Love and relationship

How do you know the behavior of her husband, does he change?

Marital infidelity theme very popular and painful.

Almost all women believe that at least once in their lives, every man has cheated on his wife or girlfriend.

Over this issue constantly there are thousands of discussions in the forums and in life, offering a variety of options for exposing traitors to unfortunate and suspicious wives.

So how do you really know if a husband is cheating or is he faithful with you and honest?

Are all men capable of that?

Every woman wants to believe that her chosen one the most faithful and honest.

However, no one can give a 100% guarantee in his sincerity.

In terms of psychology, any person is capable of treason. The question is only in his education, views on life and principles. By the way, a lot depends on the partner.

The more dismissive you feel about your soulmate, the more the probability of the fact of treason increases.

If a man does not receive care, affection, sex at home, he (as a woman does) goes to look for the missing links "on the side".

If a man belongs to the category of "womanizer"then the probability of betrayal increases exponentially. They, as a rule, are omnivores and do not disdain any woman. The more female attention and affection, the more confident they feel.

Where does distrust come from?

Why do I suspect my husband of treason? Almost everyone dreams about strong and happy relationships. However, according to statistics, 75% of men cheating on their lover.

Where does this weakness come from if most of the couples are aiming for a serious relationship?

  • Constant criticism from a woman - dissatisfaction with earnings, appearance, sexual achievements, etc .;
  • dissatisfaction with sex life - monotony, lack of sex;
  • problems of domestic nature, material;
  • frequent quarrels.

The reasons may be many. However, their presence does not always indicate infidelity.

Where do they come from suspicions of treason and jealousy?

  1. Your spouse has already changed you once, and you have forgiven him. If a man once crossed the line of what is permitted, then most likely there will be no confidence in him. Each of his business trip, later returning home will be the reason for the scandal.
  2. Intuition. No, you did not find traces of lipstick or underwear in your pocket, you just feel that your husband is hiding something from you. The easiest way - to discuss sore.

    However, not the fact that you will succeed. Men are extremely rarely ready for open dialogue with their half.

  3. Relations are getting colder. He stopped kissing at a meeting or the number of lovemaking was reduced to a minimum. The manifestations of this fact can be many.
  4. Husband suddenly began to monitor their appearance, began to carefully select clothes, underwear, perfume, etc.
  5. No longer interested in your life. - now he is increasingly sitting at a computer or with a phone in his hands, does not ask how the day went and does not tell about his day.

The reasons for the emergence of jealous feelings can be a million - they can be as well-founded - for example, unexpected find in your pocket (underwear, note), languid glances at other women, or the obvious trace of lipstick on a collar.

So it was invented by the woman herself - the husband stayed at work, he came home late, because drove into the store for a gift, etc.

Therefore, before you rush to your lover with claims, try to figure it out - Is your jealousy not baseless? Perhaps you yourself convince yourself of his non-existent betrayal?

Why do suspicions of treason appear and do you need to know the truth? About this in the video:

Is it possible to recognize betrayal?

Find out for sure whether a man is changing is not easy. But, there are many signs by which you can verify this fact.

The first signs of treason:

  1. Change the daily routine. Every girl, wife should be alerted if your man suddenly started working on a new schedule or he had daily affairs that he hadn’t even thought about before.

    Systematic delaying home may indicate the presence of a mistress.

  2. The man hides the phone, puts passwords. The need to hide a close relationship with the new passion will make him hide this fact as carefully as possible. Also, a mobile phone can be switched off completely when it arrives home.
  3. The emergence of the outflow of money. Flowers, gifts, hotel rooms - all this requires material investments. This means that money for an alleged gift to a colleague, repair of a bicycle, again a gift to a colleague on the occasion of a birthday and many other unforeseen expenses will flow out of your family budget.
  4. Sexual cooling. After the betrayal that has occurred, most men lose interest in their spouse. Frequent refusals in proximity or its absence should alert you.
  5. Lifestyle change - the husband suddenly started going to the gym every weekend, he spends all his free time visiting his mom or is engaged in a new hobby without you. This is a great cover for meeting with his mistress.
  6. Husband's friends behave unusually. They avert their eyes when they talk to you, keep back something, laugh off ambiguously, etc.

Referring to these or other signs of treason, it is impossible to be 100% sure of the fact of infidelity.

Only making sure to have a mistress in real timeFor example, seeing how they kiss or hug, after reading the correspondence of an intimate nature, we can talk about exact betrayal.

How to understand the behavior of her husband that he is cheating and cheating? What physiological signs will tell the truth?

How does a man’s behavior change after his betrayal? 7 signs:

  1. Nervous - The fear that the wife learns about a mistress or one-time sex on the side is very high in many men, so they are often nervous. It can be expressed in anything. For example, if you took his phone, he immediately comes up to see what you are doing or behaving suspiciously when talking, not as usual.
  2. Does not let to your phone I changed my passwords to my laptop or installed it (if I didn’t have them before), always carry the phone with me, carefully ensure that you don’t touch its gadgets.
  3. Tries to please everyone (in case there is a feeling of guilt).
  4. Losing interest in his wife sexually - A man tried sex on the side can completely abandon the intimacy with his wife.
  5. Changed preferences - your husband suddenly became a vegetarian or loved an old movie? This is an occasion to think. Maybe his addiction is due to the appearance in his life of a girl with such tastes?
  6. Gives a lot of freedom. If you used to be jealous of each pillar, then now quietly lets go with friends in a cafe.
  7. The appearance of nagging toward his wife - not dressed, not cooked, did not say, etc.

If your partner's behavior changed in an unexpected way, he became irritable, stopped coming home on time or lost interest in sex with you, think about whether he changed.

If these events did not precede, and changes occurred "from scratch"Most likely the reason is “new interesting acquaintance”.

How to learn, changes or not? Signs of male treason:

How to check with accuracy?

Is it possible to catch a cheater red-handed? How to expose a husband to treason:

  1. Via mobile phone. The easiest and most accessible way for everyone to make sure that there is a mistress is to read the correspondence in the phone or view the call history. Also pay attention to photos in the phone, as well as social networks. Carefully read the phone book - it is quite possible that Vasily Workshop will respond with a female voice. Check social networks for the presence of women unknown to you, read the correspondence, look at his posts and marks. Any little thing can give it in the act.

    You can also install a tracking program on your phone. With it, you can find out the exact location of your man at any time of the day.

  2. Spy things. If you intend, by all means, to find out where your beloved is disappearing, modern gadgets can go to progress. For example, various bugs, cameras and other spy gizmos. Install a camera in his office, if possible. Also view the recordings from the DVR - it is quite possible, he was actually in a traffic jam, and did not walk with the new passion.
  3. Hire a detective. Currently, hundreds of agencies offer their services. They will not only deliver the latest and accurate information about your partner’s leisure time to you, but also provide evidence in the form of a photo and video report.

How can a woman understand that her man is looking to the left, or has already changed her? Signs:

How to determine the popular methods?

Check for treason can and quite commonplace methods.

For example, sex. As soon as your chosen one has come home, demand the fulfillment of the marital duty.

Handled, there is no cause for concern. Well, if the husband came home "empty", it means he already had sex and definitely not with you.

Our grandmothers used and more sophisticated methods. To do this, they poured pepper in panties to her husband. When he began to scratch, the woman accused him of treason and the infection.

Accordingly, if the husband is guilty, then, most likely, a confession will follow. However, this method should not be applied from a medical point of view.

How to prove a betrayal on a business trip?

How to catch a husband for treason on a business trip?

If your spouse is often on business trips, he or she can find out whether he really works or is working:

  1. Track yourself - go after your loved ones and play detective. Suddenly, go to his hotel room or just quietly watch all of his movements around the city, checking the “truth” that he will tell you on the phone.
  2. Hire a professional detective - the method is less dusty and time consuming, but more expensive.
  3. Install a tracking software on your phone - be able to check whether he is really in a hotel or at work.
  4. Clarify all the details of the trip and check. If he did not go alone, ask the details of his companion. You will only compare their testimony.
  5. Evening calls at different times - Call him at night, at lunch, in the evening. Let the call be unexpected. Pay attention to how he will communicate with you at this moment. If he is not alone, then most likely the tone will be cold and detached, and the conversation itself will not last longer than 10 seconds.

Learn 100% of treason on business trips pretty hard. Of course, if the mistress appears herself, or you find traces of lipstick, it will not be difficult to prove infidelity.

In most cases, one can only guess about the fact of male adultery, relying on one's own experience, inner sense and available facts. Do not blame the husband if you are not 100% sure what happened.

Remember, you can always talk and calm, find out the main reason for your quarrels and misunderstandings without scandals.

If you are sure that your half is not true to you, you can collect evidence using modern gadgets or old proven methods, which we have learned today.

How to find out what a man changes? What to do? Ways from the Internet:

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