The more energetic and active a person is, the more desires he has. Some of them are executed quickly, others take time, and some are not executed at all. It must be understood that not all desires must be realized. In some cases, what seems like an absolute necessity is not really necessary. And if the desire is not fulfilled - perhaps the universe just wants to save you. Nevertheless, when you really want to get something, then only one question bothers - how to fulfill a cherished desire?
Accumulate energy
For the fulfillment of a desire, it is necessary not only to formulate it correctly and clearly - it is for this purpose that it is recommended to write down what you want on paper and in full detail, but also to create all the conditions for it to become effective. Only you are able to fill your desire with such power - for this you need to really, really want. But this is not enough.
An important condition, which is not always met, is to let go of your dream, to stop thinking about it constantly. After all, when we think about something all the time, then, as a rule, we independently invent obstacles to the realization of the desired, thereby complicating its execution.
We do not limit ourselves in the options for obtaining the desired
A person always sees a very limited range of options for how you can get what he wants. In fact, the universe has many surprises in store for us. How else to explain the "miracles" that do not happen so rarely. Do not think that you know all the ways that can help you realize your dream - let something incredible happen, do not limit the Universe in the possibilities for the fulfillment of desire. For you, the result is important.
The sincerity and truth of the desired
Often there are situations when a person wants something, because others have it. Such cases, for example, are characteristic of workaholics - they spend almost all the time at work, get incredible pleasure from it, but they say that they want a family. In fact, these people are ready to fully give themselves away to work and, on the subconscious mind, do not in any way strive for marriage. They do not want to spend time on dating, dating, vacation. They are fixated on work and this suits them. Therefore, desire must be a sincere need, that which you live.
Laziness and comfort zone
There are goals that a person can achieve on his own, for this you do not need to wait for a miracle. However, people themselves resist change, afraid to let them in their lives, and do not make any effort. Often, people limit themselves only to fantasies, so nothing in their lives changes. Here fit to remember the old joke. Over the years, a man prayed for winning the lottery and wailed, “Lord, why don't you let me win?”. Even God was tired of these requests, and once a person heard the voice “Well, at least buy a lottery ticket”. The same happens in life - people are simply not ready to take even a small step towards a goal, not to mention serious work. This is especially true for large targets that are stretched in time. In such cases, it is recommended to divide them into small and easily achievable.
It is equally important to assess the consequences of the fulfillment of desire. Some of them are not being fulfilled, because their influence on other areas of your life or other people is great and not always positive.
For example, the desire to increase income will entail the receipt of a new position or the possibility of additional income. Thus, the income will increase, but the time for the family, yourself, friends will be much less. Are you ready to sacrifice something on the way to getting what you want?
How to formulate a desire?
The desired is always recorded in an affirmative form, without using the particle “not”. Clear wording is essential. For example, “to meet a man” is the wrong option, as it is likely that you will meet, but this meeting will not have any development.
It is necessary to clearly define the criteria by which it will be possible to determine whether the wish was fulfilled or not. For example, the fulfillment of the desire to have a lot of money is difficult to track down without specifying a specific amount.
It is important to designate the terms in which the desire must be fulfilled. In this case, the timing should be real. People often postpone what needs to be done. But after all, any lesson takes exactly as long as you can implement it. Sometimes something that can take one day of continuous work stretches for a month.
Be attentive to everything that surrounds you. For each person there are many opportunities to realize what they want.
But due to narrow-mindedness, we often do not even see half of them. And if they are those that are on the surface, exclude inappropriate for any reason, then there are only a few options. Open your consciousness, respond to all the possibilities that fate gives you - and your desire will surely be fulfilled.
Inga, Yelets
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