Why do men lie to women? Why, in principle, do people lie to each other? And is it really awful? What is the difference between the "male lie" and the "girlish little wickedness" that many women's trainings so diligently teach? What is so tempting to get men for sophisticated lies?
First of all, we still need to understand the difference between male and female lies. The man is lying as close as possible to the truth (what he personally believes are true), and never heaps up unnecessary details. That is: he invented himself, believed himself, and then carried the written idea to the masses as the ultimate truth. All doubters - in the face. Not appreciated and giggling - even to prove nothing costs, not to mention how to make excuses. A woman, on her own tiny lie, will pile up a bunch of unnecessary details, will be confused, doubt, get lost, fuss, and, in the end, will attract a lot of attention to her lies. Obviously, he will be recognized, he will repent and will further complicate his life. A man by this time is already sure that he is right, and that "everything is exactly like this."
Why does a man lie to a woman, what does it give?
- These same women. We are all familiar with the very convenient idea of polygamousness, the need to leave maximum progeny, etc. Perhaps nature meant fair fight between a male and a male in order to survive the strongest? And gave the appropriate offspring? What for? People have come up with the glorious word "I love" (who has thought it up, we will not elaborate, but note that it is accepted that a man is explained ...). Women put these five letters into high content: caring, loyalty, etc., believed and agreed to everything. And that’s it, the fight of males is over, but nobody has canceled polygamousness. You can imagine how Don Quixote looked and thought? One fight with the mill will make any psychiatrist think. Can you imagine how healthy the offspring he gave? Exactly. But how to persuade!
- The feeling of being a higher order. It's nice, damn it, to understand that you are the smartest, very successful, almost accomplished, much accomplished, everything you have achieved. And further, according to the list. These are not the times and some difficulties. And what were the achievements! It is a pity that you, dear, was not around then. You would see everything (an additional bonus that the “expensive” one cannot check anything, believes in the word, supports, sympathizes, erases, removes, pours and further, according to the list).
- Household amenities. Let's proceed from the fact that it is a woman who can give the man of her dreams. Since childhood. A good grandmother can deceive and cajole and jerk with the boys on a fishing trip: she herself will compose something for an angry father. In general, mothers are sometimes thought of with a shudder: they believe everything without exception, doubt and the slightest sign of criticality. They just can not lie! It is not expedient to tell the truth: if mother is grabbed by a heart attack from the terrible news that a neighbor of twenty-five was seduced (of course!) By a graduate, no one will cook dinner. Wives and lovers - a separate category that deserves a special conversation.
- True wife. As we have said, women are not capable to lie competently. Trying, of course, for many centuries. But stupidly and not particularly talented, while earning the reputation of beings who are deceitful and hopelessly spoiled. Yes, read the statements of the Fathers of the Church! These certainly do not lie, neither women nor men, they say what they think. So, our incapable of anything more than forced good manners and make-up (by the way, also a small lie!) The girl gets the tenacious legs of a guy who says everything from point 2. His mother with heart drops thinks that our girl is the heroine of point 3, and his grandmother at this time is twisting his angry father (the only one who distinguishes the truth!). And at this moment the guy pronounces a version of the text from point 1 (in fact, he just wanted sex, but if it is so accepted ...)! The moment turns out to be historical, she still gets the status of a wife with all the ensuing consequences, and did this want a man? He continues to lie, he is solid, he is a family man. And the polygamous theory has never been canceled!
Of course, these are not all the reasons why men lie to women. As the great Disraeli said: "There are three kinds of lies: lies, vile lies, and statistics." Statistics, by the way, shows that favorite types of male lies are:
- hide sympathy for another woman - 51%;
- minimizing the number of "taken on the chest";
- 26%; - hide treason;
- 21% (sympathy, apparently, more terrible sin!);
- every sixth likes to exaggerate the cost of the purchase, and he, apparently, prefers to leave his darling in tension and loneliness, telling her about his complex and important matters, before setting off to entertain.
And you still do not understand why a man lies to a woman?
