When a man wants a woman, she subconsciously feels it. But sometimes, to be sure of her feelings, she needs confirmation, an objective view from the outside. There are certain signs that give out the desires and thoughts of a man, even if he desperately tries to hide them. Special attention should be paid to the look, gestures, body language and unusual behavior.
Sight
The eyes are the mirror of the soul of man. Even if a person wants to hide his emotions, the look always gives it away. You just need to learn how to read the expression of the eyes. If a man wants a woman, he looks at her in a special way. Usually an outstanding look lasts a split second, so an inattentive person may not notice it. But if you watch, or better yet, record a man on video, signs of lust will be visible:
- "Devouring", a closer look at the chest and lips of a woman. It means that the man is keen and does not intend to hide it.
- Quick glances, slipping through the body of a woman, frequent lowering of the eyes. The man is embarrassed, trying to hide his desire.
- An appreciative look in the back. A man sees a woman as a sexual object.
- Frequent, but not prolonged eye-to-eye contact, glancing. A man wants to seduce.
- Non-admission of eyes. If a woman is interesting to a man, then he will try not to lose sight of her.
- Dilated pupils are a sign of arousal.
Experiment. To confirm your feelings, you need to move a few tens of meters from the man, and watch his behavior (secretly) for 10-15 minutes. If he periodically glances in your direction, you can judge the increased interest and possible desire to get close.
Body language and gestures
The human body can tell a lot. Posture, posture, gestures always mean something. The body through them gives way to emotions. If a person tries to suppress his feelings, his blood pressure rises. Scientists use this fact to test for a lie detector. But how to understand that a man wants you? Note the following signs:
- The tilt of the body or head toward the woman. Gives strong male interest.
- Talk in the vicinity. A man filled with desire, will seek to catch the smell of a woman, which can be done only by substantially approaching her.
- Accidental touches, hair straightening, removal of "mote". You always want to touch the desired object. And because a man can not afford to immediately grab a woman for intimate places, he will touch her in a "decent" way.
- Copying movements and gestures of women. If a man wants to please, he begins to unconsciously repeat body language. This refers to the simultaneous swinging of the leg, clenching the arms, tossing the leg over the leg, supporting the head with the arm.
- Heat, tie correction, shirt unbuttoning, saliva swallowing, hoarseness. With sexual arousal, a man's body temperature rises, and his throat is dry. To feel better, he will have to swallow his saliva or drink water (drinks). Also, he will try to get rid of excess clothing.
- Tapping with your fingers, manipulating a wristwatch or other objects, rolling from one foot to the other, etc. Give out awkwardness, nervous tension, a desire to hide something (perhaps sexual arousal).
- Touching his "dignity", putting fingers on the belt, barely noticeable movement of the hips back and forth. The man unknowingly signals the readiness to make contact.
- Redness of the face is another bright sign of sexual arousal.
The whole truth will tell the legs. Some women are not enough to confirm the desire of a man. They want to know how serious and direct his intentions are. Legs speak the most about honesty. If a man has nothing to hide, then his feet will be brought together, and the socks will be turned in your direction.
Behavior
A man of desire behaves differently than others. Hormones are boiling in his blood, he keeps thinking how to get what he wants. It can be both direct actions to conquer, and diligent efforts to conceal their intentions. But an attentive person will not escape anything. So, how to understand that the guy wants you:
- At a meeting, he is clearly embarrassed, reddens, deliberately "ignores" or rejoices, showered with compliments. In general, strongly distinguishes from the rest.
- A man is trying to make friends. Many consider this a great way to drag a “young lady” into bed. The fact is that women rarely refuse friendship, much less often than sexual contact. And the rest is a matter of technology.
- He is obviously exaggerating. Wanting to subdue a woman, a man sometimes "imbues". He just needs to make an impression, seem better than he is.
- You often "accidentally" come across. It is likely that he has studied your usual route and is trying to make a closer acquaintance.
- The man began to look different. He can change the style of clothes, hairstyle, more carefully iron his shirt and pants, buy new perfumes, sign up for the gym. All in order to make an impression.
- He invites to the cinema, gives gifts, flowers. A clear sign of sympathy and disposition, of course, not without sexual attraction.
Advice of the author. It is important to understand that each feature separately does not mean anything. For example, a gaze may indicate that a man is simply drunk. Tapping with your fingers and shifting from one foot to the other may indicate a rush, a desire to go to the toilet.
To put together an objective opinion about the thoughts and intentions of a man, each individual sign must be perceived as a puzzle piece. If a woman is really desired, they will come together.
What's next?
Well, here you have made certain conclusions about the desires of a man. The question arises, what to do next? It is impossible to approach and directly say that it is open and you know everything. No, the girl must act differently. If the guy is interested in her, and she also wants to get in touch with him, her willingness should be demonstrated:
- When the guy looks at you once again, look him straight in the eyes and smile. Your openness will help him to relax.
- Wear more modest outfits. Let one thing be revealed - neckline, legs, or hips. Firstly, a man should not overplay, and secondly, when you are in a frank dress, it is more difficult for him to think and act.
- Ask for advice or ask for help. A proven way to get to know each other.
- Be simple and open. You do not need to build from yourself an impregnable excuse. In this case, the man will burn out faster than to decide to step up and confess his intentions.
In conclusion, it should be recalled that to be mysterious, intriguing - the prerogative of a woman. The strong floor is different. If a man really wants something (especially a woman), he is doing everything to get it. Even the most modest guy becomes persistent, purposeful and decisive. Therefore, a woman needs only to wait and see how he will manifest himself.