Love and relationship

The ideal man: what is he?

The ideal man - what is he? Someone will say purposeful, successful, strong, the other will call the perfect sexual macho. Every woman has her own image, which can periodically change. But are there any similarities that delight and excite the beautiful half of humanity? Definitely yes.

What does he look like?

The ideal of male beauty has changed over the centuries. For example, in the 16th century in Europe, a man was considered to be attractive, who was pale, wore a corset, put on a wig, and on holidays he dressed up in satin, ruches and feathers. The Japanese ideal of beauty is a high-shaven forehead, always with hair tied in a bun on top of its head. But the image of a handsome man in Greece is still relevant. Take a look at the Greek sculptures, they all depict athletes who are proportionally folded, their faces are expressive, the features are correct.

In the modern world, male beauty is inextricably linked with the image of a successful person.

Here is what it looks like:

  1. Figure. The ideal man is tall, he has broad shoulders and a narrow pelvis. The developed muscles are also welcomed (nobody likes the beer belly).
  2. Eyes. They should be bright, expressive. And this is not about the color of the eyes, here everyone has their own preferences. A man’s look should be meaningful, lively, tenacious.
  3. Hair. The vast majority of women prefer brunettes, and this is a fact. But blondes and ginger don't have to get upset. The chances of success will increase if you put your hair in order - pick up a modern haircut, wash it regularly and comb it.
  4. Smile. A wide, open smile always attracts attention. Of course, the teeth should be healthy, white. Rotten hemp can erase even the most perfect image.
  5. Clothing. Some women prefer the classics, others cheeky sports style. One thing is certain: clothes should be in size, clean, ironed. And of course, not from grandfather's reserves.

It is important to note that women most value men’s neat appearance. The ideal man will never walk with mud under his nails, in dusty boots and crumpled trousers.

Traits

Today, men no longer need to hunt mammoths to feed their families. Modern women can provide for themselves. However, the fair sex still believe that the ideal man is, above all, a breadwinner. What other character traits should he have?

  1. Strength of character. No one dreams of a weak-willed henpecked. It is important for women to see in a man an inner core, purposefulness, will. Instinctively, everyone wants to be close to the alpha male.
  2. Mind. A clever man is a pleasant companion, never bored with him. His speech is connected, he knows a lot and can share his experience with a woman.
  3. Sense of humor. A merry fellow who is not alien to self-irony is always in demand among women. It is easy and comfortable to walk with such an orchestra. Often it is the sense of humor that helps in difficult times to keep afloat.
  4. A responsibility. There is nothing worse than an irresponsible man, he is not responsible for his actions, scattered promises, shifts his guilt to others. Only with a responsible person can you feel comfortable and calm, like a stone wall.

Positive traits of the ideal can be enumerated to infinity. Sometimes, they can contradict each other (for example, hardworking and devoting all the time to their family). And let these people in nature does not exist, but the right to dream at leisure has not been canceled. The main thing is to return to reality in time and not demand the impossible from men.

What does a woman really need?

A woman is an amazing creature, she dreams of a prince, and she herself lives a tyrant or a mama's son. The reality is that there are not enough sexual noble beauties for everyone and you have to choose from what is left. Yes, and many of the fair sex themselves are not princesses. What is so catchy "woman"? How to become perfect in her eyes?

  1. Admire, tell her compliments, make them believe in their irresistible feature. Remember, women love ears.
  2. Take care, take care of her. A cup of warm tea, a plaid thrown over its feet, cost more than the most radiant smile of a handsome man.
  3. Ask for her advice. A woman who feels her importance can move mountains for the sake of a loved one, even if she is not an ideal man.
  4. Do not let her offense. The ideal man is a wall, a man who will protect from any adversity.
  5. Forgive her. Whims, insults, outbursts of emotions - this is all so peculiar to a woman. Be taller and she will love you if you let her be yourself.

Finally I want to add from myself - the ideal man is the one whom a woman truly loves. Then the beer tum seems cute and dear. A loving woman is ready to forgive his beloved a lot, if not all. The main thing - take care of her and try to make happy every day spent together!

Irina, Moscow

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