If you want to make a nice impression on a girl, then a few kind words said out of place will help you express admiration for her attractiveness and spiritual qualities, show interest and raise your spirits. The girl needs to be pleased with compliments regularly; she is a delicate flower that blooms and smells sweet in response to warmth and care. Do not forget that the lady is praised not only for her appearance, but also for the wealth of inner qualities. Virtuosity compliment, falling into the soul, the girl remembers all her life.
The ability to make compliments is an art. Remember, sometimes the attitude towards a person changes only because he notices and notes our strengths and successes. Such people know how to endear themselves and "enter into trust" in the interlocutor.
But sometimes good words are not accepted at all in the way we expect. Girls are embarrassed by too frank, banal, doubtful, awkward or pompous compliments, sometimes they sound unconvincing, and this can even push people away from you.
Do not make mistakes:
- do not compliment the girl with whom you met recently with sexual overtones;
- Do not use template phrases, because your girlfriend is special, and this is what needs to be emphasized;
- do not compare: such a "compliment" may sound like an insult;
- Do not overdo it - too many compliments suggest a girl that you are mocking her.
For warm words to cause exactly the effect you are aiming for - to raise a mood for your girlfriend, to let you know that you are good to her, happy about her success and admire her appearance and character, you need to make compliments correctly.
Brevity
The simpler and shorter the "pleasantness" that you want to express, the more alive it will sound. Do not make long introductions, because you yourself can get confused in long phrases and confuse the girl. Forget about deep conclusions: brevity is the sister of talent. "You shine like the sun" - a simple phrase, uttered with an admiring smile, will quickly cause the girlfriend to respond.
Honesty
A sincere compliment will impress the girl and will become her delight for a long time. She will mentally repeat these words, tell friends about your kindness and attentiveness. No need to flatter, deceive, or wishful thinking. If the girl is not stupid, she immediately feels false and the result of the compliment will be the opposite. Talk about what you really like in the young lady, and do not try to impress the beauty with flowery turns of speech.
Effect casually made a compliment, as if by chance, "escaped" in your conversation.
Concreteness
Please the young woman with targeted confessions, do not generalize her advantages, concretize your compliment. If you can justify your opinion, it will cause greater confidence in your words. You can say: "You have beautiful hands," but it is better if you say: "You have a narrow hand with thin fingers, like a musician’s - it is very beautiful."
Changing hairstyles for women, as a change of fate - if you do not notice the new hair color or length, the lady can take it as an insult.
Depth
Remember the virtues of your girlfriend - if a girl has acquired a beautiful dress or handbag, it is important not only to note the new purchase, but also to mention the young woman's ability to choose things with taste or talent to look beautiful. Believe me, your words will not only please her, but also raise self-esteem.
Contrast
If you are afraid that the compliment will sound insincere - say it, opposing the skills of the young lady with his. Say that you have never managed to persuade the seller to make a discount so quickly, or that you cannot get such beautiful photos as hers. Do not overdo it - if you keep posing as a loser all the time, you risk "falling" in the eyes of your friend.
Attentiveness
Do not forget to praise for the obvious achievements, because success is a great reason to compliment the lady of the heart. If a shining girl proudly shows you just received a driver's license - praise, ask and admire. As if by chance, mention her past achievements - this will once again convince the chosen one that she is important to you.
Psychologists believe that we express our feelings not so much with words as with intonation, expression of eyes, volume and emphasis. Therefore, good words should be spoken boldly and confidently, benevolently, looking into the young lady’s eyes and smiling sincerely.
Remember that anyone can learn to say compliments to a girl, if she does not regret the time and labor for it. Using simple tricks and practicing with relatives and friends, you can regularly delight your girlfriend with simple but such pleasant signs of attention.
