Online dating is gaining popularity. Why is this happening? Sometimes the guy accidentally meets on the social network a photo of a beautiful girl and wants to meet her. And someone is just very shy and can not approach the girl you like and speak first.
Dating online has its advantages and disadvantages.
Minuses:
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reality may be very different from what is written in the questionnaire — photos processed in photoshop, quotes from smart books, a desire to stand out from the crowd or, on the contrary, efforts to conform to some general fashionable trends — all this can hide what a person is in fact; - the Internet will not be able to track the real reaction of a person;
- living communication is never a substitute.
reality may be very different from what is written in the questionnaire — photos processed in photoshop, quotes from smart books, a desire to stand out from the crowd or, on the contrary, efforts to conform to some general fashionable trends — all this can hide what a person is in fact;pros
In fact, the listed disadvantages can turn into advantages when you consider the situation from your side. You have time to find the right words and “correctly” answer, you can fill out the questionnaire so that she could not not like it, etc.
Social networks and dating sites - what's the difference?
To meet a girl on the Internet, it is necessary to understand that girls can react to the offer to virtually communicate in different ways. If you write to a stranger on a social network, the chances of chatting and meeting will be somewhat less. Since the girl who places her profile on a dating site, is ready for such communication herself.
However, this does not mean that on a dating site you can immediately proceed to the proposal of a real meeting, although it all depends on how much the goals of the girl and your match.
Where to start: a good profile
It is logical that in order for the girl to respond to your message and she has a desire to communicate, you need to interest her.
The first thing to fill out is the section with photos. The photo should not be one - as a profile with a single photo will not cause confidence.
Photos must be of high quality, clear. It is also necessary to review the photos in which you are marked by friends - for sure there are funny pictures among them, which are better protected from prying eyes.
What to write in the section about yourself depends on what kind of girl you are looking for. If you need to attract the attention of a particular woman, then it is good if she sees that your tastes are very similar. First, it will have to communicate, and secondly, you will have many common topics for conversation.
Carefully consider filling out your hobbies, hobbies, and subscriptions to various groups. If a girl is interested, she will carefully examine all the information posted on your page. Think about what she needs to know, and what does not.
How to start communication?
Most likely, you perfectly understand that beautiful girls receive dozens of messages every day with compliments and various kinds of suggestions. Therefore, you need to stand out from all this mass, that is, the option “You are beautiful. Let's meet. ”Obviously will not give you a chance. Social networks in this regard are much more useful and informative. Girls very often place phrases and pictures on the wall reflecting their emotional state, so it is easy to understand that she had a fight with a guy, she is “nobody appreciates” at the moment and in general “life has failed”.
All this information can be used to your advantage, knowing that if a girl needs support, and you can give her one, this is the perfect chance to communicate, talk, learn it and show your best. Your sincere interest in her life will be the best motivator for her to want to keep the conversation going. Communication with you should end on a positive note: if, after she tells you about her problems, she falls into a deep depression, repeated communication is unlikely.
Make the conversation with you lifted her up. Humor is a great foundation, but you don’t need to be zealous with it.
The most difficult thing is to get an answer to the first question. No need to write whole essays. Smoothly lead the girl to the fact that she wrote more than you. At the initial stage, never formulate your cue in such a way that a girl needs to invent something to continue the conversation. If she is not interested in you, your communication will simply stop.
It is important to have at least some understanding of the rules of grammar. Not every girl will read sentences that are full of spelling errors.
It is necessary to create an impression of a self-confident person who does not spend all his time looking for a girl on the Internet. Apologize and interrupt the conversation, saying that you will return as soon as you finish a few important things. When you realize that the girl shows much more interest to you than it was at the beginning, you can offer her to start talking in real life.
