The struggle for gender equality significantly influenced the formation of female and male character traits in personalities. Girls are taught to be strong, and boys are told that they owe nothing to anyone. This leads to an imbalance, loss of femininity in girls and masculinity in guys. The consequences are the inability to build healthy social relationships.
Men's character traits
To be considered a courageous guy should have the following character traits:
Reliability.
They say about such a man that behind him, as if behind a stone wall.
Predictability.
From the man is expected that he will remain stable in thinking, habits and actions.
Sequence.
This feature is described by the phrase "the man said - the man did."
Principle
When a man adheres to certain rules and his own developed system, he also looks courageous and reliable.
Straightness
Despite the fact that it is also peculiar to a female character, this trait is masculine.
Objectivity.
This feature can be expressed in the manifestation of independence in the preparation of opinions, despite their own dislikes or likes.
Emotionless.
Or a low level of emotionality. Dryness and unshakable calm are often helpful in business.
Uncompromising.
One of the facets of principle. Not the best quality, but masculine.
Realism.
While the girls are dreamy, men are more inclined to look at the world without rose-colored glasses.
Adaptability.
A trait that allows you to "survive" in all conditions.
Practicality.
Ability to find benefits and be enterprising is very useful.
High reactivity.
In psychology, this ability to respond to changing circumstances. Works well with entrepreneurial spirit.
The makings of a leader.
What not to say, and leadership is more inherent in the male genome, transmitted from primitive ancestors, miners.
Demonstrativeness
Its principle is well preserved by the peacocks, it is the males that fluff the tail.
Confidence.
In the correctness of actions and words. It is necessary not just to do something, but also to clearly understand why, then such a trait will indicate courage.
Female character traits
Femininity is manifested in such features:
Flexibility and spontaneity.
These qualities are the opposite of male predictability and consistency. To be called feminine, a girl should learn to switch quickly, to be mobile in actions, fluid in thinking.
Dependence on feelings.
There is a pattern: when a man is doing well at work, he achieves success more easily in his personal life; women are the opposite - they feel more confident when they have order in the love front. There is another extreme when a girl goes head to head because of a lack of emotion or a lack of healthy relationships.
Subjectivity.
Girls rely more on emotions and intuition; therefore, when building judgments, they tend to follow their own experience and opinion more than analyze facts.
Increased emotionality.
And again about the emotions! The tendency to exaggerate, hysteria, vigorously rejoice belongs to the ladies.
Empathy.
Such an enormous emotional experience gives girls the ability to sensitively perceive other people's feelings and experience them.
Mystery
No wonder the image of the mysterious stranger is considered one of the most beloved by men, they associate it with femininity. While women will be more comfortable with a "understandable" man.
Insight.
It's hard to hide something from girls, they have a built-in radar that senses lies and understatement. True, sometimes he gives himself, and the girl begins to "penetrate" what is not, but it is a slightly different quality. In general, girls are able to accurately analyze the situation, although this analysis may be far from male logic.
Defenselessness
It is born because of the propensity to fantasies, the construction of illusions. So that the harsh reality does not scare and absorb, many women want to see a strong shoulder next to them.
Modesty.
One of the classic features that, as you know, paints a girl.
Compliant.
Many girls (some unconsciously) show a tendency to submission. This does not mean that the girl will allow herself to indulge, but she will gladly give the reins to men's hands, and she will receive from this emotional dividends, including in the role of the gray cardinal.
The principle of Yin-Yang: the balance of male and female in relationships
Balanced relationships look like a yin-yang sign. Male and female complement each other. The same can be said about the character traits within one person. Ideally, the character of the girl should be 80% female qualities and 20% male, respectively, in the guy vice versa.
On the wave of emancipation girls actively adopt masculine qualities, while men master women's. Women strive for independence and strength, taking them away from men. Next to a strong girl, the boy does not develop, he has no incentive or motivation for it. Very vividly, this is described in Robert Rozhdestvensky's poem "Please, be weaker."
Self woman who does not need male custody, guide, generates a lack of demand for these qualities. A man for whom leadership is a natural trait loses him when he does not find where, or rather, to whom, to throw out his care.
But exactly the same a man without masculinity destroys a woman. Patronage, care, protection, manifestation of attention to her feelings give rise to the girl's willingness to give up the struggle for leadership. Many women show independence and strength only from the principle of "someone must."
It is necessary to understand that the imbalance originates in childhood and comes from the parents, and from how social roles are divided in the family.
Female and male character traits manifest in every person, regardless of gender. Girls boast about their will and integrity, men - infantilism and emotionality. It is important to learn how to use borrowed traits for good.
