You are married for 5, 7, 15, 20 years and ... relaxed, got used to each other, you know him to the smallest detail, however, as he did you. About former passion and speech does not go, the sparkles in the eyes have gone out. And here you are relaxing separately. Of course, in any marriage there comes a period when calm emotions, trust and respect come to replace ardent feelings. But it’s still too early to write off! How to return the old passion?
Art of intrigue
So, we put on stockings, buy new beautiful underwear, do hair and manicure. You can do a good job on yourself: straighten your posture, practice playing with your eyes, make your voice sensual. All this is certainly important, because a man loves his eyes. But this is only an external effect acting at the level of primitive instincts.
Initially, the goal is different - to make a husband fall in love so much that he cannot even think about anyone else, ignite his former passion and admiration in him. Let her carry her hands, fall asleep with gifts and try to spend all her free time in your pleasant company. Want to become such a woman for your man? Then you should work on yourself.
The strong floor loves puzzles. In every man lives a hunter, explorer, discoverer. It is important throughout his life to remain for him an unread book. Remember Scheherezade from the fairy tale "1001 nights"? She managed not only to save her life, but also to win the heart of the Sultan himself. Therefore, Scheherazade always left all the most interesting things for later, intrigued. Do something interesting for yourself. Find a hobby to your liking, and see how your eyes shine. And her husband will be interested in where you disappear or why you linger after work.
Think like a man - act like a woman
What kind of wife does every man dream of? Smart, attractive, caring and not arranging scenes! This means no jealousy, bouts of hysteria and aggression - the lady is not to face. This woman is proud and wise, she does not descend into petty scandals. It is difficult not to swear, especially when the nerves are strained after the working day, and at home you have to cook dinner. Husband while sitting quietly on the couch and waiting for him to feed? Stop being a grumpy mom who will scold and feed you.
Become a woman - charming, seductive and ... tired. You too can be tired. So go not to the kitchen, but to the bath, your body is worthy of relaxing care. Without dinner, your adult man will not die, but will look at you in a new way.
If there is still tension, throw it away from home. Anything will help, you must have your own outlet. Someone is knitting, and the other is going to beat a pear in the gym. You can do dancing or yoga, master the breathing practice or one of the methods of relaxation and energy filling. By the way, the women's Academy ALMA teaches women to master effective techniques of relaxation and relieving accumulated stress.
Secret Trump
And finally, the main weapon of your attractiveness is independence and self-sufficiency. Remember how you were at 20? Proud, interesting, enthusiastic, self-confident and not suffering from the absence of guys. What changed? Do not put a man in the center of his world, the earth does not revolve around her husband. You are an interesting and self-sufficient person, and your husband has loved you. You should not put his interests above their own and completely dissolve in your man.
The mistake of many women is that they confuse self-sufficiency with demonstrative independence. A man simply has no chance to prove himself if his woman goes through life with the motto “I’m all by myself”.
Independence does not mean that you have to charge everything. This is the ability to be an individual with your desires and interests. If you can not spend time together, you should not suffer, because you are not bored with yourself. Make your life interesting and rich. The mood should not depend on the call of a man and his attention. At least you should make that impression. Yes, you feel good together, but you alone will have quite a good time.
And men are attracted to women in the warmth and kindness. They consider women as more charitable to be more attractive. After all, this indicates that you will take care of him, and of your children, and of your parents. If there is no financial opportunity to help others, share your knowledge or useful contacts. For example, many of our students bring acquaintances or girlfriends to classes, thereby helping to change their lives for the better.
Your man also wants to join you to find out what you are doing so interesting.
Evolve, be a little mysterious, beautiful and inaccessible. And your man will look at you in a new way, falling in love like the first time.
