Anyone like itwhen it is appreciated and recognized.
For the brutal appearance of the vulnerable soul is not visible, so do not think that a man does not need to say pleasant words and compliments.
Do I need to do this?
Of course! They, like ladies of any age, appreciate the recognition of their uniqueness and are happy if others aloud express their admiration out loud.
A skillful compliment, like sincere nice words, kindles a “fire” in the recipient’s heart that its glow is enough to illuminate the eyes.
Why do they shine for a long time, like diamonds in the sunlight. Sometimes for several days.
Therefore, compliments can be applied even for therapeutic purposes: if a man needs to be morally supported in a difficult period of life.
Probable male reaction
Further behavior of a gentleman depends on his sociability, age, your difference with him in years and status, the presence or absence of a relationship between you, his upbringing.
Sometimes if man much interested in you, but he is afraid to confess his heartfelt feeling, he may even get nasty in response because of the desire to hide his joy from what you paid attention to him. But sometimes it is, alas, just a sign of a bad temper.
So do not be surprised if, in response to a compliment, a man behave somewhat differently than you expected.
Behavior options followed by a general explanation:
- Sagging, straightening his shoulders and twisting nonexistent mustache. It is an adequate and decent reaction for an adult with humor.
- Smiles politely and nods, as if thanks for the nice words. Educated and confident man can be seen immediately.
- Do not give a mind that he heard, but will be flattered. The reaction of an arrogant or shy person.
- Filling up with compliments in return. Most likely, the balagur and the darling in life or you are just in excellent relations.
- Keep silent, do not mean that he gave meaning to words, but somewhere on a subconscious level decides that it is necessary to demonstrate more often what it has been praised for.
This is the typical behavior of a neurotic seeking recognition from others or especially yours.
- Blush. In love or just very shy.
- Say something coarse. Because of secret sympathy for you or bad education.
- Keep silent, confused. This is how a self-confident man behaves, or just thinking about something very disturbing at the time.
What praise do you like the stronger sex?
Adults are adequate boys perfectly distinguish between true admiration and subservient.
And if the first thing is their only self-love, then they feel warm in the soul only from sincere compliments.
Therefore, if you want to speak enthusiastically, but you can’t find obvious reasons, you’ll articulate the “far-fetched” fact. with the most natural look.
You can even first practice and artificially form in your thoughts the image of your emotion, and then express it to the person.
In the first couple, even difficulties with this may arise. No wonder the ability to generate thin compliments is called art. But learning it is desirable.
Variants of themes for compliments:
- Mentality, the ability to quickly navigate in difficult or stressful situations.
- Sense of humor, the ability to make fun of yourself.
- Skills. The usefulness is not the main landmark. The main thing is for you to demonstrate the ability to "precipitate" and pronounce the following admiring words with a special aspiration. If a man has a lot of skills, then all of you are lucky and especially if this is he is your spouse or close friend.
- Physical feature. And this is not always muscular strength, timbre of voice, density of hair, lushness of eyelashes, etc. For example, you can also admire a small height, making a link to the celebrities, the little ones. Naturally, the last word can be pronounced out loud if the man has an excellent sense of humor.
- Dress up in a certain style and select stylish accessories.
- Commitment to healthy food, sport.
- A responsibility for the words spoken.
Intimate compliments it is permissible to speak only in close relations with a man. Otherwise, the statement will look like a flirt or outright harassment.
And take note: in the topic of skills in love affairs, you must completely forget about your experience, which appeared due to past relationships. In the sense of no comparisons.
Even if a compliment to today's man is full of enthusiasm, It looks like an attempt to evaluate, taking into account knowledge of past men. And this is a reason for attacks of jealousy, neurosis and sexual disorders. Do you need it?
How to say compliments?
It is easier for women to speak pleasantly to others because of the innate ability to be moved by anything if it is a matter of a sympathetic object. But going to give a compliment consider circumstances and features of development of emotional intelligence of the man.
By the way, with compliments about the desired, but not yet existing qualities of a man, You can "grind" a gentleman by yourself. But the desired effect is not achieved immediately and provided that you yourself are interesting to a man and he would like to look in your eyes corresponding to your opinion about him.
Examples in the form of indicative factors
About appearance
A compliment to a man about his appearance may concern:
- The courageous bend of the eyebrows, which Khal Drogo would envy, a large forehead, hiding a remarkable mind, piercing gaze, driving into ecstasy or stupor.
- Color, length, curl, coarseness, dignity of hair. If there are none, you can periodically rub your cheek or palm on the “clearing” and say that the skin on it is very delicate and gives a lot of pleasant tactile sensations.
- Big courageous and dexterous hands, graceful fingers, powerful sporty hips, issuing belonging to the Mongolian conquering tribes - by the way, bow and small stature can be tied here.
- An interesting hairstyle, skillfully matched by the color of the wardrobe, elegant shoes, an unusual belt, bag, scarf.
Guy in your own words
Any compliment is expressed in your own words. These are not rules and formulas.in which you need to strictly observe the arrangement of words.
Otherwise, pleasantness, even in the topic and said at the right time, will give a banalism and barracks. And the effect will not give any.
Variants of the best compliments:
- You smell so good!
- You are always so elegant.
- How do you make your hair look like a hairdresser just walked away from you?
- Where did you get such knowledge in ... computers, technology, literature?
- You draw so cool. You have a clear talent!
- You're so gallant.
- Where did you learn so skillfully to drive a car, to clean floors, dishes, hammer nails, push upside down, blast hooligans, build a house out of cards - any skill you can beat as admirable.
- How do you manage to earn so much at your age?
- I never get to make the same delicious tea, coffee, cocktail.
- You're as strong as the Hulk.
- You have amazing eyes.
Correspondence
What can a man write on the social network:
- With enthusiasm to respond to some interesting photos.
- Praise the musical taste, taking into account the collections created on the social network page.
- Surprise text message literacy - a great deal, by the way, a rarity for interlocutors under 20.
- Express admiration for the thoughts expressed on some occasion.
- To be glad for his relatives, that they have such a caring relative. If he in the dialogues have repeatedly mentioned that he helps mom-dad-grandmother-grandfather, not only in word, but in deed.
In prose
Do not write laudatory "one", writing out many compliments, following each other in one text of a note or letter.
This kind of communication seems strange to normal men.
But it can cause complete delight from the incorrigible and exalted romantics.
For husband
That the spouse had the desire to do something in the family and for you personally, do not forget to systematically give faithful compliments.
After all, nothing is so "hit the hands", as the habit of others to perceive someone's useful and enjoyable actions, as a matter of course.
What to say:
- What would I do without your help!
- How nice that you have congenital straight-handedness!
- I'm so calm with you!
- You are my prince, king, etc.
- You are my Kulibin.
- My darling.
- I love to watch you when you drink coffee, drive a car, indulge in children, explain something to a child, a kitten, a dog, a hamster, after all.
- How did you do it? After all, the master said that it is not resurrected.
To the head
Naturally, compliments of such a plan must be as sinless as newborn babies.
That is, no intimate subtext and lizoblyudskih manners, if you do not want to turn in the eyes of the chief into an excellent replacement for the door mat or become an object of harassment.
For the same reason, by saying a compliment, do not try to make eyes or use special voice intonation. Better make your eyes childishly enthusiastic.
And if you have forgotten how such an expression is formed, give a familiar child an unexpected delicacy or a cute toy. In the process of transferring a present, look closely at the eyes of the baby and you will understand everything. Is the task clear?
You can get down to business using, as appropriate, something like the following phrases:
- You so clearly explain complex tasks.
- How do you manage to cope so successfully with such a large team?
- Excellent organizer, clip for a tie, a tie, a suit. The subject of a compliment may be a drawing on a shirt, a pen, a hairstyle.
- You yourself have targeted designers who have worked on the interior of the office?
- How well your development process is.
After a sweet night
It is not necessary to praise the man directly, for the pleasure delivered. You can do more elegant, hinting at his high spirits and excellent well-being.
Other compliments:
- You are amazing!
- I'm still dizzy!
- How I feel good with you.
- You're so tireless!
- It is difficult to break away from you even for a minute.
- What a pity that you have to get up and do not do such amazing things as you just do.
- You probably know some secret of male tirelessness.
- How cool that you are only mine.
- I am running away, but I will miss you terribly all day.
What not to say?
How not to make compliments? A compliment can cause offense, if a:
- To say it in a disappointed tone and with a sour expression on your face.. Of course, unless a man considers you an enemy and is pleased with your loss in a common cause or argument.
- A man does not digest baby talk, and you, as specifically, switched to the language to communicate with babies. The latter, by the way, may also not be delighted with such dialogues.
- From the subtext, it follows that you compared a man with someone who exactly surpasses the one praised in the sounded parameter. Or maybe, as a man seems to excel. Therefore, “you are the best” after a stormy night you shouldn’t say exactly - men have a special attitude to this phrase when they are tied to a topic about personal sexual relations.
- Said in the wrong place, in the wrong environment and put the person in a stupid or embarrassing position.
- The rapture is clearly fictional. This situation may even offend, if a person does not see evidence that you just really want to support him, but have not yet mastered the art of compliments.
In order not to be trapped with compliments to a man, adhere to the rule: praise real virtues.
And when you understand the essence of this art, you can move to a new level of relationships and with the help of elegant phrases achieve everything you want from men see them or get from them.
The best compliments to a man, a guy:
