That is the moment when you are ready to become parents. You are no longer afraid to spoil your figure, and vice versa, you want to gain weight. You dream that soon a little man will appear inside of you, who someday will surely call you mom. You look forward to when you begin to prepare for the appearance of the baby, you will equip a nursery for him, buy things and think about what to call his son or daughter. And it seems that happiness is so close that you already feel it, and it remains only to take a small step towards it - to become pregnant.
The content of the article:
No need to panic
The story of one pregnancy
Psychologist's comment
For some reason, many believe that they succeed in getting pregnant the first time. You probably thought the same? But the first attempt was unsuccessful. Pregnancy did not come in the second and third time. But there was already a delay, and you sincerely believed that at last everything turned out, even nausea began to approach.
But, alas, it turned out to be just a failure, and the signs of pregnancy are the cruel joke of your self-suggestion. Sadly, you have been trying to get pregnant for a long time, and maybe even years, but there is still no result and no. What to do?
- Do not panic!
- Consult a doctor.
- Do not dwell on the desire to get pregnant.
- Believe in miracle!
Do not panic!
Stop panicking for a start! Believe me, you are not the only one who has problems conceiving. There are many women around who can share their stories, telling how they tried to get pregnant for several years, but the evil fate seemed to deliberately not fulfill their dream. They despaired, believed that infertility was their punishment for some kind of error. They already did not believe in anything, but once happiness came to their home, they became pregnant, and now they have become mothers.
You, too, will surely succeed, if not now, then a little later. And instead of panicking, just try to understand the reasons why pregnancy does not occur. Remember that many women have gone through this, and you are no exception.
Consult a doctor
The mistake of many is the fear of visiting the doctor. What if he puts a terrible diagnosis of "infertility"? Or it turns out that I have a serious illness, because of which, in fact, pregnancy does not occur? Why guess? Do not you think that you have too much imagination? Most likely, your health is in order, and if there are any diseases, the sooner you start treatment, the sooner they will be eliminated. So, the opportunity to become pregnant will appear soon.
If there are no diseases, the doctor will at least give you valuable advice that will help provoke the earliest conception. He will explain to you how to correctly determine ovulation, on which days it is best to try to conceive a child, and what should be done immediately after intercourse itself.
If this does not help, then the doctor will prescribe you special medications and injections that provoke the growth of follicles, will daily monitor on the ultrasound whether ovulation has begun. Believe me, he will do everything to ensure that your pregnancy begins, because you are not his first patient with a similar problem.
Do not dwell on the desire to get pregnant
You are probably looking forward to a delay? Pre-use tests to determine pregnancy in the hope of seeing the cherished two strips? Do you even think that this time everything will turn out? You are too obsessed, and you need to relax, letting go at least briefly thoughts about pregnancy. You are tense, and nothing comes of it. Rest, go with your husband to the south, forget for a while about your desire to have a baby.
Strangely enough, but many women say that they became pregnant when they already lost hope or decided to postpone attempts for later. And I belong to their category. I also could not get pregnant for a long time, I stopped hoping, when suddenly a second strip appeared on the test.
Believe in miracle!
Pregnancy and childbirth is a miracle. And if you stop pessimistically looking at the world and let your eyes see the positive moments from life, then you will definitely come to a miracle. Do not think only about yourself, help people who need help. Start doing good, and someone from above will surely reward you for this with your dream - pregnancy, and then with a small child.
After all, how many stories exist when this miracle happened? How many people were saved, which in principle should not have survived? How many infertile women in the end still could get pregnant and give birth? But medicine in the fight against this diagnosis was powerless. But a miracle happened, which is impossible to explain. But the main thing is that it is there, and if you believe in it, then pregnancy will come sooner or later.
My history
And now I want to share my story. Yes, I also could not get pregnant for a long time, I was afraid to go to the doctor, I thought it was fruitless, and the desire to become a mother is my impossible dream. I hoped that everything would work out for me, but every month these hopes were destroyed. Tests always showed only one strip. And the delay was always just a failure.
I was tired of waiting, even resigned to the thought that I was not destined to become a mother. It's a shame and it hurts a lot, but nothing, I'm strong - I will survive. Days went by, delay again, and again failure. Already stopped to look for signs of pregnancy, stopped buying tests, because all this is useless, there was no pregnancy, and no.
One day, walking along the street, I saw volunteers who were collecting money to help homeless animals. I gave them 100 rubles, and so it became a pity for all these cats and dogs that I took and burst into tears right on the street. I did not expect this from myself, and as it turned out later, this was my first sign of pregnancy, to which I did not attach much importance.
A week passed, and I suddenly noticed that my cat was somehow strangely looking at my stomach, she did not take her eyes off it. And on this day for the first time I had the thought: "What if I'm pregnant?". After all, cats are sensitive animals, and they are often called psychics. True, I have already accepted that I can not get pregnant, so the test did in a few days. He showed two strips. But it turns out that pregnancy occurred in the last cycle, because the last menstruation was two and a half months ago ...
I could not believe my happiness and was already looking forward to receiving a gynecologist. She even asked me who I want - a boy or a girl? I replied that the boy and she said: "Now we will look at your baby, judging by the time he already has and the heart should beat."
Ultrasound and frustration, because the ovum in the uterus is not, which means "you are not pregnant." I went to another two doctors, the result is the same. They were frightened only by the fact that, most likely, I had a bubble skid or something else there, because of which, in fact, the test turned out to be positive. This is not a sign of pregnancy - it is a sign of a disease.
It was scary, but I did not give up, and literally on the same day I donated blood to hCG. The result is 49898 (if there is no pregnancy, then this figure should be less than "5"). Obviously, this is a pregnancy, but it was embarrassing that the doctors did not see her. Although other women with hCG = 250, the fertilized egg was clearly visible. A week later, back to the gynecologist, she was afraid to hear again that there was no pregnancy.
But this time I was delighted, I am pregnant, the period is 8 weeks, and the baby’s heart is already beating. Why it was not visible a week ago? I don't know, but maybe because he likes to play hide and seek? More than 3 years have passed since that day, and my son really loves to hide, even now he is behind the curtain and waiting for me to find him ...
Galina, Mirny
