What girl or woman sometimes didn’t want to get into her man’s head, naturally, figuratively, in order to understand how he really refers to her.
But, alas, in relationships one has to rely on one’s own and others ’experience, yes own insight.
Psychology
Do men miss a woman?
Despite the more stable than the female nervous system, men are subject to the same emotionsthat the ladies.
Therefore, gentlemen also sincerely miss companions, girlfriends or acquaintances, if in the past there was a certain period of time when men enjoyed the presence your woman or interacting with her.
And the more thanks to her there were bright moments in a man's life, the more painful he experienced the absence of the one that “painted” his world with the colors of the rainbow or puzzled him with fun “fireworks”.
How bored men?
It all depends on the psycho type, temperament, education and employment of a gentleman. For example, at every opportunity, a melancholic and introvert will sit with a fixed look at one point, recalling the happy moments of sharing life with a friend who is absent at the moment.
But will not tell anyone about the reason for your more than usual depressed mood. Even the object that caused the world to be painted in dark colors.
Another thing choleric and extrovert.
This one, because of the mental agony of a woman, will start and give up five new cases in a day, will visit all the messengers, where his lady is listed as his friend throws her messages about how he missed you.
This is the case if she only left the neighboring city for a couple of days. If the chosen one of the heart already has the status of the former, then the bored guy will become systematically silent monitor tape activity ladies in all networks where it can.
That is, where it will not be removed from its subscribers. And in the evenings, if the day is busy with study and work, he will begin to extinguish his anguish with alcohol, all sorts of stupid acts and active rush for every single skirt that appears within sight and shows interest in the opposite sex.
Man loaded up with work doesn't have much time for sad thoughts.
Therefore, mature gentlemen who stand confidently on their feet in life, but who are experiencing temporary separation from their beloved or forever broken with passion, tend to go into business with their heads.
To suffer less from a heart wound, do not think on the topic, and how everything would be if the lady was here now.
And only in the evenings, if the forces remain to keep the eyes open, and the consciousness is clear, the most hopeless hours of soul languor come. From what they try to get rid of the notorious alcohol, again, the "new skirts", spree.
Boys of any age who have received a good education and are distinguished by a delicate spiritual constitution, if they start to miss a woman, go headlong into creativity.
What makes humanity and the vanity of the muse gain, and the creators of the great and immortal masterpieces themselves - relatively.
Because self-expression and self-realization is good. That's just at least sometimes lean your hot forehead to the gentle female shoulder still want. And to see sincere admiration in the eyes of his beloved - also.
How much time must pass?
When do men start to get bored after parting? The deeper the relationship, the stronger and faster reaction in the absence of the one that is able to kindle a fire in a man’s chest, illuminating his path in life and giving rise to the desire to create, conquer, and perform feats.
That is, if it is dear to him, then immediately after breaking up, he quickly begins to experience discomfort.
AND over time it will only increase, if a man does not take measures to quickly eradicate from the breast the image of the one you want to forget.
When romance in a relationship has no place for a long time, the picture is somewhat different. If a woman flew away from the family, then an attack of longing for a darling soul of an average man begins:
- As soon as it ends up barely in the fridge, a heap of dirty laundry grows in the bathroom, and in the body indistinct melancholy settles, partially formed by men's natural desires.
- If he begins to miss the background, for which he recently had a “responsible” wife, his brain was constantly cutting for one and one important reason.
- During the next evening trip to the store, where a couple in love was standing in front of the queue at the cashier’s desk, gently holding hands.
- When the bed and blanket in its sole disposition is already annoying for its size.
- After another sobering up from yesterday's party with friends under their own roof, because it's a mess around.
Signs of melancholy
How to understand that a man missed?
The main feature: often falls into the field of physical or virtual vision. For example, previously could not call for several weeks, and now almost daily carefully wondered whether you need some kind of help on his part.
Still signal options, which can be recognized that a man missed:
- Gave personally or sent by courier sweets, flowers, tickets to an interesting event.
- He offered to visit common friends.
- Invited to a restaurant, cafe, park, where they sell ice cream - it all depends on age and income.
- I am ready to fulfill those desires, against which I had earlier spoken almost in arms.
- Comes to your work or school, podgadivaya under the moment when you are ready to go home or for personal affairs.
What does this mean?
If a man says he missed, what does that mean? It all depends on the nature of your relationship..
The lover or lover thus openly declares that he is uncomfortable without you, sugar, figuratively speaking, is not sweet enough, coffee is bitter, and the water is kind of dry. And there is a hole in the heart, gloom in the soul, everything in life is gray and empty.
If a person is used to you served him as a source of domestic or even intimate comfort, then with the same beautiful words he simply disguises his secret desire to bring everything back to normal, when everything in his life was within walking distance thanks to your quickness, homeliness and accommodatingness.
If the relationship develops as in the first case, the statement “I miss you” is worth a lot.
Because man opened to you without fear of being sentimental.
If you just want to continue to use you, then only it depends on you whether the man will get what he wants.
Psychology tips
What can experienced psychologists advise to girls and women who do not know how to respond to hidden male confessions? First you need to listen to yourself and consider personal plans for later life.
If you want to continue the relationship with a man who has opened up a man or a young man, keep in touch and communicate. If not, politely make it clear that you do not see yourself next to him in the future.
Do not try to soften such a pill., continuing to meet only in order to declare the refusal later, when a man, in your opinion, will be ready for the unpleasant news. To the good it is not exactly bring.
What if the former guy writes that he is bored?
Show vision, be a little detective to learn about recent events in the life of a guy, and then draw conclusions.
And respond to them accordingly. In general, act on discretion.
His statements may be dictated:
- The ensuing enlightenment: the person realized that your relationship is valuable and expensive for him.
- Breakage on the fronts with other girls, and in your circles to be without a couple - moveton.
- Ordinary boredom: there’s really nothing to do, so at least with someone to spend time. Moreover, the candy-bouquet phase has already been passed and your mercy can be obtained with less cost.
- Some kind of profit. Maybe he wants something from you or forgot something in your home.
What to say in response to "I miss you"?
This is loved who went on a business trip you need to quickly answer in response that you are also bored. The rest - according to circumstances. Even the most good-natured man in the soul is a little hunter.
Therefore, if you intend to continue the relationship with this guy in the future, do not rush around his neck figuratively and literally after such news, if you recently had a gap.
Tease him flirt with him a little, which would be more provoking and interested in further relations.
If you do not plan to continue to meet with the guy, then his messages you can not even answer.
Not entirely polite, of course, but perhaps the person will understand that you do not want to be with him.
Although it’s still worth answering once: so that the subscriber doesn’t think that his notices do not come to you on display.
but in case of inadequate guy, it can only encourage him to continue to attack you with his confessions. Therefore, sometimes it is worthwhile to apply the practice of temporary exit from all networks and instant messengers - for a couple of days.
What to say if he asks if I miss you?
Again, consider your plans for him, the young man's sense of humor and current circumstances.
What can be said in theory?
- “It was also difficult for me to calmly wait for the evening when I could meet with you.”
- “Sorry, there was no time for memories — I was as tired as a hundred elephants on the plantation.”
- "Yeah, and me too."
- “And what shall we do with this universal problem?”
- "Let's deal with your sadness, let's go somewhere."
- "What kind of people, without guards and paparazzi!"
- "How old, how many springs, how many songs are sung with joy."
- “Finally it happened, remembered about me, hearty. You think I'm all worn out here while you are lost? In vain, my dear, in vain. ”
- "So why are you still not here?"
- "When to expect?"
- "Where will we meet?"
- "We know so little to awaken such a deep feeling."
- "Want to talk? Call back or meet? ”
Men too able to sincerely miss in their chosen ones.
But the latter are not always sure of the veracity of the feelings voiced by someone, and therefore they do all sorts of tricks for the sake of truth crumbs.
Sometimes it saves from unreliable relationships, sometimes leads to curiosities, and sometimes sad stories. But how your will end depends entirely on you.
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