A declaration of love from a guy or from a girl is a very delicate situation, which sometimes occurs extremely unexpectedly and takes us by surprise.
The man said he loves me! What to do if you confessed in love? How to behave in this situation?
What does your recognition require?
And the delicacy of this situation lies in the fact that not always love is mutual, and a person who confesses love to us, may not cause us to respond feelings.
The most important thing to remember when doing so is a declaration of love for another person at all not obliged to reciprocate.
It is impossible to make a man or a woman fall in love - this should be known to everyone.
Nevertheless, such a situation obliges us to at least treat with understanding the one who opens our soul and give it appropriate attention.
How to respond?
Naturally, the person who opens our souls to us, hoping for your feeling back. How to respond to love confession? Especially if a person does not cause sympathy?
You need to answer so that don't hurt a man, because at the moment he is in an extremely vulnerable situation.
Try to behave calmly - because the heat of feelings and so will be present.
And in any case, you should make the person I was not offended by your reaction.
Can I just keep silent?
The etiquette adds to the piquancy of such a situation. does not allow to be silent in this situation.
A person opens his feelings to you - and your silence will be, at least, tactless.
It can become painful for a person, there is nothing worse than uncertainty. What to do in response to a romantic confession?
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What to say?
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If love is mutual
This situation she will find a solution for herself.
If you love someone who confesses his love to you, your feelings will help you to dot the i's, and your excitement and joy will hardly disappear from your admirer.
Do not attempt at this moment to speak complex phrases. - after all, in fact, a person expects very little from you - to hear in response, "I love you too."
If the feeling is not mutual
This option is not as beautiful as the first. How to express your reaction? What words to choose to make it clear to the person that he don't have to wait for love from you?
You can answer directly that you do not experience mutual romantic feelings. You have every right to do this.
However this should not sound mocking, humiliating, should not be a sentence - say calmly about what you do not like - maybe you feel friendly feelings and respect, but - no matter how hard it is for your fan or fan, the most important thing at such a moment is sincerity.
Make it clear to your failed partner that you don’t want him to be deceived and harbor empty illusions - after all, even a small chance of reciprocity strengthens the belief that a person experiences feelings in response, and the resulting disappointment will be even more painful.
- Keep calm - in fact, most likely, your fan needs it most at the moment. But this does not mean that you should be indifferent and cold - you can, first of all, rely on respectful communication. He must understand that you take his feelings seriously.
- If the situation took you by surprise, you can also explain this to your fan. Say that you are not confident in your feelings and want to be alone in order to make the right choice - at least it will make it clear that you take the feelings of a person who has confessed your love to you seriously.
You can ask for time for this - if you can not find the right phrases at the moment. At the very least, you answer sincerely, and this should not give food to your conscience.
- Tell us about the feelings that you actually experience. for this person - it can be respect, admiration for some individual traits - let me understand that a person who has confessed to you in love is not an empty place for you. Describe its attractive sides, make a soft, non-binding compliment.
- Try to explain the reason, according to which you do not experience reciprocal feelings or do not agree to see this person - if this, of course, does not degrade his dignity.
Perhaps some of his character traits do not suit you, or you see difficulties in further communication — this will be a real, sincere conversation about feelings, and you should make the fan understand that you also have the right to express what you feel about him. - Make it clear that you can stay close to him.that you appreciate this person, that you want to see him and need to communicate with him - he can see you, count on help and support.
Perhaps some of his character traits do not suit you, or you see difficulties in further communication — this will be a real, sincere conversation about feelings, and you should make the fan understand that you also have the right to express what you feel about him.What not to do and say?
What actions or words should be avoided if a person confessed his love to you? How can you not do in this case?
- Do not mock the person. The most humiliating and offensive for your fan will be your frivolous attitude to his feelings - and this can even turn into hatred, because, as you know, only a step separates them.
If you do not wish to make an enemy for yourself, do not laugh at a person who confesses his love to you.
- Do not transfer the conversation to another topic. - it is possible that a person dared long before pronouncing these words. You should not run away from a frank conversation - after all, sooner or later, you will still have to return to it.
Do not say a banal phrase - "I love you as a friend". We all know very well that love and friendship are different concepts and you should not put them on the same step. It is better to say that you need a person, his support, help, that you appreciate him and feel the need for communication - but this has nothing to do with that romantic love. Separate these two concepts.- Keep in touch with this person after your conversation with the fan is over. Write and call him, ask, be interested in his affairs and well-being, do not stand aside - perhaps your support will be very necessary for him at the moment. If you don’t have reciprocal feelings, it doesn’t mean that you should stop communicating - in fact, this is not the point in the relationship.
Do not say a banal phrase - "I love you as a friend". We all know very well that love and friendship are different concepts and you should not put them on the same step. It is better to say that you need a person, his support, help, that you appreciate him and feel the need for communication - but this has nothing to do with that romantic love. Separate these two concepts.At the moment a person is very dependent on you and on your words. And your attention can significantly improve the morale of your fan or fan.
The man confessed his love and disappeared: what does this mean?
And what if the guy disappeared after he confessed his love to you? What does this mean?
And this possible in both situations - and, if you reciprocated, and, if you said that you are not experiencing reciprocal feelings.
In the first version, it is possible that a person recovers from stress, wants to calm down a little after the experienced excitement.
Also he can wait for your response steps, attention to yourself.
Go to meet him, call, write, make a visit - you can even without warning - because at the moment a person really needs you.
If you did not reciprocate, and the person suddenly disappeared - this may mean that he experiencing stress. You should not take it lightly - love is a very strong feeling, and undivided, it can push a person to terrible rash actions.
Try to definitely find this person - through friends, acquaintances, parents. If possible, it is worth to be close to him in these moments, since he really needs support.
Should remember that you do not have to reciprocatehowever, the person who loves you is very dependent on you, and your words mean a lot to him.
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