature of all different. In addition, at the beginning of a relationship, couples often check their personal boundaries, and if not arranging them initially, then consider a pipe case.

A few more words about punishment

From personal experience I will say that the training of a girl is ungrateful. You can make an ideal out of it, but tomorrow this happiness will be given to another. Therefore, it is much more important to establish contact from the very beginning and learn to talk openly about everything, find compromises. Of course, it is much easier to shout or ignore, but then with your wrongdoing, she will do the same.

But if there is no other option and you cannot do without punishment, then make sure that your actions are not dictated by the desire to hurt your loved one (if you plan to continue the relationship). Your only goal should be to protect your own dignity, a lesson that you will not tolerate such an attitude on her part.