Most young people don't see your life without love. Everybody dreams to meet his “soul mate” and to know all the delights of love relationships.
However, in practice, everything is much more complicated. Often dating lead to nothing, and if there is any sympathy, then soon instead of it there is only irritation. As a result, many people are disappointed in this lesson and give preference to proud loneliness.
But sometimes it happens that love comes by itself. And in this case, the person experiences feelings previously unknown to him that are difficult to give any assessment.
That is why in numerous Internet forums devoted to relationships, from time to time there is a question: “What to do if a boy fell in love with you?”. In this article we will try to understand this difficult situation.
How to understand that you are not indifferent?
All kinds of tokens in your direction - the first sign that someone has fallen in love with you.
A man in love may act forward, speaking directly about his feelings, or making small but numerous hints.
With the first option, everything is clear: the phrase "I love you" must be given some kind of answer. If it is positive, then such a pair can only wish happiness. How to behave in the case of non-reciprocal sympathy, read below.
The option with hints is much more difficult, because there is no absolute certainty about the serious intentions of a man in love. A girl or a guy can use both simple methods of conveying his messages, and the most sophisticated methods.
The classic of the genre is the abundant affixing of likes on the page of a beloved person on social networks. Particularly romantic people can send paper letters and leave notes.
Do not forget about social engineering when a person extracts the necessary information not only on the Internet, but also through friends and acquaintances of a guy (girl).
This is only the first stage of dating, after successfully overcoming which the boy or girl is trying to get close to the object of their adoration. A man in love tries to always be in sight, so that when there is the slightest need to be close.
However, there are cases when a boy or girl in love behave a little inadequately in the presence of his chosen one or chosen one.
Confused speech, clumsy movements, sudden shyness - all this testifies to a strong empathy, which is rather difficult to restrain.
Unspoken feelings can sometimes be put on gifts and readiness to help Anytime.
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Psychology and causes
A man you don't like falls in love with you? Most often it happens that way. For example, a guy likes a girl he doesn’t care about, and the other girl who falls in love with him is left alone because his heart is already taken.
Some people do not want to put up with an unrequited love, and make various attempts to reach the person they like. Of course, this causes even more rejection.
Why it happens? First, the man who fell in love immediately puts himself in the position of asking. It is he (she) who demands love from you, and not vice versa.
Impossibility to give him what he (she) wants, leads a person into a psychological dead end.
Secondly, great importance is the appearance boyfriend or girlfriend
Even if he (she) has fantastic beauty, it may not be the very highlight, thanks to which even objectively scary people enjoy success among the opposite sex.
In addition, the external data of a person can remind of other people with whom unpleasant life situations are associated.
Character, upbringing and social status of a person also play an important role in building relationships.
An aggressive, rude, stupid country girl will never arouse sympathy in a calm, educated and educated intellectual. Accordingly, the swearing habalka is unlikely to enjoy a quiet and polite young man.
How to behave if sympathy is not mutual?
In this situation, you must immediately make it clear to the person that he full of false hopes.
If there is no pronounced rejection, then it is desirable to make it as soft as possible.
Is a guy or girl calling for a joint event visit? Say what are waiting for you urgent business.
Does he or she constantly offer any help?
Thank and politely refuse. The same should be done when a person tries to give you a gift.
By accepting it, you will automatically feel obliged - this is what the boy or girl in love with you is counting on.
If a person makes you disgusted, then stand on ceremony with him not worth it. As a rule, such negative feelings provoke sassy, aggressive, ill-mannered people. Such a person will not catch your hints.
Moreover, the lack of reaction only provoke a lover a person in you that will make him seek your favor even more actively. Only a solid “no” can stop this madness.
What if you fell in love?
Girl
If the appearance and manners of the girl seem attractive to you, then you can give her a chance to prove herself. It is likely that she will be an interesting and deep person with whom you can have a good time.
Subsequently, a fun pastime can grow into something more: into joint activities, living and even marriage.
Favormanifested in the first stage of dating, can give you a loving, beautiful and loyal wife.
If a girl is less than eighteen years old, and you are significantly more, then you should think well about the development of relations with her.
At this age, girls still do not know what they really want, and every day experimenting with their lives.
In addition, although the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation allows sexual contact with girls who are already sixteen years old, in practice all this can turn out to be big problems for you.
Guy
It works the same advice as in the previous paragraph. The guy is handsome, intelligent and educated? Try to respond to his sympathy., you will not lose anything.
It is possible that your responsiveness will instill in him confidence in his own strength and inexhaustible energy, which he will direct to the development of his professional or creative activity.
You, being its activator, can share with him the successes and joys of life.
Remember that young people aged 20 to 30 years harder to find a matethan teens or mature men.
Many guys in this period have no relationship experience or it is too small to easily overcome their embarrassment and fear of being rejected.
At the same time young guy is in limbo, attending school or starting a career in any field.
In other words, he most likely has no serious material benefits. For many modern young people (boys and girls) this is a serious limitation.
Therefore, if the guy still expressed his feelings towards you, be aware - he thought it over carefully and is ready to be with you.
Pupil
The unexpected love of a student or student for a teacher is another sedative pill funds in his daily diet.
Here, not only a significant difference in age and education, but also professional ethics.
If the teacher works at school, then he should use all your teaching skills and try to convey to the teenager that her love is fleeting and soon passes.
It is likely that at first the student or student will blindly deny such statements and prove your sympathy more active. Frank provocations and "cunning" intrigues are possible, aimed at conquering the beloved teacher.
If a teacher fails to instill in a teenager the futility of his actions, it is necessary to be steadfast, and just wait for the completion of his studies.
Anyway, reporting a similar situation to the parents of a teenager is not worth.
You will forever lose the trust of the child and may incur unnecessary suspicions that may cost you a reputation and career.
University teachers easier - their students are adults. Accordingly, possible problems with parents and superiors are excluded. If you are not confused by the age difference, you may well respond to the sympathy of the student or the student.
Should I try to start a relationship?
The answer to this question depends on many factors, the main of which is your wish.
If you are satisfied with a person in love with you and you want to be someone you need, feel free to go towards your happiness.
If some of the qualities of this person go against your ideas about strong relationships, then you You can remain friends.
Who knows what will happen in the future? Perhaps this particular guy or girl will be your closest person.
Is always focus only on your own feelings!
Do not let anyone decide how you live and who you love. After all, the only way you will become a truly happy person.
