You can often hear the girls complain about men, the inability to build relationships with them, misunderstanding on the part of the strong half of humanity. In fact, they simply do not know how to behave with a man.
More about errors
Most women make the same mistakes. Consider the most common ones:
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It often seems to a woman that she talks about vital things when she tells a man for the tenth time during the day that he twist a light bulb, or put his socks in the wash, or buy her a new dress, etc. On the eleventh time, the man will flare up and everything will end in scandal. Firstly, he heard everything from the first time, and secondly, minor domestic issues are not worth such attention.
It often seems to a woman that she talks about vital things when she tells a man for the tenth time during the day that he twist a light bulb, or put his socks in the wash, or buy her a new dress, etc. On the eleventh time, the man will flare up and everything will end in scandal. Firstly, he heard everything from the first time, and secondly, minor domestic issues are not worth such attention.Dear ladies! The shortest way to a quarrel is to annoy a man over trifles, making him nervous by the constant talk about insignificant trifles.
- Not less common female error is the ability to start a serious or unpleasant conversation at the wrong time. Do not distract the guy from a computer game or watching a movie talking about the upcoming repair or what to give your mom. And even more so, do not call him at work about this.
For all global issues, contact the man only when he slept, not hungry, in a good mood and not busy.
- A useful skill when communicating with a guy is the ability to listen. Here, it would seem, everything is simple. Only most women do not know how. Listen carefully to what the man is saying to you, so as not to ask again later. Do not interrupt him, sincerely interested in the interlocutor, ask questions that are of interest on the topic.
A man should feel that the same things are important to you as to him, that you are "on the same wavelength."
- Every man has his circle of friends, interests, hobbies. You do not need to call him all day to find out where he is and with whom. And all the more, you can not forbid him to spend the evening in a bar with a friend or go fishing at the weekend with colleagues.
Girls, you can not take all the free time men themselves. Yes, and do not need it. While your young man is meeting friends, dedicate this time to yourself - go to the salon or read a book.
- You can't always tell a man that a neighbor has a better car, and his friend has more wages. This sin many women. If you want to motivate him, then this is not the best option.
You can not compare a man with others not in his favor. Sooner or later, the place next to him will be occupied by the one for which he is the best in everything.
- Probably the most incomprehensible for men, in any relationship with girls, is eternal female hysteria and discontent. Yes, girls are more emotional and sensitive. But women's tears in most cases are annoying for men.
Learn to control yourself in the presence of a man and talk about what excites you without emotion.
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If for a woman sex is 50% of relationships, then for a man - all 80%. But without initiative, boring sex hardly anyone would like it. If a man is important to you, try to be a good lover. By the way, the bed is the best place for reconciliation after a quarrel!
If for a woman sex is 50% of relationships, then for a man - all 80%. But without initiative, boring sex hardly anyone would like it. If a man is important to you, try to be a good lover. By the way, the bed is the best place for reconciliation after a quarrel!Do not ignore the importance of sex for men, let's feel to my chosen one that he is the most desired and best lover.
- You can not flirt with all the men around. For many girls, constant flirting has become a habit. Thus, they are convinced of their own attractiveness and try to evoke a slight jealousy of their boyfriend. Such women's tricks will not lead to anything good.
Men do not take openly flirting with all the girls seriously, they consider them easy prey.
Femininity is the girl's best weapon
The most important thing in communicating with a man is to remain feminine. In our time of prosperity of feminism, girls are used to doing everything themselves. Nobody argues that a woman herself can open a door to a room, put on a coat, or pay off in a cafe. But if there is a man nearby, it is better to let him do it. Remember that men are the stronger sex, let them feel so close to you. After all, from childhood guys laid down to protect and protect the weak. Therefore, the shortest way to win over a man is to allow him to show his masculinity next to you.
Olga, St. Petersburg
