Since childhood, parents have instilled in us that happiness with money will appear, and we can consider ourselves a person only after receiving a prestigious education and finding a prestigious job. But now we are adults and we understand very well that money, happiness and everything else will appear only if you find a business to your liking. This search is worth doing.
In fact, being children, we knew pretty well what business we liked, but the parents inspired completely different attitudes and now we are afraid to admit to ourselves what we really want to do. Some even ashamed to tell who they wanted to be in childhood. And in vain. Before you find a case for the soul, remember what you dreamed about: there, in dreams, there is a clue.
Express method
To understand what exactly you should do, think what you would do if you had only one year left to live, that is, you have nothing to lose ... And also think whether there is a thing that you could enjoy doing for free. Perhaps this is the vocation. But there is an important point: before you find your favorite business (or try) in such a way, it would be good to rest, otherwise all your thoughts will be about lying on the couch. So, it is better to resort to such reflections on vacation, preferably in nature, and not among everyday life in boring and unloved work ... There are other methods.
We draw
But not a self-portrait, to be convinced of his talent, but a table of three bars. In the first we write down what is best for you to do. In the second - what you like to do the most. In the third, we mark the best lessons that you like the most. Also think about what you could do for the soul and not get any money for it. The answer must be sought in the third column of the list. See if there is something in all three columns. Actually, the business of your life is in front of you, and if you achieve great skill in it, then you can receive a reward.
Go for a walk
When we move, the course of our thoughts and worldview changes in the right direction.
Think about your problems "with someone else's bell tower"
Imagine in the thoughts of your good friend (or just a wise person), giving you advice on your favorite cause. So you can get answers to a lot of your questions. And if you want, you can ask a third-party person or a good friend about what is so worried
Change hobby
I want to believe, then you have the same hobby that you live all your free time. But it is better to be open to new experiences, trying a variety of interesting activities and breaking your comfort zone. And in general, try to try new things. So, there is a story when a girl, fleeing from the crisis, changed the teacher’s activity to the work of a housekeeper. Once the hostess asked the girl to make her up and make a styling. It turned out very beautiful, and the girl realized that making people more beautiful is hers. As it turned out, at that time in the center of employment there was a recruitment for free courses to hairdressers and makeup artists. Everything was decided by itself ...
Well ask those who are already engaged in your favorite business
This is a simulation method. If you suspect that you have come to the end of the search for yourself, you can start counting your possibilities.
Include fantasy
Try to depict a picture of your activity with the help of all your senses. We all perceive with their help, so it will be easier for you to understand how your favorite business will look and whether it will bring benefit to others, and you personally - peace and comfort in your soul.
Come up with your own definition for success.
Find your own answer to the question of what is to be successful. Perhaps this will help you discover new facets of your desires. Do not forget to record the definition in your diary or journal of success.
Think about how a child of seven years would act in your place
Small children discard any patterns and are guided only by true values. So the psyche of the child is arranged. It also helps direct your train of thought to your desires.
Live on the positive
This will not only help to move forward, but also relieve from memories of the negative experiences of the past, and thus help in achieving its goal.
Focus on finding your favorite activity.
You don’t need to dwell too much, of course, but always keep it in mind. To proceed quickly, you can hang a poster in your room. The main thing that he motivated.
Motivate yourself from the reverse
What does it mean? Just make a list of all that you lose if you do not find your favorite thing. Exercise is not the easiest, but it can make you move forward.
Make a rough plan of action.
Perhaps you yourself do not know how to make your dream come true, but it will be easier for you to concentrate your attention on the search.
Take a look at yourself
Imagine that you are already doing your own thing. How will you feel about it? Who will surround you? Where will you be? What will all this look like? You can also move forward in your thoughts and write a letter to yourself about what you should definitely do this year.
Brainstorming
For thirty minutes, try to write whatever you think about your favorite business. Just non-stop write all your thoughts about the cause of your life, preferably not on a separate sheet, but in a notebook or success diary. With a limited time, the brain is faster and more productive.
What would you do in the next minute?
Now, a couple of minutes, work out with a simple physical culture and write down the idea that came to mind after them. This moment you get a lot of endorphins, and it stimulates the brain.
Open the dictionary
On any page and read any word, as well as an explanation to it. Perhaps this is the hint.
Think about what happens if you don’t risk
Such thoughts will help you to evaluate everything and take risks for the sake of life. It is better to begin in thoughts with the worst possible scenario.
And one more important moment. A person who has not found happiness in himself will never find a thing to his liking. Read also:
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