How to find your calling
Every person has his purpose in life, he is born to fulfill what is destined for him by fate. If a person lives in harmony with his inner world, feels that he is needed by the world and does not live in vain, it means that he has already found his calling. He feels satisfied with himself and with his life, enjoys the activities he does, he is happy.
But if you experience internal emptiness, it’s difficult to wake up in the morning, and you don’t have a desire to go to work, it’s time to think about how to find your purpose in life. Only by doing your favorite thing, you can feel the taste of life, enjoy every day, feel a sense of happiness and become a rich person not only mentally, but also materially.
As life shows, it is harder to find your true path than follow it. It is difficult to open up in a new way, letting go of the past, to become bolder and more resolute. You can not betray yourself and your feelings and force yourself to engage in that does not bring absolutely no pleasure just for the sake of material wealth.
The most common method of self-determination is offered by psychologists. Take a piece of paper and a pen; nothing should disturb you and distract you from this process. Write everything you like to do, what you do with pleasure, and you don’t have to force yourself.
Think well, analyze your life and make a list of thirty items, you can more. Then cross out everything that you do only according to your mood, also here are those hobbies that you don’t do all the time and wouldn’t plan to do them in the future professionally.
In order to find your vocation in life, you need to make a list of your strong qualities, talents and abilities. Think what you can do well. Then you need to determine in which areas you could use your talents and abilities. For example, you draw well, then you can write pictures, you are well able to formulate your thoughts, perhaps you need to write a book or start with a short story.
Do not be discouraged if you have a small list. Maybe you need to think better? Do not worry, because the skills can be developed, work on yourself, there would be a desire.
Stop comparing yourself with other people, you have your own life, your own way, and with regard to purpose. Yes, you have not yet been able to find your place in life, but this does not mean that you are worse than others. Do not compete with others, because in the pursuit of recognition you may be disappointed, especially when you understand what your confession is.
Learn to be consistent, do not do several things at once. The problem faced by many people who have not yet found their calling is that they have never learned to be consistent and patient. Do one thing first and do it well.
Otherwise, having tried one and not bringing it to the end, you will not be able to see the result, which will later cause disappointment in yourself. Always follow through. This will teach you tolerance, perseverance, will also give confidence. You will be able to feel how much more strength and energy has been added for new achievements, which in turn indicates that you have chosen the right direction. If you only have the feeling of joy from the fact that you have completed the work on the case, and it was difficult for you, then you should still think about other activities.
Understand your fears and get rid of them forever. Fictitious fears and anxieties, insecurity and constant internal tension will only disturb you, to do what you really like, even if you have already found your calling in life and you know about it.
Therefore, for the sake of your happiness, the feeling of joy, inner peace, think and find your recognition that will make your every day unique, will push you to achieve goals, make you and your life better.
On this topic:
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