It is unlikely that someone will dispute the fact that the feeling of complete happiness can not be without a state of love. In this case, we are talking, first of all, about the long-term feeling that a person is happy, and not about some fleeting situations that briefly lift our spirits.
The absolute majority of men and women dream of mutual love. People who have survived unrequited love know perfectly well how hard it is transferred and into which depressions sometimes introduces a person.
How do men fall in love?
All psychological studies and surveys indicate that men are much more in love than women. This is the weak half of humanity often the question arises - how to fall in love, if the prince does not come across, and even on a white horse. For men, the problem is just the opposite. However, temperament plays a big role here. Thus, men from the southern countries belong to the rapidly excitable psychological types. Men from the northern regions of our planet are much more sedate and less temperamental compared to southerners.
It is difficult to say for sure that it is better - going wild temperament or psychological restraint. Still, in human society, in contrast to the animal world, there is such an important institution as the family. And the family is the obligation of a man to a woman, a woman to a man, both spouses to their children ...
Knowing how men fall in love, and they do it very easily, any woman can, to a certain extent, manipulate male feelings that express an attitude towards her. The easiest initial stage is to attract the attention of a man. This is done with the help of clothing, communication, or even passing expressive views. The more experienced a woman is, the larger her arsenal of all the little tricks that can arouse a man and his interest in her.
In conditions of school, labor and other groups, where people can communicate with each other for a long time, close acquaintance is easier than acquaintance between a man and a woman who met for the first time. But, on the other hand, close acquaintance in groups significantly reduces the choice.
With the passage of time, even the brightest burning feelings of a man towards a woman fade away. With this in principle, nothing can be done. But it is quite possible, thanks to the efforts of the woman, to extend such feelings as long as possible. To do this, women should never forget about their appearance. If a woman tries to look beautiful and feminine only in public, and at home, in the presence of a man, she walks in an old worn robe, without make-up and with a hairdo on her head a la explosion at the pasta factory - such a woman will dispel the man very quickly.
Another way to extend a romantic relationship is not to converge for a longer time to live together. But here there is a risk of losing the beloved man, who in this case will practically lack any obligations to the woman.
How do women fall in love?
Most women fall in love much harder than men. If the representatives of the strong half of humanity in relation to the opposite sex aesthetic and sexual attractiveness play an important role, then in the price of women the reliability and decency of the person whom they choose as their partner. At the same time, it is important to take into account that young girls very often have this value almost leveled. But the older and more experienced a woman is, the more significantly her view of these things changes!
However, despite his age, most women really want to have at least some man with them. This is especially observed in unmarried women after 30-35 years. If at this age women have not acquired a regular partner - an official or civil husband, they are ready to marry almost anyone, not even paying attention to the appearance of the man. And this is the most insignificant mistake in comparison with the one when women marry without taking into account the character, manners, interests of their chosen one!
A man who sets himself the goal of truly falling in love with a woman will be very difficult. At the age of 30, when women have a more romantic outlook on life and on men, such a goal is more likely to succeed than in the case of older women. Okhmurenie schoolgirls or female students does not go to any comparison with okhmureniem ladies middle or balzakovskogo age. However, all the same, the chances are there!
Probably, now it does not make sense to talk about love at first sight, when the feeling of being in love appears without much difficulty. It is better to understand the problem of how to be to those men who really want to kindle a feeling of being in love with them in any lady they like very much. Here are some basic tips that can help with this task:
- be tidy;
- show only good and positive mood;
- to be sociable and communicate in a manner that is closest to a woman (you shouldn’t talk about lofty matters if this is a completely uninteresting topic for the chosen one. And, conversely, go down to flat silly jokes, if the woman has a high culture and intelligence);
- tell a woman about her feelings for her when it becomes appropriate (in no way be ashamed to say her the words “I love you!”, “You are the best in the world!”, etc.)
- do not overdo it with alcohol ...
In the end, knowing how women fall in love and what can affect their attitude to a man, it is quite possible to touch on the most tender strings of the female soul.
How to fall in love. From the experience of practicing psychologists.
I want to fall in love! How tired I am to be alone! - These and similar complaints from women and from men who have not decided on a regular partner, are often heard in the offices of psychologists.
Of course, each problem is individual and is solved individually. But there is between most cases and something in common. More often than not, the problem of loneliness is faced by men and women who once for some reason lost confidence in themselves or never had it. Therefore, it is very important to raise personal value and self-esteem in one’s own eyes.
As a matter of fact, for this, psychologists' offices exist - to correct the mental perception of the personality not only of the surrounding world and people, but also of itself.
