We have been taught since childhood how to walk, hold a spoon, read, write and the rules of etiquette. At school, we study great disciplines, teach poems of famous poets and practice physical experiments. Nor are we being taught one of the most important science. Flirt and relationships. In this article, you, buddy, learn and be able to try new lines of conduct. Behavior that attracts women!
To begin with, we recall that there are two sexes on earth: men and women. In this case, a man has more similarities with a male lion than with a woman! Therefore, to understand girls purely from the experience of communication is the path to nowhere. Fortunately, there are such sciences as biology, psychology and social dynamics. And there are people who have tried to do this for you.
The main thing you need to know - women are emotional creatures! Logically convincing a girl that she likes you or having sex is a very unpromising option. If you do not believe, go to the street and try! So the most important thing in communicating with the opposite sex is to cause emotions.
The basics of flirting for men.
Be neat and well maintained.
For a man, natural beauty is not so important, but to be beautifully dressed, neat and smelling good is a duty! And do not listen to women who say: "We are against metrosexuals." That's bullshit. Believe me, Robert Pattinson goes to cosmetics more than the average lady.
Stylish clothes and hairstyle are very welcome. Shoes should always be clean. A good tan is a sign of health, so it would be nice to look like a tanning bed. There are three colors rule. A man should wear no more than three colors. The belt is always the color of the shoe. You do not know how to dress - read GQ magazine and start using the Internet on this topic.
The voice is the most important part of male flirting.
Heard the lion growl ?! Men who have a beautiful voice have increased success with women. And it is true. Namely, you need to be able to speak in a chest (velvet) voice. Fortunately for all of us, the voice can be put very quickly.
You can practice growling, look for exercises on the Internet or sign up for public speaking courses. And once you read this article, it means that you already have the motivation to do it. And women are programmed to respond to men with a loud voice. Feel free to speak loudly, but do not yell.
Instead of being cool and pretentious, be relaxed and friendly!
Be always ready to communicate with women. Be playful. When you go into any room or transport - smile! When you are relaxed, communication is easy. Playfulness - will direct communication in the right direction.
Eye contact with a girl is a part of flirting.
Always when you communicate with a woman, look to her only in the right eye! The result will be on the face. And remember the color! Attention to detail, a good bonus.
Challenge the emotions.
The stronger you are, you unleash a woman emotionally, the more she wants to see you again.
Types of emotions:
- laugh
- interest
- attraction
- security
- excitation
- fear of loss
That is flirting with girls.
When your every interaction with girls, makes their body boil with emotions. To learn this, you need to practice phrases, "male" chips and be able to change the direction of the conversation. You are a man - act! You are the leader! You are always in charge!
If a girl laughs, she is half conquered. An example of how to quickly cause laughter and interest in a girl.
You communicate with some woman (no matter what) ... Then you interrupt:
-Wait! Before continuing to communicate with you, I need to ask you some questions! OK? (hereinafter you ask her 5 most diverse questions) - Have you ever been fired from your job? Do you believe in fate? Do you often go shopping? Do you like pink? Are you afraid of lizards?
And do not discuss the answers. Just asked a question, got an answer, asked the next one.
Everything! Regardless of her answers, you say: "It was a test! You are awesome! Give me five!" and give her five, and this is a touch. This chip will cause her at least interest and laughter, because she hardly ever interrupted communication.
another example of flirting with women:
You ask the girl what film she would recommend to watch. Then you find out who her favorite actor. When she says, regardless of the answer, you tell her:
- "Oh God! You remind me of my 5th niece" and hug her.
This is not a lie - it is a flirt.
Do not answer directly.
Most men answer questions about their place of work, age and personal life immediately "as is". It's trite and boring. Try to tease a girl before giving out information.
For example, if she asks:
-Who are you working?
"Trade white slaves!)" Or "Repair disposable lighters!)" Just laugh it. Even the answer "What do you think?" better than taking all the cards at once. Intrigue is another key to success. Naturally, then you can tell the truth.
A warning. If you work as a janitor, you better tell me that the stuntman.
Compliment the girl unexpectedly.
Throw them like sand. Here you need to practice finding in a person what you like and talk about it with ease. For example, during a conversation, you understand that a girl has beautiful eyebrows. You interrupt the conversation with a compliment:
“You know, your eyebrows are very expressive! (pause) So what were we talking about? And you continue the topic or start a new one. It is important to learn how to throw compliments as easily as asking what time it is. When you're already in bed, you can hotly paint her, how you drown in her bottomless eyes, on the stage flirting, this is not necessary.
Topics that are useful to talk.
To attract a girl, it’s best to talk with her on topics that women like to discuss:
- Relations
- Horoscopes
- Magic and psychics
- Fashion
- Hobbies
You can prepare and read the horoscope or any psychological test. It will fill your communication. You can also ask advice, for your friend, whether he should marry a girl who constantly adheres to you.
This is not a lie - it's a man's flirt.
As soon as you create an attraction, and the girl will think that you are not an ordinary interlocutor, then you can also rub about politics (better not).
Visualization.
Say the word "Flirt". Think what you associate with this word. Find your image that will enter you into this playful talkative state. Now, when you want to flirt with an attractive person, use this image as a lever that triggers the desired behavior.
Man is not created to be alone.
We are social creatures. We are creatures that create connections. Sexual relations. Flirt for men - This is a weapon with which you can significantly increase your chances of finding a suitable partner and achieve a girl. You are interested in sex for one night or maybe you are looking for a wife, or you want interesting communication, flirting, this is what will help you to stand out from the crowd of not competent men.
I wish all men more practice in an exciting communicating with the opposite sex.
