Being in love is one of the strongest feelings that a person is able to experience, and this is mainly due to the fact that foundation of love - a complex fusion of the activity of several hormones, which is able to strongly influence the behavior and thinking of a person.
Looking man in love, his gait, manners change when he is next to a woman to whom she feels.
And only by his glance one can say a lot about what he is experiencing.
Is it true that the view of a man in love is changing?
When a person falls in love, he feels irresistible desire to be close with the object of his love, which is heated by hormonal activity.
He seeks in every possible way to attract his attention and achieve reciprocity, is able to make a decision on lifestyle changes, to become more attractive (go on a diet, start to play sports, use cosmetics, skin care products, perfumes more often), cares about their own appearance.
And at any convenient moment, he directs his gaze towards his beloved, in order to admire how he moves, how he leads conversations, how he smiles, to notice changes in his appearance, to look at clothes.
During the conversation with the beloved, the gaze will also invariably be directed to his face.
There are a lot of different features that inherent in the view of a man in love, and if you know them all, you can easily distinguish love from interest, flirting, sympathy, it is enough to show patience and watch.
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How does he look?
Looking boy in love: what is he? There are many ways to understand the nature of a man’s feelings. non-verbal signscoming from him.
These are the peculiarities of the gait, and changes in posture, in appearance, in behavior, in gestures.
But one of the most revealing ways to determine what a man feels is by observing his eyes.
Direction
During a conversation with an object of love, a man will almost continuously look straight into his eyes, catching every facial change, waiting for a positive reaction on their words and actions and hoping for reciprocity.
He is practically not distracted from the conversation, as if he was completely immersed in it, regardless of the subject matter: even if a woman talks to him about what he is not very interested in, he will in any case look intently at her face.
If a man is interested in a short-lived, non-binding novel or in a sexual relationship, but does not have any deep feelings, his gaze will wander the girls body during the conversation, as if assessing it in terms of attractiveness.
Such men tend to look at the sexually attractive parts of a woman’s body: chest, legs, waist, belly, hips. During the conversation, they actively speak compliments and look like real ladies' men. One should not expect much from communication with them.
A man who sympathizes with a woman, but who is also not in love, will look mainly in the face, but his gaze will not be so intent and open.
Contact duration
Duration of eye contact can say a lot about what kind of relationship exists between people who are talking.
If a man almost continuously looks at the girl in the eyes and as if he is catching her every phrase, this is an indication that he may be in love with her.
During a standard conversation, the person looks into the interlocutor’s eyes. about 30-60% of the entire duration of the dialogue. If romantic feelings interfere with this conversation, the percentages increase to 75% or more.
The method of determining love by the duration of eye contact is called Ruben's Gradation and allows not only to understand what a person is experiencing, but also how strong the relationship is in an already established couple.
The gaze of a man who just flirts with a girl is rarely directed into her eyes for a long time. He quickly falls below the chest, waist and legs.
However, some ladies' men who familiarized themselves with the theory know that a long eye contact can lead to the appearance of romantic feelings, so they can look purposefully into the eyes. But their eyes are usually empty., they are easy to distract.
Pupil size
Even the size of the pupils can be an indicator of love, associated with hormonal activitypresent in the body of a man in love.
When he sees his beloved, comes in contact with her, his pupils involuntarily dilate, because he feels pleasure.
Thanks to this feature, the eyes become visually deeper and darker, which is quite easy to notice.
According to research by specialists from Manchester, more than 90% of the subjects dilated pupilsas soon as they saw a loved one nearby. Also, early studies have shown that a person with dilated pupils is more attractive to the opposite sex.
Concentration
A man in love is almost incessantly looking into the face of his beloved during the dialogue, his attention is very difficult to switch.
Even if, during a conversation, someone approaches the couple and tries to distract the man, he will switch to him not for the first second, but for a while will continue to look into the face of the chosen one.
From the conversation he was not distracted by the noise near, nor the cars that pass nearby, nor people. As if the world became quieter for him, and the only sound that is heard clearly is the voice of the beloved.
Flirting manwho does not have strong feelings, stares intently into the girl’s face only when he speaks himself, and when she begins to speak, his eyes shift, and he begins to look at her body.
If the topic of conversation does not interest him in any way, he will not listen to the girl’s speech and hardly remember later what she was talking about.
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How to distinguish?
How do you see that a man is in love? A masculine look can tell a lot, and it is important to be able to distinguish its shadesto understand what a man is experiencing.
Intimate
This view suggests that a man is interested in sexual contact with a girl.
Characteristics of an intimate look:
- Smoothness The man is slowly looking at the girl in front of him. His languid gaze wanders around her figure, stopping at zones that a man finds beautiful. During this gradual, partly evaluating scrutiny, he can give compliments, seeking to attract attention, turn his head and get what he wants, that is, sex.
At the same time, he poorly delves into the dialogue, except in cases where he somehow relates to what he wants.
- Obsession with sexually attractive parts of the body. During this gazing, he usually pays increased attention to the chest, legs, thighs, groin area, waist. An open man’s face doesn’t look too long, but exactly as much as he needs to assess his appearance.
A man who looks like that at a woman expects sex from her and possibly non-binding romance.
If a woman is not in the mood for sex, after which nothing important will follow, she should break the conversation.
Flirting
This view suggests that a man is interested in a girl, but does not know should he start a relationship with her.
Men who love to flirt often look flirtingly and have a positive attitude to the idea of having romantic relationships that do not oblige them to anything.
Characteristics of the flashing look:
- Concentrated on the face. A man practically does not look at the figure of a woman with whom he is talking, except that he runs over her briefly. During the conversation, he looks at her face and eyes, trying to intercept the emotional response that arose after his words.
- Enough warm, friendly look. The man often jokes, seeking to attract the attention of the girl, and his eyes look alive, as if with a twinkle, and well reflect what he says.
Relationship with such a man may well grow into something more, it is only important to make him understand that he is also attractive to you.
Loving
This look speaks eloquently that a man is in love with a girl, admires her and seeks at any cost to achieve reciprocal feelings.
Characteristics of the sight in love:
- Long and attentive. If a man first met a girl, and she sees that during the dialogue he stares at her intently, as if he is catching every word she says, this may mean that he felt himself falling in love.
Also, lovers of men look straight into their eyes, their eyes do not look shifty.
- Pupils dilated. As it was said earlier, dilated pupils are an indicator that a man is enjoying being next to a girl.
If a man looks at a girl like this, it is important for her to understand: he is more likely to start courtship in the near future, and only time will tell what this relationship will lead to.
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How to recognize the look of a girl in love?
Contrary to popular belief, man and woman are not so different. Therefore, many of the features inherent in the view of a man in love are also observed in women in love. For example, pupils in contact with her beloved expand in both sexes.
Just like men, a woman, during a dialogue, does not take her eyes off her lover’s face, looks him straight in the eyes and is extremely focused on conversation.
She likes everything he says, and even if she doesn’t understand very much what this is about, in any case she’s will try to be a good listener, about what her concentrated, attentive sight will eloquently tell.
Some girls who have low self-esteem, may, on the contrary, feel embarrassed, awkward, being next to his beloved. They blush, look awayAvoid direct eye contact.
At the same time, these girls still tend to look at the man, but avoid meeting his eyes, as if they are ashamed that their looking at were noticed.
When she receives an emotional response from a man, her eyes begin to shine, and she smiles. Even when she is upset, a meeting with her beloved can instantly make her eyes sparkle with joy, and this will be noticeable.
Looking man in love sometimes able to tell about his feelings much morethan gesticulation, posture, posture, gait and behavior, so do not underestimate it.
An attentive observer can easily make a true impression of a person by watching how he looks at others.
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