Love and relationship

“Women love with their ears”: how to compliment a girl?

With compliments for men, everything is simple: hearing a praise to his side, a normal man straightens his shoulders and mentally notes that, at last, those around him have begun to see clearly.

The girls are more complicated in order. But this does not mean that they can leave without words of approval and admiration.

Why is this necessary?

They influence girls better than diamonds, helping to gain confidence in female attractiveness.

And this, you know, weapons are more powerful than all the nuclear bombs assembled in one place.

Girl, aware of herself as a beautiful woman, even in rags, it is good and behaves like a king: it shines, inspires actions, makes wise decisions from the position of a self-confident person.

And the people around her see, read, feel this spiritual core and behave accordingly: they try not to be rude, to pamper, help, cherish and cherish.

What about diamonds? These are just pebbles, pleasing the eye - with the appropriate faceting and correct framing. But they are not able to turn a woman into the mistress of the world, if inside her confidence that she is unworthy of such a status.

Therefore, give the girls compliments when you can. For that more than once will be forgiven for the shoals in deeds and for life you will become a darling in the eyes of the ladies, who should not be tormented by insidious little tricks.

What could be the reaction?

Different. Sometimes very surprisingly violent manifestation of the response to seemingly innocently expressed admiration.

It all depends on your tone and upbringing., as well as the situation at the time of "speech", the mood of the lady and her confidence that her compliments are the default.

  1. Beloved woman will adjust the curl, smack you on the cheek and become even more beautiful, radiating warmth and remarkable energy potential.
  2. Raised adequate girl with a state of mind in the mode of “quiet princess-princess in good health”, will react royally: she will look into her eyes, and will feel the soul, will steal peace and heart, will smile and will pass by, having thrown up his head.
  3. A woman with an inferiority complex and a lack of male attention in life, will begin to woo you, like Krylov fox grapes, asking for new delighted exclamations.
  4. Only a woman in a state of complete nervous imbalance in life or at the moment will respond with a beautiful compliment with rudeness.
  5. The answer to a vulgar compliment may be a weighty slap in the face, and even more important if the lady is experienced in karate battles.

What praise do women like?

What compliments do girls like? Beautiful and pronounced in a special voice, a man who is nice to look at.

Because, hearing the admiring "whoa, who are you" from the homeless kind of comrade, normal woman starts looking around cautiously in the search for a man who can protect her from the impudent dork, obviously conceiving something unkind.

A general summary of the pleasant compliments is as follows:

  1. Girls like to hear approving remarks about hair, figure, dress, manicure. Especially if everything is spent on it a lot of time and money, and it was expected that you and those around you would react correctly to the feat.
  2. Active ladies are pleased to hear from a reputable authoritative compliment about well done reception.

    A sporting it, artistic, scientific, or some other, does not matter.

  3. For a blooming look, giving the girl similarity with the sunbeam, you can also give delighted exclamations.
  4. Want to cure karma and smooth over your past faults, scatter in praises for the prepared coffee, a special salad, another thing created especially for your arrival. If you eat a dish served with subsequent problems in the stomach, pretend that you have already tried and even gorged on, and then start an exciting dialogue or have some interesting things together.
  5. Designate your admiration for the femininity of the ladies. Even if she weighs 150 kg, it does not mean that inside her is not a fragile little girl, eager to escape from the adversity of being behind the prince’s back. And do not grin: in some real-life inches, such a peasant could hide with ... that you never dreamed of.
  6. Although our ladies are equal in rights with men, many “girls” are pleased when piled up for economic and housewife. Although it is necessary, nevertheless, to be careful. Some may, in compliments on this topic, see an encroachment on their independence, freedom of choice in matters of home or career.

Examples

How to make a compliment? To be honest, the main thing is not to mumble, to be sincere and gallant. In the sense of burning with the desire to say something pleasant, not disgusting.

The first is easy to distinguish from the last: would you be pleased to hear yourself following something about yours, sorry, your ass? And about the stately figure? Feel the difference?

About beauty

How to compliment the girl that she is beautiful? It is desirable without vulgarity, if there is even the slightest suspicion of an insult in response to such a confession. There are still "a hundred thousand words" in the world to express your admiration more gracefully.

  • “I was lucky to meet such a beautiful woman. It is terrible to think that our paths might not have crossed in this vast world. ”
  • “What wonderful hands you have: graceful fingers, sharp little nails. You are like a dangerous forest predator: charming and unpredictably menacing. "
  • “Your transformations scare me: every day you become more and more beautiful and attractive.”
  • “You're like sweetie: beautiful, seductive and so delicious that I would eat you.”
  • “You are a new wonder of the world: there have not yet been such beautiful women in the world.”
  • “Everything is beautiful in you. If I were a sculptor, I would only use you as a model for my masterpieces. ”

About the hairs

Compliments to the girl about hair:

  • “Hands and reach for your curls: it is a pleasure to touch this silk and hide your face in it. They are like a waterfall in the summer: affectionate and gentle. ”
  • "You are probably a hereditary witch: you have such magnificent hair."
  • “What an unusual shade of hair. Is it your home color or do you use some unusual paint? ”
  • "Your curls give rise to an avalanche of tenderness in my soul and a desire to do for you some kind of heroic act."
  • “What an interesting hairstyle. You really go. "

About breasts

The décolleté area attracts men even when the woman’s breast size is almost zero: there are many connoisseurs of a modest bust in the world.

But no matter how "talent" in this regard, nature has rewarded the girl, enthusiastically respond about him possible only in the presence of close relationships.

Otherwise, be prepared to pay for your long tongue with virginity faces. In a sense, for the first time to get it from the ladies, for saying, albeit complimentary, about her breasts.

Well, what can I say to my beloved in relation to her physical delights, I think orient yourself.

Otherwise, you can be suspected mental retardation or indifference to the girl. Otherwise, how to explain that your words are not on this topic? You are a man!

By correspondence

How to make a girl a compliment in the correspondence:

  1. Admire her graceful syllable. In the sense of clarity of presentation of her own thoughts.
  2. Enthusiastically respond about photo. And not a brief "loudly", but ask why this lady looks so happy in the photo.

    The more questions, the more opportunities for a girl to tell about herself - many women love to talk about events from their lives.

  3. Mark her amazing musical preferences and express surprise about the not spoiled taste.
  4. Surprise sociability - with a huge number of subscribers, or selectivity in a relationship - if friends are calculated in dozens, not thousands.

For wife

The more sincere compliments from you she will hear, the freer you will be married.

Yes, and to your misconduct attention will be less steadfast. Naturally, within reason.

  • “My you are a hostess. I almost swallowed my tongue now. And the additive will be? "
  • “What would I do without you? My clever you. "
  • “Can we stop taking you cosmetics? Why spoil such beauty? (Risky option: a spouse can be regarded as a manifestation of frivolousness, and can be accepted as a compliment to an attractive appearance). ”
  • "What a funky figure you have!"
  • “You have a special hair scent, exceptionally unique and intoxicating. Probably swimming in a witch’s brew? ”
  • "It is terrible to let you go alone: ​​they can steal such a beautiful one."
  • “My darling, my treasure. And in general, I am Gollum and do not want to share with anyone. Even with parents and the rest of the world. ”

To the head

With such ladies even harder than with mother-in-law: and they love compliments, and they don’t want to submit their views, which are flattered and pleasant to them.

Therefore, use only neutral colored compliments if you do not want to fall into disfavor and because of licking, allegedly, rudeness, ignorance and anything else.

Relatively safe compliment options:

  • "Look wonderful!"
  • "Do not reveal the secret where you can buy the same nice perfume?"
  • “Great costume!”
  • "With your arrival in the department, everything finally began to work as expected."
  • "We would go broke without you."

After night spent

Say something nice every time - it is necessary. In the sense of very, very.

Even when everything is fine in your relationship, girls constantly need additional emotional recharging.

And a compliment, albeit a short one, always in place.

  • “How good you are!”
  • “You're so passionate!”
  • "You are beautiful to the tips of your nails!"
  • “Without hair, you are good too. You look like a young witch who has returned from the midnight coven. Confess what you bewitched to me? ”
  • "I do not want to break away from you for a second."
  • “Let's eat and continue. I would eat you, but then what should I do to be lonely and inconsolable? ”

What not to say to the ladies?

How not to make compliments? Rude, vulgar only relevant if you know that your lady likes them. And there is nothing here to pretend with lips: all of us with our cockroaches.

And if the two are happy from the especially large and ugly-looking Prusaks, then they will be happy. Only others do not need the same “slip”.

Other predictable misses:

  1. "In your years, you look zashib." Like and delight, and like and demonstrate the depreciation, writing in the pensioner.
  2. "Something you lost weight." Not all ladies are obsessed with the idea of ​​losing weight. Some exhaustingly struggling for each pendant at 200 grams. It is now clear?
  3. "But you ..." That is, in something you are definitely worse than the others.
  4. “You are charming”, uttered in a condescending tone after some unsuccessful monologue of the girl. Translated means: you fool, you fool.
  5. "As a woman, you do an excellent job with ..." For such a statement will not be planted, of course, but his eyes will try to incinerate. And if there are connections, if necessary, knock out money on legal grounds - for discrimination on the basis of sex.
  6. “Yes, with this haircut you are 20 years younger!” This is your way of teasing, right?

A compliment, like the East, a piece thin. But if you want to be a padishah in any collective and at home that everyone honors, blow away dust particles, learn to admire others. Especially women. See how much more comfortable your life will be.

Compliments that will conquer the girl:

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