To many girls art to seduce given at birth, but what do you need to know those who by nature have other talents, and the figure is far from the Hollywood standard? It is clear that fitness classes, diets, beautiful clothes are very important tools in achieving your goal, but sometimes it happens that all this is, and there is no success, and it is not clear how to behave in order to please the guy?
No one will deny that the decisive role in the development of future relationships is played by first meeting. From how and where it happened, approximately 80% of further success depends.
There is an opinion that making acquaintances on the street is supposedly indecent, but this is all nonsense: the street is a great place to meet, especially if you are sociable and do not experience excessive timidity. The undoubted advantage of street dating - in his surprise. If a guy coming up on the street starts to shower you with compliments, then you need to react correctly and subtly to them. The main thing is not to replay. It is clear that if a guy makes rude and ambiguous compliments, you should immediately turn around and leave, because his goal is clear and to improve. art of seduction in this case, completely pointless.
If the compliments are unobtrusive, and the guy himself is liked, you can answer him with a restrained, supportive smile, show a bit of coquetry. Here the advice is that you should behave as naturally as possible, do not try to show yourself as you really are not. First of all, he will somehow feel it, and secondly, you will not be able to play the role you have chosen trying to please you for a long time. Gouging, harmony are the enemies of the art of seduction. Remember, men are repelled by women whose behavior is unnatural.
How can you seduce a guy in a club. Club acquaintance.
This type of dating also has its advantages. First, the guy in the club, even if he came there accompanied by his girlfriend or in the company of friends, is uniquely set to have a good time: the atmosphere of this kind of places predisposes to this. Here, everyone is usually open for communication and affable, therefore, to attract the attention of a guy and to like it when meeting you will not be difficult.
Ease, ease, aura of good mood - your faithful allies. The main thing - do not keep yourself detached, smile, thus giving to understand that you do not have, and there can be no problems. If the guy sees that you are behaving actively, that you are not a stranger here, but “your own in the board,” he will immediately fix your attention on you and will be internally ready to communicate with you. Feeling that the prerequisites have been created - immediately take the bull by the horns: agree to dance, smile in response to compliments, call in frankness, do not give up the cocktail - prepare the basis for developing the acquaintance into closer relations and deepening in the process of attracting the attention of the guy.
To seduce a man through the Internet.
You may have heard that dating on the Internet is a lot of timid or unlucky ones. Do not believe such nonsense! If you are not inclined to adventurism, and do not like to act at random, the Internet is the most acceptable for you way of dating. Today, there are many online dating sites that you can use at any time of the day, at home or at work. At the same time it is quite possible to get acquainted with serious intentions.
Getting acquainted via the Internet is also beneficial because here you can always not just choose a guy to your taste, but also make sure that the choice made is correct, without creating problems for yourself or for your attention. Yes, seduction on the Internet is, first of all, an exciting game, a kind of virtual scene, where every guy can “put on” any dream avatar avatar mask, or use a photo of a handsome friend. However, the mask hides the face, but not the soul, and very soon after start dating you will see who you are dealing with. Mutual sympathy arises only after both of you are convinced of the similarity of interests and intentions. And then without risk for your and his vanity you can “take off the mask” and transfer the acquaintance from the virtual plane into the real one.
What is the best way to position yourself by posting your profile on a dating site? Here there are some peculiarities, "clinging", the essence of which is to intrigue, arouse and retain the interest of the guy to you, because there are thousands of questionnaires, and the choice in your favor is largely due to the intrigue.
Of course, the best intrigue is professionally made photos, especially since the guys know perfectly well: women in the vast majority are not inclined to use other people's photos and animated avatar pictures. Remember: a good photo is a must for success. It is better to use not one, but several photographs, from different angles, in different clothes, with different plots, with facial expressions from carefree - playful to tender-caring and romantic.
Filling in the field "Personal data", try to speak about yourself only the truth. It is better to keep silent or say with irony what makes you not in the best light. So, an intriguing answer to the question of where and with whom you live (alone in the room / alone in the apartment / with her husband / parents) will be a joke, something like "In the subway with a manual parrot."
If a guy is interested in your photos, that is, you have passed the initial selection, then it's time to give him a powerful incentive to the development of dating, filling in the "I search for". And again: learn to intrigue! Think of a non-standard "clinging" of the type "I am looking for a guy who can open yogurts!" - this is sure to work in your favor and help seduce a man.
