Do you want to spit on everything and stop pushing yourself into a corner? If you constantly think: "Yes, it all went! I was tired of someone else's installation and my old life" - we will help you to understand. There was a wild desire to change the situation and not leave everything as before? Why the desire to send everything to 4 sides often does not bring joy? Down with despair and constant frustration - begin a full reboot of thinking!
Hard to live or begin the path to freedom
When there is a desire to ignore everything around, despite all the laws of morality? The mood to do what the inner voice says usually appears after a series of misunderstandings from others. Constant conflicts at work, quarrels with relatives, problems in personal life - a bit of everything and the vessel soon becomes overflowing. Many people ask themselves: "Why all this, why live like this, if they constantly get me with their moral and rules?" The desire to realize their interests and to confront everything around is an example of egoism, which is hidden in each of us.
It is important to find a clear distinction between egocentrism and freedom of expression. It is often stupid and senseless to think everyone is bad, to protect oneself from others and to show everyone how “you got me”. It is hard on the soul if you constantly live with the thought that you act as you see fit, while others do not understand this? Of course, psychology has its own side, when you cannot forever be led by others.
The golden rule of morality: "Do to others the way you would like them to do to you." If you constantly salt in the soul, are forced to do something that “turns up” - you need to urgently change the situation. No one should owe anyone, but one should not make the world bad, but oneself the most special. The ability to value one’s freedom, tranquility and the ability to contribute to society — such a combination distinguishes a happy person from a complete pessimist.
Why should I live - the question of the century number 1
The more a person visits the thought “I have no reason to live,” the less he is capable of sensible ideas about his own happiness. Everyone is constantly chasing goals that are often imaginary and imposed. You can always find the inner strength to fight for a place under the sun. A man of the past was thinking about space, sea voyages ... as a result, today we have reached unprecedented heights.
It is important to understand that people of the past were divided into driven critics who were not educated and cursed everything around, and those who, despite public pressure, sought to see the world to others. We are also today! Someone passionate about the idea of becoming successful, regardless of all misunderstandings, and someone is killed and does not even look for an approach to circumstances.
"Yes, it's all gone, I don't need to prove anything to anyone, even if I am not like everything, bad and wrong." Such a thought at the root kills the possibility of standing up and breaking the deadlock. Often a person takes everything to heart and after a few conflicts closes in on himself. The cause of many problems is the lack of new ideas about where to go next and how to find your happiness in the circumstances created. Lack of motivation to rise and start living from a different angle happens due to personal fears and experiences. Many are simply in a state of frustration and total obscurity. This gives rise to the very feeling of “let it go.”
Hike over the years on a not favorite robot, where there are envious and instigators, pulled all the energy? Are there any problems in your personal life and stresses is he / she sticking with food? It is important to immediately get out of the impasse and pull yourself out of a quiet pool. Constant immersion in a state of frustration and aggression completely takes a chance to get out of the conditional problem.
Excellent words said to Jack London: "We are not trees that are born to always stand in one place and not be aware of what is behind the nearest mountain." Many simply go into themselves and close from reality. The opinion that “no one can change me” is a direct path to depression, where there is little room for sympathy and love.
Why do you need to live and try to overcome the feeling of deep selfishness? Culture is what distinguishes a conscious person from an uncontrolled creature. What can lead to inaction over yourself:
- The popular environments of some girls are the courses “Being a bitch is good” or how to seduce anyone for your goals.
- Guys, it also does not pass. Courses, videos on the Internet "How to seduce the first comer", "she will do everything I say", etc. A one-night sacrifice for personal ego is a lack of respect for a woman and her moral values.
- Some people find fun and engage in unreasonable criticism of others on the Internet, real life. Their vocabulary is filled with hatred, and bad thoughts are difficult to control.
- Some go to extremes and find pleasure in sadistic activities. Those most cruel trapping of homeless dogs and cats, illegal hunting of wild animals are similar actions that have no morality.
- It comes to the fact that under the guise of volunteers are fraudsters who want to cash in on someone else's grief. Money controls their minds, and sympathy, goodness does not touch their souls.
How to break the deadlock and stop hard to live? You need to stop and not consider yourself bad. If you drive yourself to a dead end, then over time the situation will only get worse and will lead to destructive consequences for the individual. The action of such egoism and universal evil gives short-term freedom, but does not give complete liberation.
After relief, a new wave of pain and frustration sets in, which the man has driven himself into. From this and there are bad, and sometimes terrifying actions. It is important to remember: primitive joy is not the path to happiness. The opposite opinion of people is necessary for us to develop. Otherwise, how would we reach an understanding of our life?
Yes, it went all or the story of the life of one girl
"Why should I live when I am constantly like a squirrel in a wheel and cannot find time for myself? I suggest my husband to go for a walk, and he is hiding behind fatigue. To hell with everything," the girl thought. Anastasia is the mother of two-month-old Alina and two-year-old Alexey. I have a relationship with my husband, as in any average family. Gives gifts on holidays, once again does not praise and can scold for stupidity.
Today, Anastasia’s husband is just at home, so she decided to devote a whole day to herself and not to take anyone except ... herself. Phone, lipstick, sun glasses in a bag and only one: "Husband, I'm on urgent business." The door slammed, and Anastasia decided to go for a walk.
“I haven’t been alone for so long! I didn’t even think how cool it was to walk around the park, look at nature and not hurry anywhere”- said our heroine out loud. Inside Anastasia, there was a sincere joy that no one needed to rock, feed, cook these soups and porridges, wash and listen to her friends on the phone. "And here is the first stop - a cafe.
I’ll order what I refused so long ago. ”As a result, Nastya came out with a big strawberry croissant and chocolate cocoa and went to the shops. She hadn’t been buying things for herself for a long time, especially one! The children don’t shout:“ Mom, I’m tired , I want to eat, go on the swing. "Also this husband says:" Five minutes and went. "
Two hours passed, and Nastya came out with two packages of things that she had so long thought of. “It’s not for nothing that I looked at them on the Internet for so long and looked in magazines,” the girl said with a smile.
The husband calls: "Nastya, where are you? You have been gone for more than two hours already! Children want to eat, Alina screams in bed and asks for a walk. Let's go home quickly, I do not know what to do!". The answer came: "In the kitchen in the table, milk mixture, prepare according to the instructions. Take the toys and play with the child. Leshke boil the buckwheat and do not give a lot of sweets. And clean the potatoes for dinner. I have been waiting for your brand from you" hung up.
At heart, the girl felt that she had not been able to afford for so long - inner freedom. “I’ve gotten tired of always coming up with excuses, which isn’t today, but tomorrow, I’ll now periodically arrange such anti-stress days.” Nastya, filled with energy, took a cappuccino at a nearby kiosk and slowly went home, admiring the setting sun.
If the thought visits you: “Let it go, everything!” - take time for yourself without a twinge of conscience. It is important not to stay away from responsibility for a long time, where your own debt lies. Appreciate yourself and others - perhaps the main balance of our existence. If the article was useful to you, share it with friends!
