How and where to find a man of a serious relationship?

A lot of girls, despite their decent appearance and good character, have remained lonely for quite a long time. They can’t meet a man for a serious relationship, and they sadly watch another girlfriend or relative marry. "Oh, how I would like for myself and family happiness and comfort," - they say. But where to get a decent candidate for the role of head of the family?

Where to look for a soul mate?

Most of the girls are the easiest way, registering on dating sites on the Internet. Not the best way, I tell you. No, of course, men you will meet a lot and very different, but how much time you spend on aimless correspondence and meetings, ending in complete disappointment. On the network, it’s very easy to impersonate not the one who really is. At best, it will be a hoax with a photo, and at worst, you will fall for a crook.

Therefore, for those who cherish their nerves and time, a man for a serious relationship should be found in several other places. You can:

Start a dog and walk with her in the park. Many men have pets. In addition, you will have a reason to start a conversation first, asking some question about the dog.
Look around at the supermarket. Perhaps the second half walks very close. You can ask him to help you get something from the top shelf.
Sign up for the gym. Almost all modern men go to the simulator. Even if the “love of your life” you do not meet there, it will be a great opportunity to unwind and bring your figure in order.
Sign up for a dance class. Perhaps you will find a worthy partner, because the dances, as you know, very much bring together. Here, even the reason for dating is not necessary to search.
Go on a tourist trip, on a tour. Amazing nature or stunning works of architecture set up a romantic mood, bring together those present. By showing your admiration, you can easily draw attention to yourself.

Council Perhaps everyone has ever noticed the girls who visit the places where true gentlemen congregate with the sole purpose of meeting. They just wrote on my forehead, "I'm lonely! I long for dating!". It is incredibly strongly repels men. Therefore, first of all, try to visit all places with interest and pleasure. Do not put acquaintance in the first place.

If nobody likes

It also happens that, despite the abundance of decent men nearby, she can not fall in love. In this case, a special psychological technique will help. So, what to do:

Think about what qualities in a man attract you most. How should he look, behave, what can he do?
Write your wishes on a piece of paper, separately character, external data, skills.
Analyze the list and cross out mutually exclusive qualities. You understand that a well-earning man will not be able to devote all his time to his family.
Think about what kind of relationship you want to create with your chosen one. Who will be the main family? Will you work? Rest only together or separately? How soon will you have children?
Now you will know exactly who you want to meet and will be able to understand whether a man fits your dream. Just do not overstate your requirements. You are not ideal either, are you?

How to make a serious relationship with a man you like?

Some girls do not know how to build long-term relationships. Even seemingly serious men quickly lose their interest or start behaving inappropriately. What is the problem that prevents such girls?

Psychological trauma, internal installation to failure. Often, due to pain and resentment, the girl loses the ability to trust men. In order not to get burned, she initially sets herself up for failure. You can correct the situation only by realizing that there is a problem. It is important to learn to believe and trust men; this is an important factor, without which a serious relationship cannot be built.
Excessive amorousness. Often, girls are fixated on a man, not really having time to find him out. They "dorisovyvat" his image as they want. Sometimes, under the influence of euphoria, girls even find confirmation of the ideal that they invented. For example, they perceive emotional incontinence as honesty and frankness, striving to get under her skirt as quickly as possible - as confirmation of passion and love. Of course, you cannot build a serious relationship on such a foundation, it is important to get to know your partner properly, in order to understand how you approach each other.
Lack of personal boundaries. Almost every man already on the first date checks how far a girl allows to go. If it does not clearly define the limits of what is permitted, then step by step it will become more impudent. With such a girl, even the most exemplary man can turn into a tyrant and rude. Therefore, from the very beginning, you need to understand what kind of relationship you want, what is acceptable for you and what is not.

Talk about the relationship between men and women can be infinite. The main thing is to understand that loneliness is an absolutely normal, temporary period of life. Do not be sad, it is better to spend this time on the disclosure of their femininity, the accumulation of forces. A day will come when you will surely find your man, even if not perfect, but near and dear.

Olga, St. Petersburg