Men's treason - the eternal topic discussed by women. Why do many men are drawn to adventure? Let's try to figure it out. In fact, the reasons for which men change their wives, a lot. It is better to notice the beginning discord in time, take measures to save the situation so that it does not turn into a huge crack. So, consider the most common reasons why men cheat on their wives.
The content of the article:
Love extinction, alcohol
Revenge of a changed wife
Lack of sex and attention
Psychologist's comment
1. "Love is gone"
Living for many years under the same roof, spouses often become absolutely not interested in each other, as a book has been read many times. But they do not want to divorce, because they are so much connected - children, apartment, car, cottage. Yes, and already accustomed to each other so that it is difficult to change anything. So the man gets an intrigue on the side to bring some bright colors into his life. 
To avoid this situation, a woman should constantly develop, look for new hobbies, hobbies and remain a little mystery for a man. Conduct a frank dialogue with your husband about your sexual preferences, and make concessions to him in this matter. Let a man never cease to be amazed and fascinated. It is difficult to be always different, unpredictable, to avoid behavioral stereotypes, including in intimate life, but your spouse's love and your personal happiness are worth it.
2. "The green serpent led astray"
In fact, this reason is a direct consequence of the first. After all, as is well known, “what is sober on the mind, then what is drunk on the tongue,” and, consequently, on deeds. Therefore, under the influence of alcohol, it is those men who have long been bored with married life, but they just do not “walk to the left” in their right mind and sober memory.
To eliminate this cause, you need to listen to the previous advice. And for safety net it is always worth finding out in which company your spouse is going to “relax.” There are such comrades for whom treason and frequent change of sexual partners is the norm. In such an environment, and even under the influence of the "green serpent," even the most faithful man can hardly resist the seductress.
In this case, it is better to talk honestly with your husband about your fears and set priorities: what is more important for a spouse is peace in the family or rest with questionable friends. Do not argue with him before this meeting. After all, under the influence of the negative, it will be much easier for a man who has drunk to commit adultery and justify himself.
3. Revenge of the unfaithful wife
I think it is needless to explain that if a woman herself is ready to have fun with another man, then it’s wrong to wait for loyalty from her spouse. The betrayal of a wife is a strong blow to male ego. And the man will avenge this pain until he receives full satisfaction with his offended feelings.
If it came to mutual treason, then such a family is very difficult to maintain. Only sincere repentance and mutual promise to preserve marital fidelity can save the day. This happens if the betrayal occurred by the stupidity of one of the spouses. And love in a pair is still strong and outweighs the wounds inflicted on each other.
4. Lack of attention and sex
In some families, a woman is so passionate about raising children, work or life, that she completely forgets to bestow her attention and caress on her precious spouse. But men, like children, need it. The ability to admire his man, to be interested in his success at work, hobbies will save the spouse from finding an enthusiastic admirer of his talents on the side. 
If the wife also often refuses the spouse, referring to severe fatigue or headache, then surely expect trouble inevitable. It is better not to bring his man to such a state when he wants to get comfort in another place. Do not push away your man, make reasonable concessions for him in the name of preserving your marriage.
5. Emotional dependence of a woman on her husband
Emotional dependence on a man arises from a woman’s lack of self-confidence. This is manifested in the behavior of women as follows:
- she needs the approval and support of her husband;
- mood depends on his behavior;
- allows a man to humiliate his dignity;
- constantly caters to the man;
- fully concentrates on the man and his life;
- afraid to express their opinion so that the man does not abandon her;
- does not have their hobbies, his life.
Men do not like sticky women, it is such wives change constantly. This is a kind of male protection against female leeches. Independence overrides all female attractiveness and kills the male attraction to the woman. To remedy the situation, a woman needs to develop her self-sufficiency. 
This is not an easy task, because the reason may drag from childhood, from the parental family. If the mother behaved in a similar way with her father, then the daughter will go over the model of her behavior. And here without qualified help of a psychologist it is difficult to do. But as they say, "the road will be mastered.
For a woman, the first step towards solving this problem is to accept yourself as it is, with all its weaknesses and shortcomings. And then it will be easier to change. Believe me, men do not change women who are self-sufficient and loving themselves because they are afraid of losing them!
Irina, Podolsk
